Polls: Dating

Just curious, want something to compare it too. I've had the account for about 1.5 years and been active for around 2-3 weeks and have 16 people who want to meet me. I don't want to meet any of them lol. For those who use POF, how many people want to meet you?

Or is it more likely that they just haven't asked enough girls out?

Is there a special reason as to why your single? Some of you guys and girls are very attractive from what I've seen but they stay single. What's the reason? Maybe some of you miss you ex love and haven't manage to get over the break up yet so you won't let anyone in I've gotten over my break up but it was so devastating that I have major trust issues towards females so I won't put myself out there, I just admire beauty from a far or as it passes me by. Some of you have low self esteem and don't think your atrractive to any guy or girl in the world, (your dead wrong If you've ever thought that non sense. Maybe some of you are single cuz you don't like the responsibilities a relationship brings and you just like playin the game instead of finding a partner. I'm sure some of you have your own personal reasons, I'd love for you to share some of them with me please? Personslly I'm just afraid of being hurt ever again like that because it damn there drove me insaneand I never want another woman to have that kind of power over my mind again! I'll put up a vote pole but if you wnna share I'd love that part to 😊

Overprotective as in a girlfriend/wife who are willing to look after you or a mother willing to look after and die for her son. While my girlfriend never has to do any of this and I can handle my own(physically and mentally), I still find it very sexy to have a feisty woman who's very willing to look after her man and her child.

I ask because I have a very short temper. What caused me to be this way was all of the abuse that I've went through in my childhood and teenhood years. I was abused by my father(physically, verbally and sexually) while my mother neglected me until I was taken by foster parents. Then as I started getting into middle school and high school, I'd get into a lot of fights and even got expelled from one school district. In fact, I can recall my reasons for getting into one of my fights. One was because I was sexually violated by another guy who would constantly touch my man bits in front of all the boys and girls, scorning me for it. I ended up giving the guy a very badly swollen eye, a few missing teeth, a huge cut on his left cheek and a slightly crooked nose, thus sending him to the hospital afterwards.

I really hate it when any person touches me down there. I'll get angry even if it's a girl who's touching me down there(especially since men are expected to feel flattered when a girl is touching a man down there). When a person even dares to try it, I usually end up wanting to punch a hole through a person's face and crush their abdomens(with my arms or my legs) very hard until I squeeze their intestines out.

I'm sorry if I sound scary to you ladies but just please understand where I come from because I was a child abuse(of all sorts, especially sexual abuse) and bully victim. That doesn't mean I'll be unfriendly to every person. I'm friendly to people who treat me with courtesy and respect and can empathize where I come from. Men, you can answer this too to share your experience if you can relate to me. If any of you one to proceed to scold me or mock for me, go for it. I won't say anything as you are only speaking your true mind.

I had an argument with my mates gf and she kicked me between the legs.....it was the most pain iv ever experienced and i just wanna know WHY do girls do this?! have you or would you do it? im thinking maybe i just got really unlucky.....