In the modern dating scene, what do you think?

[Dargil]

Since women have to be appeased, why not have them break the ice? If they are interested, they should invite guys to invite them to a daytime coffee date, sitting at Starbucks to talk.

"Some time, invite me out to coffee so we can get acquainted."

There's no down side here. The guy doesn't get rejected and she doesn't either. If he doesn't invite her, nothing is lost and she goes on to the next prospect. And he saves money wasted on a date the doesn't work out.

It would replace all those stupid dating sites with a low risk, controlled setting. Otherwise, men should just stay home or find a rental. Men, not having a female will not kill you.

I would have picked DATING for this.

[lilBigPotato]

No one needs to be appeased and no one is forced to do the first move or pay the bill or go on an expensive first date. And the same goes the other way around.

What you suggest is silly. Just by phrasing it differently doesn't mean you can't get rejected. Do you dating the way you like and not in a different way just because you think it's what someone else expects.

[slatyb]

What are you whining about? Can't you plan a date and invite a woman to join you? Like it or not, that's what most women want.

[NerdGuy89]

36 and I've never been kissed, never had a girlfriend. It sucks but i also got made fun when I asked women out. Laughed at, ghosted after paying for a dinner. Better to not date. Women showed me love isn’t real.