Guys, Men! Does modern dating feel like this below?

[Juxtapose]

Yes..

No

[Avicenna]

There is some truth to that, but most women are more realistic than that obese ogre is. The reason why it seems that way to many guys is that the dating pool is disproportionately populated by single moms, women with mental illnesses, women with crazy expectations, obese women and women with financial issues relative to the entire population of women. Stable women without these dealbreakers are either never single or rarely so, so dating pool looks worse.

[Juxtapose]

Yessss all the good women get snatched up like crazy!

[JDavid25]

Nah, I wouldn't say so.. Even in my age range with women who are 3 to 5 years out of college and have what may seem like decent careers by now, it's still not exactly like that, at least my age and younger.. It's usually the older women who you have to worry about.. LOL

[RealMarek]

I think there are plenty of women like that, but I also came across plenty of women who seemed reasonable and genuine. Also, I heard quite a few stories of really dishonest men or men who just wanted sex on the dating apps. Dating is rough these days.

[Adam1978]

Well if they can't get someone because they completely ruined their attraction. It won't make a difference what price they set on themselves. The result will be the same. No takers. So I guess they can fool themselves by putting and high tag and blame guys for not meeting, rather than look at themselves and see why they are failing. I wouldn't call it failing modern dating since these excluding themselves from the experience. So you don't take these girls on a date, so they can't ruin them.

[Fuentes]

For me NO but for others YES i have heard of this. I really think looks play a big role into it. I'm also pretty picky with women but I got over 100 different types that I like. @RealMarek said it I am not dishonest but I let every girl know I'm just tryna smash, it's pretty rare I meet a women that's interesting enough to date.

[hahahmm]

Yeah but the guys who give these women attention and worship the vagina are a big part of the problem. We have to tune out 100% of women who have only sex to offer to fix things. Doesn't matter how 'hot' she looks too. Just ignore.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not for me, I filter my search results when looking.

No obesity
No alcohol drinkers
No druggies
No smokers
No trans
No religion
No kids
No wanting kids

[TheSpaceGnome]

The big issue I keep running into that I don't want, is world travelers.

I dunno what is going on, but lots of women are apparantly travel junkies, which is not my thing.

I also see a lot of "simple" women (as in they literally describe themselves as simple, and have like 10 other words max in their "about me" section, all if which are vague and tell nothing). Which to me translates to "boring with no hobbies" (ie definitely not a gamer, nerd, artist, or science buff).

[Juxtapose]

Yeah I don't know what it is with these dating sites and women supposedly having all this money to throw away on traveling the world. And don't get me started on these people who put no effort in their profile, the men who enable them should be ashamed.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Agreed.

[RobT312]

I’m not dating but sadly hear those stories from a few friends. Yeah it’s real

[GingerGuy]

Or have to be well over 6' tall. But guys have made it so women can be that "selective". Even with women like that lol.

[FilmGuy93]

I personally haven't found that to be the case, no. But I know there are a lot of guys who do feel that way.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, not quite. Because she's a 4; and it's usually 7s and above who are saying that. (Even though honestly you really need to be a 9 to deserve that kind of money.)

But close enough, though.

[Juxtapose]

She's a straight up 2.5 in my book.

[Avicenna]

Id generously rate her a -1

[Jamie05rhs]

@Juxtapose @Avicenna Guys, guys... You need to take into account the fact that she's fat. If she wasn't fat she'd have a higher number.

[Avicenna]

I agree that she'd look somewhat better if she lost weight, but her hair looks awful (again, can be remedied) and so does her face.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Avicenna Fat people have fat faces. 🤷

[Juxtapose]

Being fat is a direct representation of her lack of self-discipline.

[Juxtapose]

She deserves to look like that.

[Avicenna]

And look what’s ON her face. She’s also grumpy-looking.

[JDavid25]

I agree if she lost weight, and grew out her hair and looked more feminine she would most definitely be better looking.. Her face is looks like it has the potential to be much better if we saw it's shape at least.. And who knows maybe she might even have a nice body through all that.

[Jamie05rhs]

@JDavid25 Thank you.

The rest of y'all are just being mean. Lol

[Pejtu]

Yes it feels like that

Thats why I stopped dating i dont see the point even now

[Exterminatore]

It’s been like that for a long time now.

[DCooper]

Haha

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No...

[msc545]

yes. ugh.