If everyone in your life can't stand the person you are dating then are they crazy or are you blind?

[coachTanthony]

They are crazy

I am probably blind

[ShadowYamihiro]

Not all people can simply click together and be friends right away. It takes time but most importantly its up to you to play attention to both your girlfriend/boyfriend and your friends/family etc and see what the real problem is. Perhaps neither are even giving the chance to other to show who they are and simply dislike them without trying to actually get to know them, it could also be the fault of girlfriend/boyfriend or friends/family etc and they are the one who are disrespecting the other without any good reason. So never be blind, pay attention to why and it can be resolved by talking to the ones at fault here. If they are completely at fault here and still refuse to listen then cut them off, be it a friendship or relationship depending who is at fault. You deserve to have toxic free life (or at least as less toxic as possible, life itself it toxic in some ways). If its the girlfriend/boyfriend's fault then talk it out or break up if they refuse to change because losing your trusted friends or family cause of them will be your biggest regret. If its that friends/family at fault, then again talk it out, if they refuse to change then tell them to call you or something when they change your mind. If that girlfriend/boyfriend was truly not in fault here and you are happy with them then those friends/family don't have your best interest and well being in they hearts and you deserve to have people who do. Your happiness matters, and if someone who is clearly at fault here can't be happy for you then you don't need those people

[JustinTheGreat]

You’re blind. There’s no way that everyone you know dislikes someone for no reason.

[DizzyDesii]

I rarely care what the fam thinks of me, so i definitely wouldn't pay much attention to any negative opinion they have regarding the guy I date. Yea I’d probably be blind to the situation but I also know family be straight hatin sometimes

[mandyfire98]

I'm probably just blind to it. If everyone around me hates my partner then there's probably something definitely wrong.

[shades777]

And when do you live for you, this lifetime or the next? could just a lesson you needed to learn

[YesterdaysChild]

Friends and family have a 6th sense when we don't have a clue. Sometimes you probably have to listen or be back in here posting a new question of "What was I thinking?"

[Avicenna]

You're probably blind. There can be exceptions, though.

[Pinay_ako]

I’m blind and they maybe right.

[ohsheeT]

I would say it's probably both but it's your choice on how crazy you want to be or how blind you want to be because no matter what it's going to be an experience and you're going to take away something positive from it no matter how bad it is there will be a positive from it after all the dust is settled

[Anonymous]

That depends on who is in your life, and why they are in your life. Not everyone has soo many people in their life, and many of those people don't have the best friends.

For example stay away from women who are friends with other single or divorced women. Lot of women are selfish and like to sabotage each other's relationships out of jealousy or mere desire for more time with their friends.

I would generally assume that her parents are the best judge, but if her parents are divorced, then the single mom may do the same thing simply because she wants to keep her daughter for herself.

[loveslongnails]

"Everyone in your life" is a LOT of people coach! I would have to say if EVERY person you know whose opinion you care about thinks your new dating partner is horrible, you should take a step back and ask them "why", specifically.

[NathanDavis]

yeah, in my case... I would be the crazy blind both... lol

the people in my life would never say any of this, unless it were to be a truly extraordinary case, lol

[lilithscandle]

It’s not an either or. You could be in a poor environment around the crappiest of people who all have bad judgement, or you could be surrounded by people who have experienced and learned from the things you’re currently experiencing and learning. Having values and sticking to them is important, as is knowing what you deserve and excepting nothing less. but being able to listen to why people around you may think that can help as well.

[LazerBean]

Unless you also have bad taste in friends and come from a trashy family, you're blind.

[Rei13]

I think it is a mixture of both tbh, but more strongly on the side of you just being blind to it

[msc545]

It's a good indication you aren't being truthful with yourself.

[strateguy632]

sometimes they are crazy but if they warn with a reason, that can help if i am blind.

[Anpu23]

Its usually that one of you is missing something. And if that something isn't obvious to you, you are blind.

[zagor]

My brother dated a girl my family and his friends couldn't stand. I think he couldn't see past her (considerable) boobs.

Fortunately it didn't last.

[236color]

Not sure, could go either way. I did have a friend that married someone we told her not to and it crashed and burned in 11 months. On the other hand my mom hated my wife till the day she died, we had our 35th anniversary last month.

[Unit1]

I'm crazy and hated for being different. I embrace it.

It is also probably the reason I have few real world friends.

[Guardian45]

That unfortunately happened to me! I married, then divorced the biatch!

[Anonymous]

They something that I can't see... I am blind by the fact that I like him.

[Jaximus-Lion]

I must be blind. This comes from experience (twice) and those who are around me (my brother included).

[molonski2]

Don't think its Black/ White , if its all of them then its certainly something you need to consider , as love can be blind.

[Jazzy54]

If it’s more than one person, they might be seeing something that you’re not. Therefore, I’d take their concerns into consideration.

[ChooChooHaha]

I wouldn't even care.

They aren't with this person like that.

[OfMiceandMen]

I've never had that problem. I tend to choose carefully.

[CallmeTheKnight]

If it’s everyone then there’s s problem. Not everyone is gonna be crazy and they’re gonna tell you why. This will only mean you’re the blind fool

[jshm2]

Depends on your dynamic, though. Could be you have asshole friends, or a broken family.

[Sweet_Loyalty]

Well you only had two options... however I don't think that it matters you date who you date for u... if they make u happy then it should be all good... sometimes when we worry about what others think or think they know we could be missing out

[Anonymous]

If all the people that know and love you do not like your choice, there's either something they cannot see going on or you are deluding yourself. More likely the latter.

[Anonymous]

Yea im scared most of my family and friends wouldn't like my boyfriend which is why he’s never met any of them. Im kind of aware about the situation im in.

[Staximus]

If I was dating a woman that none of my friends could stand, then that would probably mean I'm oblivious. My friends are all good people.

[Freyke]

There is no probably, I must be blind. Everyone also includes very trustworthy friends.

[Andres77]

I was blind…says the guy after his third divorce…🤦

[Sparkie460]

Probably a little of both

[clampfan101]

Probably both, but reverse.
I’m crazy,(for her), and they’re blind. ;)

[gxddess_]

If everyone else is against it then they're probably right.

[Guido]

Blinded by lust again. It will eventually wear off and then the cycle begins again.

[LavLavLuv]

I am probably blind 🤣

[Andres77]

Put on some glasses…🥸

[LavLavLuv]

Thanks 👓

[Anonymous]

I am probably blind... Well to be fair I wear glasses and have bad eyesight...
I've never dated anyone though, only crushed.

[shades777]

i can give a damn what they think about who i date

[Sweetsurprize]

Everyone? That's a lot of people lol.

[sheenagwapa]

i think i'm a good judge when it comes toxharacter

[spartan55]

Everyone thinks they are.

[siseñor]

@spartan55 i am a terrible judge of character 👍

[Nikki1989]

That is their problem.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m probably blind

[JosyJosy]

Yep blind as fuck.

[annabananna]

Depends on who is in your life!

[Kelly6]

mostly that you are blind

[boobliker]

love makes you blind, so they say.

[In_Trance]

Could be both depending on the person

[DreamLife7]

Depends on why they can't stand the individual?

[Kingofkings1992]

Who gives a shit what people think?

[Anonymous]

They are crazy.