Polls: Dating

I used to dabble a bit in drinking when I'd first moved from Connecticut to Texas although I did sip some alcohol back in Connecticut when my parents weren't home, and it was absolutely disgusting and my curiosity on it died right there.

My parents haven't had a good relationship, they're never really happy together and their arguments escalate into fights when, surprise surprise, they get drunk!

They keep vodka and gold tequila around but they drink Miller lite the most by a very wide margin. No exaggeration when I say that the night after they drink, there are cans everywhere and the garbage can is full of beer cans.

I got my toes wet a little more after I got my second job after leaving my first due to not enough hours and me wanting to deliver food instead of just making it. Don't worry, I never and I mean NEVER went near a wheel after having even the tiniest drop of alcohol but after work, I did drink sometimes.

In the past two years, I've stayed away completely from alcohol as the taste is abhorrent in all alcohols, it's just different levels of disgusting for each of them. It's extremely hard for me to get drunk and even then, any feeling of excitement wears off after 5 minutes.

After researching as well the impact that alcohol has on relationships, marriage and work, I've concluded that it's best to stay away from alcohol. Although I could've guess that impaired judgement leads to bad decisions.

I've seen the decay of a marriage that came from two narcissistic children trapped in the bodies of adults and that's certainly not what I want for me and my girlfriend who i hope to marry once me and her begin our careers and become financially stable. But thanks to healthcare costs for me due to a condition I have being at an average of $2,000 per month, I'll need to start my career before I can afford to live on my own.

Is that an attractive trait for a love partner to you?🤔

So initially you were interested in this person but for whatever reason you lost it and now want to end things/stop dating. Which are you more likely to do in this scenario?

So you were never quite officially a couple yet but were talking quite extensively and often intimately. And now youjust no onger feel the spark anymore.

It’s because since she really likes me more than her baby daddy then that means she made an exception for me and won’t make an exception for another guy to cheat on then?

Even if she’s shy and seems innocent.

Don't pay too much attention to the face xD Just look at the cut

Try to imagine the cuts on other guys. In general, which one would you find more attractive?

I know we live in a cynical world right now with this dystopia of Joe Biden, wokeness, the Chinese Communist Party, and Resident Evil on Netflix right now. I know, I know... But if magic was real and could grant you your most compatible partner currently existing in this world right now; your soulmate of soulmates; would you take it?

I know a lot of people (mainly men, and rightfully so) have grown cynical and jaded of the idea of love and have stopped believing it exists. (Hell, I mostly have, too.) But again, a magical scenario here. You get a chance to get your soulmate in this world; someone currently existing who who matches most of what you want physically in a person and most of what you want personality wise. Probably won't be 100% perfect because they're a currently existing person in the real world. But they'll be close to what you've always wanted, but could never meet before due to limiting circumstances and a lack of communication to know each other's existence.

SO, IF GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY, WOULD YOU STILL WANT TO BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE IDEAL FOR YOU?

I still believe in the idea, even if it's only a fantasy like this. My new perfect partner would be 6'2" to 6'4", between 25 and 33, would have long dark hair, a full voluptuous figure, and huge breasts and booty. She'd wear black lingerie underwear and be very affectionate, kind, and loving. You can fantasize your ideal partner too. Go nuts.

How forgiving are you when dating?

And for the guys reading this, think from a woman’s perspective.

Who is more manly? Who is less likely to whine and complain? Who is more likely to get sh*t done and take care of things?

I think the answer’s obvious enough for those of us that have brain cells.