Can alcohol be an excuse for cheating?

[Anonymous]

couple days ago my girlfriend was in a party and she got drunk and ended up having sex with a guy , i know that my girlfriend gets drunk so fast and when she's drunk sometimes she does things she doesn't want to do but is being drunk enough excuse for cheating?

Being drunk is an excuse for cheating

Being drunk isn't an excuse for cheating

[Anonymous]

She shouldn't be going out drinking to get drunk period.
If she is going to though, she shouldn't do so without you there.
Also, she went with her girlfriends probably right? Why didn't they look after her and try to stop her? Tells you that they are toxic for y'all's relationships health.
Then, she slept with the guy right? Well that likely wasn't an instantaneous thing, they likely were chatting for a while and their flirting back and forth led to them sleeping together.
A lot wrong there.

[shades777]

some people are under achievers, im gonna go out on a limb and say most people are thats why there's a so many cigarette smokers, weed smokers, alcoholics, people woth tattos they lack any type of self control and think its badass when im reality its makes them a poster child of someone you can't depend on.


i say that to say, if you cheat, you wanted too, regardless of the substance you also chose to take

[HelpfulWoman]

Never.
Cheating while being shit faced isn't okay.
Getting so shit faced that you'd "cheat when you wouldn't normally" is also not okay

[Nikki1989]

No, but it is probably the most used excuse.

[madhatters4]

no because if you know you are a lightweight or make bad decisions when drunk then you shouldn't drink to that excess.

[yulbsari]

Utter bullshit! If that were the case, then everyone who drinks would be cheating every time they get drunk. Drinking just pulls down the walls of inhibition and reveals what is already there...

[boggboss]

Would she be excused from going prison if she committed a crime whilst drunk

[Nirmroth]

Dont let her gaslight you. Grow a set of balls, regain your pride and kick her out.

[XingQi]

No. There is no excuse to cheating. I am not an object and neither are other people.

[slatyb]

Excuses don't matter. Drink or sober there are consequences that could affect theit partner.

[exitseven]

no. I have been really drunk before and I still didn't cheat.

[OddBeMe]

Cheating is incidental of deeper relationship issues. And drinking only decreases inhibition. So the desire to cheat was there all along.

[Staximus]

Leave her unless you want that to happen again

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, but like all other excuses it has zero validity.

[smashleyy]

being drunk doesn’t justify cheating

[jahaims]

No lol