Men, do you want your woman to be submissive?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

To an extent. I like her to act feminine and enjoy the lady-gentleman game. I like it when she looks up to me and I make her feel safe, secure and special.

When it comes to sex, most women are submissive. I love that. They're turned on by the idea that men are bigger and stronger and can "take" them, dominate them, savor them and use them thrillingly hard. But even though the nature of sex requires a woman to submit, a good woman fucks back hungrily and energetically. She wants to be used because, in doing so, she is using me for her own pleasure.

Aside from that, though, I like a woman who is smart, has good sense, and knows her own mind. She's no servant or door mat. She can be stubborn. We are equal partners. I respect her intellect. We listen to each other, make decisions together as a team. Neither of us is the boss. We care for each other, trust each other, and want the best for each other.

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

Mostly Yes.

It's based on human nature and our gender traits. The fact is majority of women also would want to be dominated for the most part.

However, a little mellow switch time to time wouldn't hurt. That would be about creativity and spicing up. But of course that would be entirely up to each individual.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Greatly depends on your definition of what a submissive is.

my ex girlfriend was 24/7 submissive, however she was a director at a major tech company, competed and instructed kick boxing and got in to motorsports with my ex wife.

I was however her Dom and she was my collard sub.

As a person though she had no flight as part of the fight or flight response and did thump people if they warranted it.

boggboss · Answer

Depends on how submissive and how she express it I guess

DaveJord · Answer

Not not really... a man like a take charge women when it matters.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I like it both ways. I’m more direct though. I’ll tie up a woman and use cuffs and whip, but I prefer a more hands on approach. More direct, not being handcuffed and whipped.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

No just don't expect me to do all your fighting for you. I like strong women. But I want her to have a use for me besides sex.

Naydyonov · Answer

Yes. Not in the sense that I command her around, simply that she gladly generally lets me take the lead and does not try to dominate me.

OddBeMe · Answer

I guess I’d ask for examples. I’d think most guys want their gals to be interesting to talk to and not have to order them around all they time.

Cubus · Answer

Depends what do you mean by "submassive". Men usually like women to be submassive, but not in a bad way (like abusing). We just prefer to be in charge, I believe this is how our brains work. So it's natural.

ElvenMr · Answer

Yes, it's much better for the relationship.  It's weird if the girl is the dominant one.

Jay3344 · Answer

Sometimes, not always

all_hayl · Answer

Sometimes. It's not a one-way street.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Both sub and dom best of both worlds

swettannie · Answer

they do like that

Hulk30 · Answer

hell yea like most men

clampfan101 · Answer

I like the idea of us taking turns.

Anonymous · Answer

Most are, no worries there

Anonymous · Answer

women are naturally submissive  facts

lycanthrope3 · Answer

To a degree

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