Why do guys want a submissive woman?

[Live_love_143]

I don't understand

[Anonymous]

Oh boy, let me explain, I definitely have this problem more so than other guys. First of all, it's primal and it makes guys feel needed. I'm pretty protective. Part of my sense of identity is being physically strong and emotionally stable, I wouldn't have it any other way. And in bed, it's just a kink, no good explanation. The way I see it is guys have the advantage of testosterone and are naturally bigger. So it's sort of like I need to feel like I'm not failing in an area where I have an advantage. Ultimately though, I don't want a "submissive" woman, I just wants a woman who appreciates that I'm stronger and that maybe it's a good idea if I don't let her walk alone out in the dark. Like all I need for her, is to entertain a few small things like that so I don't need to worry so much about her. Otherwise I prefer an equal relationship with equal power. For example, I'd like her to argue with me if she thinks I'm wrong about something. I'm very into ethics, politics, and societal issues and I'd want her to agree with me because she genuinely agrees with me, not because I'm the man. That would suck, and I would not be able to be with a girl like that.

[Youngpapai]

A submissive woman? 😶 tf?
Are there really people who think like tha?😰
He/She probably thinks about sex at the moment.__.

[Live_love_143]

I don't think I could be submissive
The black part of me doesn't like orders lol
I'd be like hell naw fool do it your self 😂

[Youngpapai]

Fortunately, tha your black part is there haha ✊
Damn.. it must be annoyin a person who says "amen😍" to everythin 😂
Happy to hear it 😧😥

[Live_love_143]

No it's not annoying for a person to say amen to everything

[Youngpapai]

Right ✋

[Anonymous]

I asked a few male friends of mines why they don't like dominant women and their response were " We don't like a headache".

So that's something to think about I guess.

[karahiri]

I think they want someone to feel protective of, someone who makes them feel more... manly in a way.

[Jaquav]

Yep, there's a reason songs talk about guys wrapping their arms around their woman all the time and not the other way around. It's just primal and I have the whole dom complex real bad and I have to try to suppress it a bit, my best friend though is not at all like that with his girlfriend.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[Sbelle]

some girls like dominant men, but submission should be earned.

[emerald77]

Most guys want to be alpha males.

[Jaquav]

I'd never use that word in real life, but I have the alpha complex real bad. Don't know where it comes from, I can't pin-point anything in my childhood or anything, I just know that testosterone increases it.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[DominatrixLady]

It's social conditioning, this is a fact backed up by science. All their lives men are raised and told via the media and relgions that they should be in control and dominant. Then us women are told the opposite, to be submissive and that we are weaker mentally, emotionally and physically. It's all crap made by a patriarchal society enforced by patriarchal laws and relgions to have control over a womans body because in reality women hold the key to how humans genetically are. Convincing a woman that she is weaker and needs some dude 6 inches taller than her effects the gene pool and women's health in a negative way. Women are at risk for osteoporosis, losing muscle mass and not gaining as much muscle mass as men due to how society has treated them. Historically they have had access to less food and work that would close the gender gap more or completely. In the media, news, porn and movies, women are often dipicted as not being able to take care of themselves and as sexaully more submissive than men. This has resulted in massive depression issues for women that effect their libido. Studies saying men want sex more than women are also flawed, women are often shown in degrading positions doing acts that don't give them much sexual gratification or lets them assert their needs. This definitely contributes to sex studies that use porn and then women don't test as high as men. To say it's biological is simply not true, when a guy watches these acts of dominance in a sexual way towards an attractive woman then he is being socially conditioned to get sexually aroused via degradation and violence towards women. This has an effect on women who watch porn as well, they imagine themselves as the attractive desirable woman because they want to be wanted. This then screws with thr woman's mind and they tend to engage in more submissive behavior. Scientific studies have revealed that this sort of behavior isn't always beneficial for the woman and many women find it unsatisfactory.

Gender roles destroy lives and they have destroyed mine, I went through hell in the military simply because I was female. Those assholes couldn't stand an assertive woman who was as good as them. This is all learned behavior and isn't primal, early society was more egalitarian until patriarchal religions were established to control a womans body to control the offspring.

Moral of the story: not all women want to be submissive, women are still discriminated against for being dominant. Also: dominant means you're in charge of your orgasm and your partner... It's NOT all about the man ans what he wants; that's just abusive.

[Fubby]

I think most men would be unsatisfied with a submissive women, but it's a fantasy for men.

men sometimes fantasize about certain traits, but in reality they wouldn't enjoy it. they like the idea more than the reality.

[Purpleronnie]

I hate the questions that generalise. " guys " are all different "we" like different types of women. I'd imagine that guys like a submissive woman for the same reason women like a dominant guy.

[Anonymous]

Ask yourself this... what do you find attractive in a man? Do you like strong, dominant men? Most women do. Now, how do you think a man like that is going to get along with a strong, dominant woman?

Ladies, how do you explain the fact that you are attracted to men who are leaders but then you don't want them to act like leaders? Seems very hypocritical.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I'm more dominant, so the idea of a submissive woman for me, is much more ideal. I believe, it's biologically driven. Submissiveness is more feminine, in my opinion.

[Haemoglobin]

Not all guys are looking for submissive women. it has to do with personality and sexual preferences. I'm attracted to submissive women in general. I'm more on the dominant side. of the spectrum. You just need to understand these traits.

[Kampaii_Vic]

They too lazy to workout so they want the women to make them feel powerful, in a way.

[blondfrog]

Same reason you want a dominant man its what makes the world go around you need to opposites to create a balance.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[chuck15011997]

Because i like it if i can treat the little Bitch as she deserve

[Live_love_143]

What dose that mean

[chuck15011997]

oh i like SM (but also romantic and normal sex) but if she's online a f+ or afaire i like to spank her and torture her with her cravings and play with her so that she would do everything for me and i have the total control about her and her cravings and her orgasmn but if you have more questions just write me a message! of course if you want!

[Live_love_143]

Okay thanks

[chuck15011997]

Do you have any interests in this Theme?

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[NerdInDenial]

Because all responsibility rests on the man's shoulders.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[TheOtakuMaid]

I want a dominant woman.

different men want different things.

[Underduress]

Why do women want a submissive man?

[Live_love_143]

Im not sure if I liked being bossed around

[Underduress]

My thoughts exactly; I would say we understand each other on this.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[Texasmade1]

I like being dominant and submissive so its up to the girl.

[vanjhare]

Not all. Some like dominant women. I like dominant women.

[Anonymous]

Actually, some guys like dominant women, I know that from my experience.

[Zer0Ghost]

Submissive in what way

[Live_love_143]

In love or relationship

[Zer0Ghost]

Nah, feels too 50's to me. In the bedroom is fine but outside of that, I want opinions and personality

[scorpioDude]

nobody wants that.. I just want a drama free girl.. simple.. she doesn't even have to look good

[akadatank44]

Sexually or in general?

[Live_love_143]

Both.

[akadatank44]

Because many men are natural dominant in the bedroom and like to be in control. That said I like a girl who can fight back but eventually cave in.

Just in general, those types of men are often controlling. Which we all know how that works out, not very good right? For myself I wants woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. Not stands by in agreement to some retard lol.

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[ColoradoChick84]

My boyfriend loves that I'm dominant

[NyomiMcClinton]

Because it makes him feel more like a man.

[Anonymous]

Because guys are dominant

[Live_love_143]

Both

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

Guys are not dominant, if they were then they wouldn't need social conditioning to try to control women, which hasn't been working well.

[Seppelson]

why don't you understand it? isn't it normal?

[Live_love_143]

I don't know

[Seppelson]

most guys are dominant from the genes so a submissive girl would fit best. but I am submissive so I want a dominant girl

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

Men are not dominant from genes, it is called social conditioning

[geonator]

Just the way guys are wired

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

Men are not wired that way, they are socially conditioned and it is devastating to both the health of women and men.

[Anonymous]

So they can boss her around

[DominatrixLady]

Which is disgusting

[nudeNhorny]

I like women that switch, 50% dom, 50% sub

[Nahid1234]

Because they're good type to be with ☺️💕

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

[eaglepaw1903]

Because men want to know what he wants

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

Women deserve better

[Anonymous]

they like controlling

[DominatrixLady]

Previous research suggests that social norms promote deference to men, and this extends to intimate relationships. This message is constantly repeated by the media in magazines, television and movies that "commonly display male sexual dominance over women and female sexual submission to men," the paper states.

In a follow-up study, researchers asked the women a series of questions to gauge the impact of submissive behavior on arousal.

"The more women reported engaging in submissive behaviors, the less arousal they reported experiencing from a range of sexual activities. The problem with submissive behavior seems to be that women don't experience these behaviors as authentic expressions of their selves. Submission to their partner's desires appears to undermine their ability to assert themselves within the sexual context," Kiefer said. "I would say it's really important to recognize the fact that women associate their personal submission with sex, and this association seems to be detrimental to their sexual health."

It's socia conditioning and it's toxic

[Sparasda1]

I dont

[Sparasda1]

Are you a dominant woman?

[Live_love_143]

Yes I am

[Anonymous]

filters out feminists.

[ccal28]

I prefer a switch

[ccal28]

a mix of submissive with some dominance in her too