Polls: Dating

I really just got to know the results of this pole?

Okay, the woman's 40, she has two biological kids and three step kids from a previous marriage. So 5 kids, her youngest is 20, is pregnant and lives in the same home as her, with a due date of 1 September.

The grand child will be born from her 20 year old, single, dads out of picture, and the grand baby will live at her house with the 20 year old daughter.

This women also has two jobs. Not because she needs two jobs... but because she loves them both so much.

Se says she will not make plans to meet me, until after tje baby is born... which is roughly two weeks away.

Seriously how's this women lifestyle conductive to dating in any way?

Bear in mind the person in question is kind and funny but quite introverted. This person is also good with kids, is ready to buy a house and isn't a man child, would you still consider giving this person a chance?

Yes, I’m single and not looking to date anyone. Get over it

So, you connect with woman online a week ago. You chat for a few days; you exchange numbers, and you talk on the phone that Monday. So, you have been texting for about four days prior to your first phone call. Now mind you her activity bubble on the site stays green, like all the time.

Monday - she says she has Friday and Saturday off work, but maybe Friday you can get together.

Wednesday - You been texting at least three or four times a day... you ask her if Friday is still a good day, and if you can give her call on Thursday to discuss making plans. She says that she thinks we could definitely work something out.

Thursday- you text her and ask if she has time for a quick phone call. She says she is getting ready for work. So, you text her and say no worries, I just need to know if Friday is a yes or no.

She replies with I am sorry, but I made plans to go do something with a girlfriend, and she makes no comment about Saturday being an option.

Now I know what I said and did. But what I want to ask you all, is do you think she is really going out with a girlfriend, just brushing me off, or seeing another guy?

I m from Turkey. 5 feet 11 inches is a tall stature for a man in Turkey. Is it the same in your countries?

My stance is that if you look at your grandad, he could get a woman 5X the quality (virgin, cooks/cleans, obedient), just because he has a degree.

Whereas now;

You have to have your whole life in order, intelligent, money, hardworking, tall, fit everything, handsome.

For what? A girl that jumps across guys and doesn’t treat you with the true respect men deserve.

Do you agree? Just an observation. It’s so common to meet a girl that’s talking to multiple guys at once and just playing some game.