It's not about what he should do, but about what works best for the two of you and your long-term objectives. If you have him stay with you, that may be seen as an invitation for sex. If he feels you're too easy, allowing sex before a legitimate connection has been formed, he is likely to lose interest faster.
Most girls feel a strong commitment when they've been penetrated, unless it was due to rape. Most guys, on the other hand, feel a strong need to disconnect after ejaculating, if an emotional bond hasn't been established beforehand. It may be a genetic tendency based on the concept of diversifying the species.
It's not my place to tell you what you should do, but think about your long-term objectives before making impulsive decisions. You're more likely to reach your long-term objectives when everything is fully discussed before taking action regarding something new. Learn where both of you are coming from and what the new option means to the person and how it will likely impact that person.
Set up a place for him to sleep if you do not plan to have sex with him. He does not have to stay in a hotel.
Opinion
0Opinion
The only opinion from guys was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
You can also add your opinion below!
