Travelling abroad or staying with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,

I am a girl from middle east and I really want to travel to belgium

Magically, finally I got the chance to travel

But there is my boyfriend here, he really really loves me and he is the sweetest guy I have ever met.

I don't know what to do, if I travelled we will break up.

I am afraid to regret if I decided to stay or travel, I really don't know what to do.

Please tell me your opinions.

Travel

Stay

[AviatorTom]

Enjoy the travel. If travel destroys a relationship, then that relationship was weak to start with.

[mattla]

Ask yourself two questions:
1) can you imagine spending your life with this person? - if not, go
2) Are relationships or career more important for you? Will this trip make a significant impact on your life in the future?




At the end of the day you’re the one making this decision, not some poll or some people on the internet :) and you will have to live with the consequences for either one of these decisions

[Asker]

You are right
Thank you ♥️

[YAsQuen]

well is it a holyday or is it months or even years. Big difference.
If he wants to break up if u leave for 1-3 weeks i wouldn't even be sorry about the loss.
Anything longer and its up to you think is more important in life. hedonism or family.
Also ur getting a little old.

[KostasKouvalis]

How long is your trip? I assume you're not going away forever. He seems jealous, possessive and trust issues. If he's preventing you from achieving your dreams, toss him!

[Asker]

I will go for work , and for real I am planning to live there for a long time.
So we can't have long distance

[KostasKouvalis]

I see. Follow your dreams. One can always find another boyfriend. An opportunity like this doesn't come around often.

[Asker]

Thank you

[KostasKouvalis]

You're welcome

[Lliam]

Why would going on a vacation cause you and your boyfriend to break up?

[Asker]

Oh it is not vacation, I will go for work

[RedInnocent68]

If that’s enough to break up, he doesn’t really love you, and he’s not that sweet. Travel. You’ll regret it more in the long run if you don’t.

[Anonymous]

Why doesn’t he go with you? Why would you break up if you traveled?

[Asker]

We live in a poor country with a weak passport that I hardly got my visa to belgium already
But no way he can.

[Opinion Owner]

How long are you going for?

[Asker]

8 months and I will apply in a university or something
I don't wanna live in my country

[Opinion Owner]

No wonder he’s upset

[Asker]

Yes ofc he is, me too
But this is what I have been working on before even knowing him

[Opinion Owner]

You guys work it out

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you known him? Do you love each other?

[Anonymous]

Boyfriend will come n go but this kind of opportunity come rare..
Go live your dream girl