Polls: Dating

Women nowadays want perfect men.

If you’re fat and lazy then yeah there’s a lot to work on.

However, it gets to a stage where no matter what you do you can’t change your looks, your height, downstairs size, not everyone can make millions and build a name for themselves.

Self improvement is a waste of time, is it better just to accept failure? Men have been set up to fail in society.

What do women want? A guy really handsome, tall, fit/muscly, makes a lot of money, big package, funny, confident. It’s just too competitive. These are the metrics we as men are judged on. You can’t get a 10 on all of them. There’s too many men that excel better in other areas than you. Women want men perfect and even if they settle they are just thinking about the men with more.

It’s pathetic what we have to live up to. What do men ask if women? That she’s just pretty and nice. The bar is low for women.

I feel like a part of me has died after my breakup. It’s sad I never knew a relationship could cause this much hurt

I am looking at my life and thinking how I am manifesting. Me at 30 will be much more desirable than I am now. I am doimg well but not anywhere near I will be

With my ex I literally feel in love with her before I met her I saw her Instagram and I was just like 😳 besotted with how beautiful she was and then when I met her and she was acting all sweet and girly I lost my mind I was like I need to make her mine!!

Are girls the same?

It’s a hard question. But personally if I had to guess I would say men.
We are expected to have and be everything. Women are also just empowered to leave as soon as a situation doesn’t serve them.

If you look at dating advice it is like men have to be so much better physically and financially whereas female dating advice is the opposite, it’s more you deserve xyz.

Model looking guy

Be an all rounder, like kinda cute, tall, good job with money, nice guy

Be a Normal guy with some personality

My first girlfriend at 27 was honestly 10/10 looking. Nice relationship but she turned out not to be a great girl. I did used to flex money, exotic cars and things which may have attracted the wrong attention. I would have stood out on instagram to her.

Me personally I do feel I have every gift a guy can have. I am good looking too, life together, motivated and I have been born lucky. I want to find a very beautiful girl that is also a good person. What’s the point in having so much luck in life if you can’t put it to use?

I have dating apps and I can get a lot of interest but nearly all from girls I’m just not that physically attracted to. Problem is that it’s so hard to find those unique looking girls. Also when you do, the chance they like you back or see you on those apps is often not in your favour.

If I’ve done it once will I do it again? It is shallow but I am just really into unique and very beautiful girls. I feel in my comfort around them and I feel like such a cool guy. I’m used to it now and I can’t imagine it any different. I feel like the man.

Any advice? Where I live it’s hard to meet new people in person.

It seems like as soon as they make some money or climb the social ladder, they're always with gorgeous white girls.

If a guy comes from old money and is ambitious and educated. Does that really appeal to women?

If a guy comes from a very successful and wealthy background