Does being socially inept usually result in lifelong singleness?

[Anonymous]

I went to a large young adult event at my church tonight, and I didn't know anyone. I engaged in some conversation but I was incredibly anxious. I ended up leaving in the middle of the event.

I am normally a loner. I am 29 and never had a real girlfriend. I am very awkward and clumsy in social situations. My conversations usually don't last, and I am always having to think of what I am going to say next.

I am involved in a smaller Bible group consisting of several single men and I am feeling more comfortable in that setting now.

I don't know if I will ever find a woman. To make matters worse, I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriend or romantic bonds, especially from her youth.

Yes

No

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[Anonymous]

Well it stops you from being able to form a “bond” with anyone so yeah, you gotta work on it. Start with getting rid of your unrealistic standard of wanting a girl without a romantic past, then work on your social skills - this might be the reason why you kept getting rejected in the past.

[Asker]

It is very important I find a woman that has never had a romantic bond.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s unrealistic to say the least

[Nikki1989]

Here we go again, blah, blah, blah.

Why do you bother posting on here?

You ignore everything that is said to you anyway.

[Anonymous]

Definitely for men more than women since for all time men are the ones that have to do the heavy lifting in dating and when interacting with the other sex

[msc545]

You really need to find a different website and start annoying people all over again elsewhere. Everybody's getting tired of your trolling.

[Asker]

Part of it is just venting for me

[msc545]

vent elsewhere

[Billlewis]

It probably doesn't help.