Why are men attracted to submissive women?

[Anonymous]

what makes a woman submissive and feminine wtf I don't understand this

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I'm very dominant when I'm in a relationship. i can't help it

[Haterbye123]

I don’t really understand the whole submissive/dominant thing. I am not really attracted to either nor do I ever think of things in that way. If I take the lead so be it but that doesn’t mean the partner I’m with can’t sometimes take the lead as well. Just find me someone balanced I guess

[Anonymous]

I don't know why you would have a hard time understanding this when you are dominant yourself. Most men are dominant by nature, just like you. Do you think we want to have a woman who is dominant too? That's a recipe for misery.

[Asker]

are you saying that you don't want a woman with a bit of fire? you might like it. being a dom doesn't mean I'll embarrass you or walk right over you. I'll still show rep

[Asker]

respect*

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like being in a relationship with a dominant man?

[Asker]

I like men who are dominant. I like subs too. Are you dom or sub?

[Opinion Owner]

I am most definitely dom. There is not a sub bone in my body.

Cheers

[Anonymous]

Not all men, my boyfriend loves me because I'm dominant.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO

[BriaToWet]

Can someone give me examples of submissive and dominant

[burger1232]

I've met a few guys that are subs. no not the fake ones who only do it for sex, but actual subs, they have a bit of masc here and there but their mostly emotion-based without realizing it. a few causes of how a man could be submissive - not sexually are these.

- he was born attractive, maybe in a slightly rich household where he'd b treated mostly in kindness. hence he didn't get a taste of harsh toxic masc.

- he might've had a crush the emasculated him. in other words the girl is immensely attractive but sortof dominant, or another word could be emotionless.

- or he had female friends that are tomboys or indulge in the same topics as boys usually do, a bit masculine.

although I'm not sure, these are all just from what I've seen in past experience.

ever since I was young uve been more drawn to my intelligent demanding father rather than my... quite certain female adult I look slightly down upon. mother. so I naturally became dominant. i wasn't forcing it, it simply naturally came. another factor is during childhood most my friends were males. and I eek the thought of girly girls... makeup and sandals... ew ( sorry not sorry if I offend anyone... although it really wasn't meaning to.)

I love fembohs for the love of god -- which sorry not sorry I don't worship. they're just... so kind my heart melts. thankyou for f-ing existing.

[winterfox10]

Submissive women tend to be more respectful, which is more what we're looking for. I couldn't care less if my girlfriend is submissive, but you best believe that she's respectful.

[aaronbw]

I prefer a woman with a bit of fire. Some submission can make one feel powerful but I don't want a pushover person.

[Asker]

you seem a bit like my type. I want you to add to what you have stated earlier about submission can make one feel powerful. Does it turn you on? Do you feel stronger? more masculine? I'm control?

[aaronbw]

doesn't matter to me as long as you're not psycho and are willing to compromise on some issues.

[Asker]

understood

[aaronbw]

I understand how some people feel dominant. It's their personality and a strong will. But as long as it doesn't become arrogance and a condescending personality I'd be fine with such a thing. I can come off as rude or hot headed myself (I AM hotheaded lol) but in reality I'm just opinionated with no time for arrogant trolls.

[Asker]

I don't come off as arrogant or condescending. I think a lot of people are getting this misconception when thinking about dom. women but thanks you do have some good points

[AbdKilani]

lol
Does it matter to you?
For me , even if she is a dominant woman , she would be my woman , which means she won't be dominant not to me

[Harsh_Ch]

Testosterone increases aggression
Aggression ~ wishing to dominate
Who is easier to dominate?
Submissive women, aka non aggressive women

[Mazerock]

It depends on the guy, personally I prefer a woman who is more dominant

[Anonymous]

I want her to be submissive when it comes to making decisions that are important to me, but when intimate she can be dominant if she wants for fun.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you dominant for intimacy, or are you dominant as in bossy? Or both?

[Asker]

I can be for both. I'm mainly dominant. I prefer to be that way in bed too.

[Opinion Owner]

I still need to make decisions for stuff that is important to me, like needing some time to myself each week, working the kind of job I think is good, how to raise future kids, and some stuff like that. If the girl wanted to be bossy around the house she could be as long as it was also part of intimacy. Like if she wanted her laundry done or something like that, she should at least slap me first and then be intimate after I did what she wanted. That is the best way for her to get her way, making it fun and enjoyable like that. I would enjoy it if the girl was almost always dominant in bed.

[Asker]

awww I love that too. See it's not that bad. I knew someone would get it.

[Opinion Owner]

You can add me if you want to talk more.

[Asker]

sure but if I don't know how

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, now you can. Oops.

[iskg679]

Because it is so attractive.

[iskg679]

Based on your updated post, you will have many issues being in a relationship with a man.

[Asker]

I'm sure there are men out there who prefer a dominant woman. I won't embarrass them in public.. i dress and look girly but I'm not a walk over. I'll settle things as soon as I get home

[iskg679]

@asker It sounds like you like submissive men.

[Asker]

I find it attractive when a guy is attentive. I like males who listen and do what I ask. I will kindly return the favor in a pleasurable way if I happen to be in a relationship with them. I'm not argumentative. I like being in control of my life, making my own money etc but it's cute to have a companion who will be by my side and respect my power and decisions

[iskg679]

@asker The only issue I would have in a relationship like that is determining whether or not my girlfriend intends to take advantage of me. I disagree. I can respect a submissive woman. Also, that very same woman can't still be autonomous and submissive.

[Asker]

I'm not like that, I wouldn't take advantage of the person I'm with because that'll ruin the relationship. I'm in it for the love so that can't happen. why can't you respect a dominant woman?

[iskg679]

@askr Because that dominance may come with aggressive behavior.

[Asker]

I'm not this way. I will respect the guy who I'll be with

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Why do they even like women at all? They just do.

[Massageman]

It would help feed their ego, I would think.

[6942Dom]

Because they obey

[Asker]

neverrrr 😈👹👺jk lol

[6942Dom]

The paddle it is then.

[Asker]

lol not unless I paddle you first

[6942Dom]

That won't work.

[Asker]

it can work unless I should get the strap😁

[6942Dom]

Ha! Subs do t get to talk back

[Asker]

I'm the dom😎

[6942Dom]

Girls are subs. 😉

[fitemeat]

because they have small dicks

[CT_CD]

Biology

[hammeronfire]

evolution