Are all single men and long-term bachelors essentially incels?

[ronaldo75]

Yes - Even if they're "volcel" they still voluntarily quit because they found women too hard to deal with. Thats means they were incels who gave up.

No - Sex, women and dating are not the end all to all male existence. Some guys are simply not interested and have other interests.

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[Anonymous]

A very good friend of mine has a job title that by rights he should be 50 to have. He's 32. He worked like a dog jumping through career hoops, etc. to get where he is.

When you consider this by the time he's 50 he's going to be making far more money and have far more clout in the world than many men in their 30s who are more interested in fucking any twat that walks by can ever dream of having.

Does it make him an incel he put aside dating & only dated one woman? No. He's intelligent. Which is much more than many men sleeping around in their 30s can say.

[hahahmm]

Of course not. Imagine a man in a room full of thirsty sluts who has higher standards for who he sleeps with, touches, talks to & so on. For him it's like walking through the exhibits at the zoo. Nothing more. There's zero reason for him to have sex with them. He is choosing not to. Incel means the guy has no choice and he's being rejected by all women.

I'd even argue that given prostitution exists, incel is a myth. Any guy can buy sex. A lot of these modern women ONLY have sex to offer so they are no better than street hookers. Especially when you consider all of the money they expect a man to spend on them while getting nothing but sex in return. Who would say that a man can't get a hooker?

[ChrisBlue2120]

I'm a guy who spent most of my adult life in relationships with women, but ended up a single dad basically living in the middle of nowhere and becoming a recluse.

[LazerBean]

I know plenty men who have had many opportunities to marry and have girls basic throwing themselves at them, but they are just happy with their lives. And there's nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

Wise men don't chase women. They work until they've built themselves to be the man women chase, and then they choose the best ones. Incels sit around bitching and whining instead of working.

[ChrisBlue2120]

Well said.

[fonduegirl]

Nope. Not everyone wants to date. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

No. I am single in the sense that I have never been married and haven't been in a committed relationship for four years. But I have had plenty of sex during that time without the limitations, drama and cost of a relationship.

[Anonymous]

No incels never got pussy.

Bachelor had it before or currently can get it just chose to get it.

[Adam1978]

They don't need to have had it. The difference is that incels wants it but can't get and blame women for it. Bachelor's either don't want it or they aren't willing to pay the price women put on it. But they don't blame them they just reject the bad deal. If their own offer isn't meet they rather stay single.

[Billlewis]

That reminds me of the old saying, 'You haven't had pussy since pussy had you'... lol

[ChrisMaster69]

No of course they are not. What a fuckwit,