Guys want to be desired as hot and sexy "hookup quality" even if they are interested in relationship only, they still want to be desired like the hookup guy and not seen as a relationship type being settled for.
He looks like a guy I would pick for casual sex (if I were into that)
He looks like a dream husband:
Both are handsome and liked by women but I assure you that the latter is preferred by most women all over the world. Do you still want to be the guy who looks suitable only for a fling?
Women aren't that different when it comes to this. Guys like innocent and "boring" girls more than sexy girls. Women also like safer looking men. We have that innate desire to be in a secure and serious relationship.
Do you not understand that there will be guys in the comment section that will disagree? I have yet to check but I am confident, psychic even!
Speak for yourself. I'm not interested n hookups and I want the woman to desire me for long, maybe forever.
I admit I'm a bit on the boring side, but the woman can be, too, as far as I'm concerned. There will still be enough to discover about each other and together.
I think that's a fair point because I think women want to be seen as desirable and sexy in the same way, even if they are interested in relationships and not hook ups.
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I would say that you're probably right about that, yeah. I think what you mean is that men still want to be seen as sexually desirable even without a relationship image of them in the picture. Which is fair.
I'd rather be the boring relationship guy
Having an older brother and knowing his friends for around somewhere between 10 and 20 years, I understand that a lot of guys in their teens and early twenties want to be a hookup kind of guy until they meet the right person. However, I also understand that there’s a lot of guys who do actually want a relationship, which doesn’t mean they “like being settled for”, they just want different things then the hookup type of guys. My brothers girlfriend certainly didn’t just settle for him. She could’ve had any guy, but she chose to be with him and they’ve been happily dating for around 5-6 years now. He constantly spoils her, is always showing her love and attention, always has his arm around her, etc. and my brothers friends who have girlfriends are the same. Of course, my brother is a frat boy so he has friends who aren’t into relationships and that’s fine too. Nothing wrong with either type, they’re just different.
men are naturally polygamous and often have to suppress these primal instincts within them for the sake of create a stable society. no man is gonna think only one girl is attractive and every other girl out there is ugly
that being said, it is thanks to feminism and women's inability to suppress their natural hypergamy that these primal desires within men can be met as long as they pass a certain threshold
the only difference between the nerdy guy who gets bullied by others and the captain of the HS football team who fucks all the cheerleaders plus library girls is the hardware and the software otherwise they both possess the same firmware. switch the hardware and software around and there's not much difference in how they operate
I hope that most women decide on a man they find sexually stimulating and exciting. I know that's how I've always felt. Maybe there are guys who don't want to be thought of as sexy. OK. It takes all kinds.
But I think most folks want to be desired, as well as be good relationship material. The two are not mutually exclusive. I think most folk want the best of both worlds!
It's not that they don't understand, they don't care. Men have been telling them what they want for decades... only after all of these guys start going overseas are they now making noise...
Sure, for most men being viewed as hot and sexy is better than not being viewed that way, but many men want to be seen as more than that. (same as many women do)
No you can tell they quite literally don't understand. Not sure what the reason is. Maybe they themselves are both the boring girl and the hookup girl depending on the time of the month. A lot of people just project their own identity onto everyone else.
I am proud to be in a relationship of almost 10 years. It is way more fulfilling than to be around for just sex. On top of it my girlfriend does find me attractive.
Sure, men are no different than women in that respect.
You mean 14 and wanna be cool guys, sure 😆...
why ask if women understand a thing that is not true? yes there are guys like this. and clearly you're one. but speak for youself not "men as a whole", cause clearly not every man (not eventhe majority) thinks like that.
"All" guys do not agree on anything.
Women understand nothing
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