Do you feel flattered when people who are already in relationships show you they are attracted to you and saying things like I was thinking about you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Not really

Feel the opposite

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Why would I be flattered? Just means he is most likely looking to cheat if given the opportunity. I don't want that kind of person in my life nor do I want to be the other woman.

Not sure how it can be construed as being friendly either considering you implied he is interested in me. So just hard no on this situation.

[MrChinaski]

I am genuinely surprised by your reaction. Not in a good or bad way, it just is not what I was expecting given you are open-minded in other ways.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lol I mean, it's one thing to be open minded, but it's another to condone advances by someone who is already in a relationship. I guess the exception would be if they are poly, but that wasn't stated in the question.

[Anonymous]

you must be naive. this is the same reason why men get side chicks, play around with them for years then end up going back to their wives. Just because someone wants to sleep with you, it does not mean they want to commit to you

[Anonymous]

Only to f*** with them. Because anyone that is in a relationship and showing interest in you is a terrible person.

[MrChinaski]

The problem with the world isn't that people tell each other they are desirable too often.

[Nikki1989]

Why would I be flattered? That is more weird than anything else.

[jahaims]

Why would broken trash being attracted to me be flattering in anyway?

[Staximus]

If they will cheat on who they are with now, they will cheat on you later

[queenofcardio]

No , that's very odd. I'd rather not know

[lilBigPotato]

Can be awkward.

[NathanDavis]

that's weird...

[Abbycado]

Nah, not really.

[fonduegirl]

Ew no

[idontkno1]

Absolutely ya