Questions: Dating

Which would be the better option if you were approaching 40 and want to just start a family asap.

you have a part time job online and No time to meet others to get to know them, you have to just jump now or lose your only chance

None of these are ideal of course but that’s life we have to work with what we get.

which is the better option?

Person 1: is attractive, tall (182cm), fit, lives with his mom, poor, trying to find a job but doesn’t have one yet. He feels depressed and has anxiety because can’t find a job and doesn’t know how to get out of that situation fast. He wants a family but feels he can’t because of his situation.

Person 2: not so attractive but not super ugly, he’s overweight with big stomach, short (175cm) not rich but has his own flat, has a job, has mouth herpes, (you will have it too if you choose this one) and if you have children with this person likely your children will have it too he said. This person is not depressed but feels pressure and sadness that he has not found a partner yet to build a family.

if you’re a man imagine it was your situation it as if they are the women and you have to choose.

One is attractive, in face and body but poor and depressed about it.

the other one is not so attractive, overweight, has a job, own flat but has mouth herpes.

which would you choose if you just had no more time to meet others.