Polls: Dating

If you have been dating long enough that your relationship already includes sex, are you expecting that a date on Valentine's Day will eventually lead to a romp in the bedroom and spending the night (if you don't already live together?) Is it unreasonable to have such an expectation?

I have. It remains my funniest bragging rights story to date. My 20s bliss. 🌹

I'm working on myself and my health first before entering the dating world again as I'm currently unprepared.

I saw a show where a man in his 60s was in an arranged marriage with a young woman. After they tried for a child, he said "Go fetch me some pickled herrings".

I really, really hope a guy wrote this for satire, and a woman didn't have an actual husband send his wife on some "fetch" mission for food instead of getting it, himself.

Ladies tell me, has a man you were dating ever unironically talked to you like that?

"Fetch some herrings"? That is not acceptable for a 5 year old boy to talk like that to his mom, let alone some old dude to his "wife".

Please tell me men are not acting like this with girls they're dating. I'd expect to get smacked if I ever did that cause that's just unbelievable that a man can't be bothered to get his own plate and makes his spouse do it for him. Have you seen this in your personal lives, ladies?

Has a man you dated ever talked to you with such childish, disrespectful entitlement?

My hands are constantly beat up and scarred from mechanical work and metal fabrication. It's hard to keep my nails from being dirty. Is this attractive or unattractive?