Definition of controlling behaviour according to google source: "Controlling behaviour is a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour"
So wanting submissive housewife is just controlling behaviour then. How can this toxic behaviour a dating preference then? I dont want to be rude at all. I just dont understand what guys mean when they want a submissive traditional women since traditional women were beaten up and it was a common thing to hit your wife if she ain't obey you. Do you want to hit your woman since you want to be traditional or what exactly means traditional to you?