Do women not understand that all guys want to be desired as hookup type guy rather than boring relationship type guy?

[Anonymous]

Guys want to be desired as hot and sexy "hookup quality" even if they are interested in relationship only, they still want to be desired like the hookup guy and not seen as a relationship type being settled for.

Women understand this

Women do not understand this

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+1 y

I'm being told in the responses it's not "all" guys who want to be desired. My mistake. I didn't realize some guys like being settled for.

[Babygirl_S]

He looks like a guy I would pick for casual sex (if I were into that)

He looks like a dream husband:

Both are handsome and liked by women but I assure you that the latter is preferred by most women all over the world. Do you still want to be the guy who looks suitable only for a fling?

Women aren't that different when it comes to this. Guys like innocent and "boring" girls more than sexy girls. Women also like safer looking men. We have that innate desire to be in a secure and serious relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah, but the first guy is instantly desired and gets hot sex from many women while relationship guy is seen as "safe" as you said. Men don't want to be safe and be the "settled for" guy. How would a woman feel if her husband said she wasn't as attractive and desirable as his previous girls but was more "motherly" and "stable". She'd rightfully be hurt, seen as inferior.

[Babygirl_S]

Most women, I assume, aren't interested in short-term relationships. At least that's the case where I'm from so the first guy wouldn't be able to attract as many women as the second would.
Moreover, I wouldn't mind being called motherly and plain. Most girls want to be seen as wife material.

[Asker]

So you don't want to be seen as desirable and sexy?

[Babygirl_S]

In my opinion and according to various polls I've conducted, a simple woman is more desirable.

[Tarshj]

@babygirl_s a simple and really beautiful girl will always be desired obviously.

You are none of those things so what the point? Those men you’ve posted would never even care you exist. Especially that guy you have endless photos of like a creep. They could get girls a trillion times better than you.

You always post pictures of these two. You’re an average freshie from India. You’re not special in anyway. I came back to the site and you’re still posting photos of these two. Weirdo.

Also you shouldn’t be hooking up with any guys you whore.

[Babygirl_S]

@Tarshj You should kill yourself ugly tiny dick loser. I have received Henry Cavill's message on Instagram. He is clearly superior to you. You are just jealous and undesirable. Keep stroking your tiny dick to my eyes you creep.

[Ajhxhcj]

Yeaaaaahhhh it’s funny how we’ve never seen it. Full of shit. Where can I find it? I typed in his ex’s, I didn’t see a single freshie in one of them hahahah. It’s clear he doesn’t settle for ugly brown women.

That’s why you need filters to make yourself look more white as you know you’re ugly. You’ve never achieved anything, there’s nothing special about you of note so you talk nonsense about these famous people. Learn to crawl before you run bitch.

Keep living a pipe dream. Those men will never want you. No man with options would pick a freshie that needs makeup and filters to look hardly average. Even attractive Indian men don’t settle for Indian women I’ve seen. Why go economy when you can go first class?
I saw you talk about how you have ‘boobs and curves.’ Boobs on a fat Indian body don’t count. Only loser men want you and you know it 😊 you are what you attract

[Babygirl_S]

@Ajhxhcj So you created a new account ugly small dick Paki?😂😂😂 You're jealous white men want me and I don't want you. You are in pain bastard. I can see it. Dare to post your own ugly face before you judge me. Yes he replied. Live with it bitch or die trying to impress me. White girls don't like your tiny dick. Why should I show you something that's intended to be personal and special for me? Who are you faggot bitch? You still use the term freshie you stinking Paki? At least learn to hide your inferior race 😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

@Ajhxhcj Small dick ugly creeps like you settle for white whores because the decent women with a low body count reject you.

[Babygirl_S]

YOU'RE MY FAN BITCH BECAUSE YOU WATCH EVERYTHING I DO. STROKE THAT BLACK MICROPENIS LOOKING AT INDIAN GIRLS TAKING BIG WHITE DICK. No one knows who was with him from 2000-2007. He follows Lilly Singh. You can kill yourself now 😂😂😂

[Akidjf]

Prove it? If he messaged you, you would scream about it 🤣🤣🤣
I only know who you are because you keep posting pics of dudes that don’t want you, it’s hilarious. No one is obsessed with you apart from losers you know it’s true 😊

Lilly Singh is an entertainer he doesn’t fancy her. You can’t even see the difference haha. She’s ugly.

I have a big dick and I’m Punjabi. Your penis obsession is lame, grow up you idiot. Even I don’t like Lilly Singh, her personality is trash and cringe.
I’m way too good for you and you’re some freshie from some pind that can only dream about men.
Trust me I’m way too good for you physically and in every way. Believe whatever makes you feel better 😽 every white girl who likes me looks way better than Indian girls. Indian girls are ugly with trash personalities, like you. White girls are everything you are not.

Broken girl, look who’s talking about killing themselves. You should be learning how to make roti 🫓 dumbass

2000-2007 - god you’re a creep. It certainly wasn’t an Indian girl. They’re all white. Whites are superior.

[Akidjf]

Watch me shove this big Punjabi dick in a white girl who looks way better than you. She’ll look like a supermodel
Also a lot of them have lower body counts than Indian girls.

Indian girls are whores nowadays. They’re dirty and have no standards. You get white girls with more morals than them haha

[Akidjf]

Watch those men continue to put their cocks in hot white girls. Actual girls. Not brown girls that no one wants

[Akidjf]

Also I’ve never needed to show my face on this site. White Women adore me, I’ve got it all going for me.

You’ve shown half of your face because the rest is trasher than the filters.

You white wannabe.

[Babygirl_S]

@Akidjf You're creating new accounts MY FAN but you're an ugly bastard like most Punjabis are. Writing long replies that I won't even read 😂😂😂 The whole world knows Indian women are more traditional than white whores. Most Indian women don't even drink alcohol. YOUR LITTLE BLACK PUNJABI DICK is not wanted by anyone. You have THE SMALLEST DICKS IN THE WORLD and UGLY faces. The only women who want you are the ones rejected by white men 😂😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

@Akidjf Again the more you bark about my appearance the more I know how UGLY your face is and how SMALL YOUR DICK is 😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

If they actually cared about you TINY DICK LOSER you wouldn't be here longing for my attention.

[Babygirl_S]

The more accounts you create bitch the more jealous you look 😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

White whores listen to SHAYNE WARD and JUSTIN BIEBER. Never heard of anyone who listened to PUNJABI songs. White men are REAL MEN while you're nothing

[Babygirl_S]

Such a handsome HOLLYWOOD KING replied to me and follows Lilly Singh. I can't find even one Hollywood actress who follows an Indian tiny dick loser. Try and message one and she will NEVER REPLY 😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

It's fun watching you suffer the pain of creating a new account, write long replies I'm not reading thoroughly and be blocked repeatedly. How much pain do you really want? 😌😌😌

[Babygirl_S]

I WILL REJECT YOU EVERY TIME YOU SHOW YOUR DESPERATION FOR MY ATTENTION. You can spend your whole life creating new accounts and I'll keep blocking you 😂😂😂

[Gatstd]

You should come to Europe. See the endless numbers of stunning women. Women that want me. You need a reality check. You’re worthless, cheap. Indians from India always look repulsive + fat.

No celebrity ever messaged you, you loser.
I’m laughing at you.

[Gatstd]

Also Indian girls have the ugliest vaginas out there. I bet they stink like shit too.

Not like a nice clean white women.

[Babygirl_S]

@Gatstd 😂😂😂 I am laughing at you because I have the screenshot. I have visited Europe and white guys look way better than the Indian losers like you so I understand why you're getting REJECTED. It is a well-known fact that Indian women living in the UK prefer to date white men. So basically YOU'RE AN INCEL and can't get anyone to like you.

[Gatstd]

I know a lot of British Indians and they mostly marry Indian men.

Let’s see the screenshot you bullshiter. How come you haven’t posted it? Because you’re an ugly cunt that no attractive man wants. Duh

[Babygirl_S]

@Gatstd I know you're crying! Embrace the pain! YOU ARE DYING FOR MY ATTENTION CREEPY TINY DICK LOSER

[Gatstd]

I’ve used Indian dating apps ages ago and I was literally the top guy out the site, matching with every Indian girl. The girls opening the conversations. I don’t even have to do shit. They all want me I have everything going for me.

You have nothing going for you

[Jajzjfhf]

You look like your parents are related you goat fucker.

I want the screenshot that’s why I’m here. But there is none because you’re a fucking ugly Indian shit. Give me the screenshot and I’ll go. No one here gives a fuck about you. You’re a freshie that still shits in the ground

Imagine how shit your life must be having to need a dozen filters and pretend ultra famous people like you/

Your life is shit. God must hate you. End it.

[Jajzjfhf]

It’s impossible to be jealous of you. There’s nothing there

[Babygirl_S]

@Gatstd YOU CRAVE ME! Accept it bitch because you've created so many accounts to talk to me. I wouldn't create even one new account to talk to you 😂😂😂

[Jajzjfhf]

Where’s the screenshot?

[Jajzjfhf]

Liar. Ugly bitch. You wish you were white and pretty

[Babygirl_S]

@Jajzjfhf Another account bitch? How sad does your TINY DICK make you? You're gonna cry

[Jdjzjckg]

I have told you multiple times. I have a big penis. Every girl has been shocked by my penis.

No one had been shocked by you because your ugly. No you know I’m telling the truth.

Only a slag talks about penises the whole time because she has no moral substance and is a slag at heart

[Jdjzjckg]

You are a fucking whore a slag and a slut. You are everything men don’t want and you’re suffering the consequences of it.

[Jdjzjckg]

Men don’t want whores like you and you’re wondering why men are literally repulsed by you?

Who wants a fat bitch with fucking small tits anyway? That’s your reality.

[Jdjzjckg]

We’re above you. Sooner or later you’ll find out.

But you’re a woman so you’ll struggle to understand the world

[Jdjzjckg]

Indian girls are girls fucking scum you have proved. I’ll make sure I find a hot white girl so I don’t waste my time on bad genes.

I swear on my mothers life I have a big penis.

You can’t swear on nothing because you're FUCKING UGLY WITH SMALL BOOBS AND BROWN UGLY SKIN AND CONTINUE TO WONDER WHY NO MEN WQNT YOU. YOU HAVE BO REPLICATION VALUE YOU HAVE BAD GENES NO MEN WANT TO PUT THEIR CUM IN YOU AS YOU ARE UGLY, POOR, SMALL TIT AND A BROWN WOMAN WHICH IS UGLY TO THE WORLD.

[Jdjzjckg]

Only a small tit bitch would say crap like this to someone they’ve never Metz

We get it you have bad genes 🧬 no one else was as unlucky as you!!!

[Jdjzjckg]

YOU HAVE BAD GENES NOT ME YOU FUCKING SLUT WHO CAN’T FIND MEN BECAUSE YOUR TITS AND ASS ARE SO SMALL.

You aren’t even a woman

[Jdjzjckg]

I swear on my mothers life I have a big penis. Only a white girl will get it because they have good genes I want to mate with.

NOT YOU YOU POOR GOAT FUCKER

[Jdjzjckg]

Omg so after all of this you do you have a boyfriend you fucking scum. You dirty fucking whore you bin bag.

I hope you die of cancer. The loser you’re with deserves way better than a fucking whore like you.

I pray to god you die an excruciating death of cancer. Indian girls like you are scum. Beautiful white women are not as whorish like this. White women are clean.

How disgusting a brown girl is dirtier than 99.9% of white women.

[Jdjzjckg]

Whoreeeeeee.

Keep dreaming of men that will never want anything to do with you. Scum.

Keep dreaming you fucking child. You have no tits and no ass you dumb whore

People only body shame complete strangers when they have nothing going for them like you. You have no ass and no tits and no quality men have every wanted you:

You know that’s the only truth here!!!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍🎉😍🔥🔥

[Babygirl_S]

@Jdjzjckg Bitch I'm not going to read all of that nonsense because you're UGLY TINY DICK LOSER. YOU ARE DYING FOR MY ATTENTION THAT IS HOW MUCH YOU WANT ME BUT I REJECT YOU BITCH. I WILL BLOCK YOU REPEATEDLY BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY BROWN SKINNED SMELLY TINY DICK LOSER. Go to your mum's basement and cry 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Babygirl_S]

I CLEARLY DON'T NEED YOUR APPROVAL AS THE REAL MAN WITH A HANDSOME FACE AND BIG WHITE PENIS GAVE IT TO ME 😌

[Babygirl_S]

YOU ARE DYING FOR ME TO LIKE YOU BUT I WILL ALWAYS REJECT YOU 😌

[Babygirl_S]

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT I EVEN READ WHATEVER YOU TYPE? YOU'RE A WORTHLESS PIG. I AM SURE YOU'RE DARKER THAN MY SHIT AND HAVE A SMALL PENIS. A HANDSOME HOLLYWOOD KING WITH A BIG WHITE PENIS LIKES ME. SO WHO WILL CARE ABOUT YOU PIG?

KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU WILL KEEP GETTING INSULTED AND BLOCKED. 😂😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

@babygirl_s @tarshj @ajhxhcj @akidjf @gatstd @jajzjfhf
This was an entertaining exchange. 😂

[Babygirl_S]

I was laughing hard. So pathetic to create these many accounts to talk to me 😂😂😂

[hsshannah96]

Not true the first guy would be great if only they liked a relationship

[Yannishka]

Do you not understand that there will be guys in the comment section that will disagree? I have yet to check but I am confident, psychic even!

[EricSummer]

Speak for yourself. I'm not interested n hookups and I want the woman to desire me for long, maybe forever.

I admit I'm a bit on the boring side, but the woman can be, too, as far as I'm concerned. There will still be enough to discover about each other and together.

[Lliam]

I think that's a fair point because I think women want to be seen as desirable and sexy in the same way, even if they are interested in relationships and not hook ups.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Being a man women want to sleep with and being a man that only wants sex are two different things

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Jdjzjckg]

Learn to respect men you fucking whore.

[Jdjzjckg]

Omg so after all of this you do you have a boyfriend you fucking scum. You dirty fucking whore you bin bag.

I hope you die of cancer. The loser you’re with deserves way better than a fucking whore like you.

I pray to god you die an excruciating death of cancer. Indian girls like you are scum. Beautiful white women are not as whorish like this. White women are clean.

How disgusting a brown girl is dirtier than 99.9% of white women.

[ManOnFire]

I would say that you're probably right about that, yeah. I think what you mean is that men still want to be seen as sexually desirable even without a relationship image of them in the picture. Which is fair.

[Avicenna]

I'd rather be the boring relationship guy

[thatshydork]

Having an older brother and knowing his friends for around somewhere between 10 and 20 years, I understand that a lot of guys in their teens and early twenties want to be a hookup kind of guy until they meet the right person. However, I also understand that there’s a lot of guys who do actually want a relationship, which doesn’t mean they “like being settled for”, they just want different things then the hookup type of guys. My brothers girlfriend certainly didn’t just settle for him. She could’ve had any guy, but she chose to be with him and they’ve been happily dating for around 5-6 years now. He constantly spoils her, is always showing her love and attention, always has his arm around her, etc. and my brothers friends who have girlfriends are the same. Of course, my brother is a frat boy so he has friends who aren’t into relationships and that’s fine too. Nothing wrong with either type, they’re just different.

[inhua]

men are naturally polygamous and often have to suppress these primal instincts within them for the sake of create a stable society. no man is gonna think only one girl is attractive and every other girl out there is ugly

that being said, it is thanks to feminism and women's inability to suppress their natural hypergamy that these primal desires within men can be met as long as they pass a certain threshold

the only difference between the nerdy guy who gets bullied by others and the captain of the HS football team who fucks all the cheerleaders plus library girls is the hardware and the software otherwise they both possess the same firmware. switch the hardware and software around and there's not much difference in how they operate

[Screenwriter]

I hope that most women decide on a man they find sexually stimulating and exciting. I know that's how I've always felt. Maybe there are guys who don't want to be thought of as sexy. OK. It takes all kinds.

But I think most folks want to be desired, as well as be good relationship material. The two are not mutually exclusive. I think most folk want the best of both worlds!

[Anonymous]

It's not that they don't understand, they don't care. Men have been telling them what they want for decades... only after all of these guys start going overseas are they now making noise...

[richardcory]

Sure, for most men being viewed as hot and sexy is better than not being viewed that way, but many men want to be seen as more than that. (same as many women do)

[Anonymous]

No you can tell they quite literally don't understand. Not sure what the reason is. Maybe they themselves are both the boring girl and the hookup girl depending on the time of the month. A lot of people just project their own identity onto everyone else.

[MysteriousDarkness]

I am proud to be in a relationship of almost 10 years. It is way more fulfilling than to be around for just sex. On top of it my girlfriend does find me attractive.

[Anonymous]

Sure, men are no different than women in that respect.

[Rockstarrrrr]

You mean 14 and wanna be cool guys, sure 😆...

[genericname85]

why ask if women understand a thing that is not true? yes there are guys like this. and clearly you're one. but speak for youself not "men as a whole", cause clearly not every man (not eventhe majority) thinks like that.

[Asker]

So you're saying you enjoy being settled for. You enjoy being picked last or maybe you're just a tiny dicked little boy. Stfu troll

[genericname85]

it's like you're telling yourself to stfu, which is probably the best thing you can tell yourself if you wanna prevent yourself from embarrassment :D

[Asker]

You said it's not true that guys feel like this, obviously there are not just me but other guys, by the way it's an observation, I have never been put in this situation, it was from things I've read about women saying how they wanted to hookup with a hot, built guy but then looked for a non hot relationship guy who didn't receive the same benefits or treatment as the hookup guy.

[LiamJHayden]

@Asker You said ALL guys. That is false.

[genericname85]

@LiamJHayden don't bother. he's obviously a troll.

[LiamJHayden]

"All" guys do not agree on anything.

[DarkLegacy]

Women understand nothing