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Polls: Dating

Is it okay to have gone 17 years without a girlfriend because you like tomboys, but your area doesn't have any?

He likes tomboys. But there aren't any in his area. He choose not to date someone he didn't like. That's why he hasn't dated in 17 years.
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He likes tomboys. But there aren't any in his area. He choose not to date someone he didn't like. That's why he hasn't dated in 17 years. Show More
yes
it would be shocking, but yes
it's okay because the lack of tomboys makes it understandable, but if he couldn't make connections with anyone, then that would be a red flag
it's bad, but not a deal breaker
it's terrible and a deal breaker
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Do you think I can meet a woman without a romantic past at church?

If I get heavily involved at church, do you think I can meet a woman that has never had a boyfriend, first love, or any romantic bond with a guy before? I am 27, almost 28, and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman...
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If I get heavily involved at church, do you think I can meet a woman that has never had a boyfriend, first love, or any romantic bond with a guy before? I am 27, almost 28, and never Show More
Yes
No
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If online dating apps had free upgrades for a month would you sign up?

Free upgrades give you all sorts of tools like seeing who has already liked your profile so there is no guessing on who likes you.
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Free upgrades give you all sorts of tools like seeing who has already liked your profile so there is no guessing on who likes you. Show More
Hell yes
Nah
see poll ( I matched with the Coach on Bumble )
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Black girls, white girls or both?

Who would u rather date, i have a thing for black women! Great bodies and stronger personalities and physically too!
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Who would u rather date, i have a thing for black women! Great bodies and stronger personalities and physically too! Show More
Black girls
White girls
Both are fine
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I have before, probably would do it again.
I have before, probably wouldn't do it again.
I haven't before, probably wouldn't ever do it.
I haven't before, not opposed to it though.
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What are your thoughts on this guys bumble account? Do you think he wants matches?

(His a friend of mine before anyone says anything. I'm worried his going through something but don't want to jump to conclusions, his profile used to be filled with things about him...)
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(His a friend of mine before anyone says anything. I'm worried his going through something but don't want to jump to conclusions, his profile used to be filled with things about him...) Show More
Yes he does
No he doesn't
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Should I offer a reward to find a woman without a romantic past?

I am 27, almost 28, and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves. I make good money as a software engineer. If zi offered a $5,000 reward to anyone who...
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I am 27, almost 28, and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves. I make good money as a software engineer. If zi Show More
Yes
No
See poll
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27F Am I right to assume that I’ve had it tougher than others when it comes to dating?

I’ve been chunky, slim and currently slim/thick. No changes in the amount of attention I get from guys, on and off dating apps for years. I’m at a point the past few months where I check the app/swipe on profiles/send...
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I’ve been chunky, slim and currently slim/thick. No changes in the amount of attention I get from guys, on and off dating apps for years. I’m at a point the past few months where I Show More
Yes
No
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If a guy spends a lot of time & thought into getting the right photos & profile but still gets no matches in online dating, is he just ugly?

I mean he’s spent a lot of time, crafting a good profile, good photos and asked friends including female friends as well as dating coaches to review it. But still gets 0 matches.
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I mean he’s spent a lot of time, crafting a good profile, good photos and asked friends including female friends as well as dating coaches to review it. But still gets 0 matches. Show More
Yes it’s quite likely he’s just physically unattractive
No it’s something else
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Should I apologize for asking a woman a question that she doesn't want to answer?

I've been talking with this girl who gave me her phone number, but a fake name. She told me from the outset that the name was fake, so it's not that big of a deal. I asked her for her real name at the beginning of this...
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I've been talking with this girl who gave me her phone number, but a fake name. She told me from the outset that the name was fake, so it's not that big of a deal. I asked her for her Show More
You should apologize
There's no need to apologize
Apologizing would actually be a bad thing for you to do.
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Do you think your dating life would be better if from your perception, people's physical looks matched their personality?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-mqlHivAcDU The idea for this question comes from the movie shallow hall. The main character in said film was placed in a hypnotic trance that altered his visual perception; through his eyes,...
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Have you ever changed your mind after rejecting someone and also if you reject someone, does that last/mean forever?

There are so so so many reasons to reject someone. Physical attributes, Personality, Status, other issues etc. Share your thoughts!
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There are so so so many reasons to reject someone. Physical attributes, Personality, Status, other issues etc. Share your thoughts! Show More
Yes, it happened once😐
No, I actually meant it🤷‍♂️🤷🏼‍♀️
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Best way to greet your date on your first date?

What would you say that is? Let's say you've recently just met and one of you asked the other out and you agreed to meet up for a date on the weekend (seriously just an example). I personally hate the idea of a handshake....
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What would you say that is? Let's say you've recently just met and one of you asked the other out and you agreed to meet up for a date on the weekend (seriously just an example). I Show More
A handshake
A kiss on the cheek
A hug
No touch - just saying "Hi"
Other (please explain)
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Polygamy
Monogomy
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Guys and girls Do you think its true?

The weird thing is according to this 5'11 is as attractive as 6'1
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The weird thing is according to this 5'11 is as attractive as 6'1 Show More
Yeh
NO
The chart is true but i don't think 5'11 are as attractive as 6'1
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5'2 or shorter
5'3-5'4
5'5-5'6
5'7-5'8
5'9-5'11
6'-6'2
6'3 or taller
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Which one of these should I use as my secondary photo on Tinder?

These are just the slightly flawed ones in contrast to my ideal main ones. I know for a fact that they're definitely not at the bottom end of perceived attractiveness. These are actually very recent ones that people in my...
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These are just the slightly flawed ones in contrast to my ideal main ones. I know for a fact that they're definitely not at the bottom end of perceived attractiveness. These are Show More
Smart 3.8 / Trustworthy 3.9 / Attractive 3.6
Smart 4.5 / Trustworthy 4.5 / Attractive 4.1
Smart 3.4 / Trustworthy 4.4 / Attractive 4.2
Smart 4.2 / Trustworthy 4.0 / Attractive 4.1
Smart 4.6 / Trustworthy 6.0 / Attractive 4.2
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Would you date/marry someone?

At which one of those shallow things would you wish your SO was better than you?
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At which one of those shallow things would you wish your SO was better than you?
Richer than you
Hotter than you
Funnier than you
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:)... hope y'alls day are going good today.
Yes. I feel I'm better off... weird parents
No, what loser has their parents do that?
I'M THE PARENT AND YOU WILL DATE WHO I F*&*KING SAY YOU UNGRATEFUL BA-
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Have you intentionally hid your looks to check how much someone likes your personality or to find out that it's okay to not always look your best?

I want to know if you've been intentional about this: either hiding or making yourself look worse purposely in front of someone you find attractive. This could either be in person or online. I know people are usually...
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I want to know if you've been intentional about this: either hiding or making yourself look worse purposely in front of someone you find attractive. This could either be in person or Show More
Yes for both
Yes to check how much someone really likes my personality
Yes to find out that it's okay to not always look my best
No, but I would strongly consider it
No, it's a good idea but I'm not sure if I would
No, and I wouldn't, but I'd show my best
No, I wouldn't, and I don't show my best either
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