What do you think about this kind of dating?

[Anonymous]

For me it takes time to realize I feel something to a girl. I like to know her as friends or just for some time before i ask her out. I guess i would never approach a girl in bar or somewhere that i dont know and start texting her then and ask her out like after 2 weeks. I like to know she is worthy before going out there but negative is I build up my expectations and then rejection hurts much more. Do you think this is a bad way of doing this?

[Guy13]

It think it is guaranteed formula for single life. No woman wants some standoffish and to afraid to close a deal guy. Chat them up at the bar, get their data, and have them on a date next weekend. there some suspense and something worth knowing in a guy like that.

The spineless must be a friend and waste their time and energy on will be a single individual. Hell no, I would be going out with the the other guy at the bar who snatched her up after you left.

[Twalli]

Not at all. I won't date a girl who I'm not friends with first.

[MiamiMadness]

Only if you are worthy first