Polls: Dating

All the African women I've met online are super chill. Really feminine too. I told 1 that only guys with small ones dont like black girls. She was like "yesss". I said they know she wanna fuck more times than they do. "You got it". Lmao. Add to that the average African male has the vetbal iq of a slug, normal words is freaking poetry to her

And you'll never ever find a white girl looking this hot

Heterosexual women of GAG: Would you date an otherwise amazing guy if he was broke? (And also, not tall or chiseled.) He wouldn't be asking you for money or anything. But he wouldn't buy you anything either. He otherwise has all your asking criteria in personality, but he works a very low paying job and lives in a crappy apartment.

Would you date someone like that?

Gentlemen, from when you meet a woman, how long is your vetting process?

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

This is not talking about every person you date. This is about holding a gun to your head and asking you for a general overall preference. Anyone who says anything other than "more" or "less" will have their answer deleted. And please vote in the poll. I'm interested to see whether there's any difference between guys and girls.

Thanks!

Just a follow up from this question When the person you like/crushing/interested in leaves you on read/seen and doesn’t continue the convo, how do you feel or act?

If a person truly is interested in you they will make time for you no matter how busy they really are. True?

I'm asking this question for my job coach. He overheard my crush saying she wasn't trying to "reject" me.

Today I found out verbally that this week will be my crush's last week working at the thrift store that I volunteer at. She (19) is a few years younger than me (22). My job coach (33) is much older than me, but they seem to get along slightly better - just slightly.

For the "longest" time (I'd say about a month or two) I hadn't opened myself up to the girl I approached. Despite her being younger than me, she was actually in charge of the site where I was helping with donations and stocking clothes separately by gender/age (men's, women's, kids') and type (tops, bottoms).

Once I heard from her that she was quitting, I asked her where she thinks she's considering moving to as far as career goes, and she said she's moving for school. I prompted that she didn't mind me asking, could I have her number. She said no, I apologized by saying sorry but she told me not to be sorry since it's work and she has to keep it all work-related, even after I said I just wanted to make a friend.

THAT was when my job coach started hearing the "reject" part from the girl's mouth. To be fair, my job coach even told me that when he and she first started talking it seemed a bit off. The girl was supposed to just be a temporary employee.

My job coach thought that I was making the girl feel uncomfortable and the disability program I belong in has guidelines regarding communications/appropriate talk with the opposite sex. I've literally seen job coaches flirt with each other in the program and people didn't seem to think it was a big deal.

The girl and the male job coach both are white people of European ethnicity. I am ethnically Arab and Armenian.

The rules exist because of the monetary rewards system and the points get downgraded if misbehaviors and even flaws are pointed out by the job coaches. Men with disabilities are almost treated like children in many cases.