Polls: Dating

Pretty much my love life summarized right there lol.

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What’s the point? I don’t care how hot she is, but I’m expected to do the masculine things. she ain’t gonna do the feminine things?

I don’t ask for much but a nice meal when I come home. Especially if you’re doing 70% or more of the income

I need incentives to get married.

Girls don’t like me. They might stare a bit but don’t seem to want to get to know me.

I look good and dress well, tall, always polite and respectful. I’m motivated, work hard and have a good job I can really do well in. I’m in the gym 6 days a week.

I do all the right things is what I am trying to say.

Girls don’t want to know me

A friend of mine is a doctor and on social media got hit up by a girl who asked for his number. They chatted for about two months and in that time she consulted him over many medical issues mostly hormonal, nutritional, and mental health. He estimates that she took about 10 clinical consultations / sessions from him without paying a dime. At the time he says he didn't think anything of it as he was interested in the girl and everything was going well. But suddenly one day she just disappeared in thin air, blocked him on social media, blocked his number and was gone. Do you think it's ethical?

Everywhere I look to find a girl, she’s provocatively dressed on social media, has a bad attitude, despises me etc.

No one is perfect. But dating is literally looking for gold in a mud pit.

Everyone else seem to have luck except me.

As a man I don’t see what value we bring to a woman.

All women I meet are all independent. Quite feminist.

I don’t really see what value is added being a man nowadays

I’ve had zero success with women anyway. I think I have to die alone.

Women have so much value, their beauty, they can give life, be nurturing, earn a living for themselves. Being a man is shit, women can do more. Women can even make easier money from selling pics of their feet.

I’ve met a girl and she says she’s had 9 inches before. Like wtf. There’s me thinking I’m really good 🤦

I asked one of my tinder matches for an activity date but she suggested wine at her place instead. I ordered food and we small talked on the couch, then ate and back at the couch again.

After 3 hours she asked when the sun set is, it was getting dark. (Was this my sign to leave?)

We talked some more then she asked if we should put on a series.
We started an episode and I put my arm around her and she leaned in on me, put her head to my shoulder and her hand on my knee. After a while we grabbed hands. I rubbed her shoulder and she stroked my hand on and off.

After the second episode I said that I don’t want to take up her whole evening (might have mumbled a bit) and she asked if she should start another episode or not. Which I replied that it’s probably time for me to leave.

(This was 5 hours in).

We hugged and I left. The morning after I thanked her and apologised for occupying her whole evening. She replied that she had a great time and didn’t acknowledge the time part. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. She hasn’t replied as quickly today or with as enthusiastic emojis though.

I feel like I might have overstayed. Or am I just dense?

I can’t get involved with randoms because I crave emotional contact and the feeling they are mine exclusively

This is just a copy of the same question posted yesterday, but for girls.

Link to the original question: Guys, is a woman who preferred videogames over partying in her teens, a turn off?