She cancelled the date, now what?

[Anonymous]

Hi there!

This is based on my last thread, "Should I wait for her?", so if you want to know the backstory, look it up in here.

Long question.

Why would a girl after showing zero interests/investment in me, say yes to a date, and then the day before the date, reschedule? She said "oh busy day, I'm so tired and I'm sure you wouldn't like to date me in that condition, what about next week?" .. Dunno if that's a legit excuse, but it's the first cancellation..

Story short.

As mentioned. This thread is based on my last thread.

I asked her out and she said strangely Yes. But the day before she rescheduled the date to a day I can't, which I said to her. So I put the ball in her court and wished her to recall when she knows a day that works.

Yet (Monday earlier this week) I have not heard from her, which of course aren't that long time, but..

Should I break the ice or just wait for her to get in touch with a new date?

Break the ice, re-establish contact as nothing happened?

Wait for her, otherwise ditch her

Benefit of a doubt?

[shades777]

i wouldn't hold your breathe, let her reach out since she cancelled, in the meantime live life and set up another date with another women.

[boggboss]

If you are going into this knowing she dont really like u to start with I would say wait for her

[Asker]

But by reschedule a date, aren't that some sign of interests?
I mean she could ditch me/ghost me anyday, anyhow...

[boggboss]

Has she actually rescheduled it tho?

[Asker]

She did right after she cancelled the first date. Unfortunately to a day I can't.

[boggboss]

Wait so she tried to reschedule u said u can't do it then what

[Asker]

Ok,
We arranged a date Tuesday (yesterday). But Monday this week, she rescheduled to a day I can't, next week.

by the way, sorry for bad English tho.

[boggboss]

So did u tell her u couldn't do the new day then what happened

[Asker]

Since she cancelled the first date, I put the ball in her court and let her come back for a new day.
But since she what I think showed a little "interests" before I asked her for a date which she said yes to, canceled it but then by directly reschedule.
I'm confused on so many levels.
And so are you trying to figure out the story, to start with. But a recommendation, take a peek on my last thread.

[Joker_]

Okay that's a tough situation, but I'm sure you can handle it if you think hard and ride fast

[Asker]

Sorry, I don't get what you mean?