What's one thing to do on a date that shows your date you're worth a second date?

[pizzalovershouse]

You ask what food they love an go to a restaurant that sells it

You pay attention to what they talk about

You complement them on their clothes

You eat with mouth closed

You get the door for them at the restaurant

Plan many things to do that make for full night date

You choose a fun place for a date

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[Guy13]

I have a dating business card nicknamed, "get out of jail free" card. Face, name, email, phone... purposed to protect girl but still be available.-pretty much everyone gets one. I don't want your number...

Anyway, I have pulled one out at table.."recognize this" and written "drive to J lake, dock, sunset, Champagne, feet in water Saturday 4pm your place... be ready. The real point is to create the trail of memories. This is an effective, real pen, paper, and in your hands, way to both validate and visualize over time. The card slides across the table about 2 hours in and "demand" that you put in purse and look later. "You already gave me one of these... don't you remember etc..."

[CallmeTheKnight]

Depends on how you present yourself and your willingness to pay attention while respecting yourself and others around you. You don't stand out by holding the door anymore. It's important to be your genuine self.
I myself am a big history and lore nerd. I like to tell stories and actual funny jokes as well. I don't do a lot on the first date, because I'm set on us both making a good impression for each other. Usually when the second date comes around, I show more of who I am

[melanieeeB]

Be myself! Why should I do something out of my way to MAKE him want another date, that's so stupid.
A first date is there so both can get so know each other a little and figure out if they like someone, if you vibe with each other and because of that mutual interest, you should go on a second date.
If I'm nothing for him after the first, then that's fine. That's the whole point of a first date.

[Kaytiee]

These poll options are quite silly in my opinion, no amount of eating right, paying for the date, old fashioned courting or making sure you cater to their needs will make up for the fact there's no attraction there. If there's not a connection there won't be a date and its as simple as that, but of course these small things are nice but won't determine a second date.

[pizzalovershouse]

But even if you like each other some things show your worthy of a 2nd date I mean let's say your into the guy an he buys you a McDonald's kid meal your not going to like him

[Kaytiee]

I disagree, i've been to mcdonalds on a date but carried on the relationship because we had such a strong connection/easy time.

[pizzalovershouse]

Ok but most people do judge on dates about these things

[Kaytiee]

Yes but even if a girl gets taken to a very specific nice place, and treated nicely, doors held open etc, bill paid etc, most wouldn't consider a second date if there's no connection, i know i certainly wouldn't.

[pizzalovershouse]

I understand that but I just meant if you do something's then it n create fir some s connections

[Pinay_ako]

I don’t pretend to be someone else I’m not. What you see is what you get. I ask them questions and genuinely listen. I will eat. 🤣

[dolemite89]

nobody was doubting that u’ll eat 🐷🤣

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 oh idc

[dolemite89]

i’d learn to take u to cheap all u can eat buffets 😋

[ManOnFire]

Show good manners. Be polite and also listen when the other person is speaking.

[Screenwriter]

You listen well and hold up your end of the conversation; show you're interested and interesting and you are yourself; natural.

There's nothing else to do. If the person doesn't enjoy you as you are, you shouldn't have a second date. If they do, all bets are on!

[TransAm85]

Conversation is key. If u have nothing to talk about, usually a second date doesn't come about. Even if the sex is fabulous.. that's all it will ever be. friends with benefits and no more.

[007kingifrit]

if the conversation is bad how the hell are you having sex

[TransAm85]

@007kingifrit A guy will still fuck a pretty female even if they didn't have much to talk about! And an insecure girl will take it like, oh he wants to screw me, so I must be pretty!

[pizzalovershouse]

The girl would have to be pretty messed up emotionally to think that even ugly girls realise there ugly an we just hit 112temp🤯😴

[Titanic1912]

I usually pay attention to what they talk about and I act like a gentleman. Every time I went somewhere with a woman, mostly out for dinner, I opened the door for her, I offered my arm to her, I held the chair out for her, and treated her like a lady.

[TheUniqueOne96]

You pay attention to what they talk about.

Listening and communication is important in general and I think the jury's out on a first date in general.

[AviatorTom]

Listening to a woman, without interrupting her, is almost always a good thing.

[Twalli]

My first date was bowling because my girlfriend likes it. Another good first date is a baseball game because baseball is so prevalent here some people are more invested in our team than their religion.

[Anjoomkabir]

Hold a good conversation and not leave every single thing about me an open book.

[Anonymous]

Genuinely paying attention to the conversation, and showing interest in answer and ask questions.

Cos on a date, the goal is to get to know each other after all.

[Avicenna]

Good communication and interesting convos will lead to a second date. No one wants to waste their time with someone who isn't comfortable with them and doesn't seem to have anything in common with you.

[NathanDavis]

be... what she was expecting, and then some more... that usually works for me

[AnderM]

Finish your plate before her
Then eat hers too
So thoughtful I know

[Ezra_lila]

Small details is what's matter most specially on first date.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You ask what food they love and go to a restaurant that sells it

[DizzyDesii]

I’d just keep saying “fck around and find out on the second date”… bam second date bound to happen

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Actually listen to them, and genuinely connect with them.

It's easy to tell if a guy is just interested in getting your pants off.

[DrAdams]

You could vote for all the things really, but being interested in their conversation is so important.

[exitseven]

i say that you pay attention to what they say. You try to engage with them and show that you are interested in them on a personal level.

[globetrotter22]

One way to get people to like you is of you show keen interest in what they are talking about. Get them to open up about themselves

[msc545]

Have hot nasty sex with them and make sure they cum.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Do the things you're good at, tell jokes, flex your knowledge, flirt, pay the bill or even sit pretty

[H8INCHES]

Sounds exhausting. I guess that's why there are so many hookers on Tinder.

[CuriousMufuxka]

G. Walk. It's free, neutral, and on both peoples terms. If it's not going well one can literally walk away!

[Topaz1979]

being genuine.

[WhitneySnow]

All of those are really good ideas

[Anonymous]

Money, genitalia, car, house, certificate oh come on.. be real

[menina]

I have no idea. I've never been on a date.

[Luopio27]

How come?

[menina]

@Luopio27 It never happened. I've never been asked out and I also never asked anyone out.

[Aerolyn]

I don't date anymore.

[Brandi555]

Honestly

[Brandi555]

Omg. That’s supposed to be honesty. I can’t spell. 😔

[pizzalovershouse]

😊👍

[pizzalovershouse]

An dont worry I make mistakes to

[MementoMori_]

Ahhh that would be "Don't worry I make mistakes *too*."

😉

[pizzalovershouse]

@MementoMori_ 🤣🤣

[richgentlem4n]

@seriouslyfunny00 thoughts?

[richgentlem4n]

kindly dm me your thoughts haha

[SeriouslyFunny00]

@richgentlem4n Thanks for the mention! Aside from the given choices above, I can't really tell, but.. chemistry plays a BIG role. 🖤

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Wdym? I'll message you?

[richgentlem4n]

😉😉😉

[MementoMori_]

When she puts out?

[Open2It]

Lick my eyebrows...

[arifff]

Pay Bill.