Polls: Dating

So my boyfriend and I went up north for the week, we live an hour away from each other. I live closer up north and he lives more south. So i had a prior commitment to do before we head up north and his original plan was for me to come down to his place and then he would drive.

The way it was located where we were going didn't make sense for me to go up and down again since the next day we come back home i had to go back down south a little for something.

My idea was for him to come up to me then ill drive up north. He was fine with my idea and me driving until he said no no ill drive so i can show you the route.

Last minute he texts me and he said that the more he thinks about it , its going to do damage to his car with the milage and suggested for me to come down to his place and he "will drive" .

He ended up coming to my place and i drove us up north but i can't help but be annoyed about that..

I’ve heard from friends that when they were in high school in the early 2010s they got approached a lot more than they do now or even after me too started to gain prominence, after Weinstein and the Stanford rapist.

men, do you approach women less or more than you did prior to these events. I’ve heard from some guy friends they are more careful when flirting and talking to women but even when they’re talking to other men about women nowadays

Just vote what you think looks/seems to be the better choice.

Thank you for voting!

On the poll, vote which you’d prefer to date then below explain if you are what you prefer. I think I’m the oddball out here but I kinda find it hot when someone knows what they want and is set in their ways/routine. I like to learn a lot about a person before dating them so that I know what to prepare for. But if they’re constantly changing who they are, how they act, and what they do, it confuses me. I like occasional spontaneity but not daily/weekly/monthly. I hate a predictable movie but I like a somewhat predictable lifestyle. Not exactly predictable but just knowing what to expect. If something changes our plans through a natural way of life then thats understandable. But i dont want a person who says or does one thing then totally switches up what they claimed they’d do. That is very scary to me. But if i know most of what to expect from the guy then I can decide early on if I even want to date/stick with him or not. May sound nuts but thats my preference. And if a person hates that preference, then they shouldn’t date me because I’m practically trying to date something similar to myself 😂

#FeelFreeToList #RoutineRocks lol

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