A marriage doesn’t have to be the subject of a careless, self-absorbed, tactless individual for it to qualify as a situation of homewrecking. Trying to say that being a catalyst to someone else’s heartache is okay as long as they weren’t married and didn’t have to part ways on a high level of commitment is just a weak, childish way of avoiding accountability for being a shitty person.
1. What goes on in a relationship that does not involve you or your friend is none of your concern. It’s none of your business what kind of attitude his girlfriend has or what her weaknesses in the relationship may be. Just because you and your friend are nosey and spend too much of your free time analyzing a relationship that really has nothing to do with you does not create a right or valid reason to be a homewrecker. Her shortcomings are no legitimate reason for your friend to completely abandon integrity, not practice respect, and scheme to hurt someone for her own gain.
2. It doesn’t matter if you are adults or not: You are old enough to know. You guys are 17 which means you will be adults soon and you are old enough to know the difference between right and wrong. Legally being an adolescent doesn’t make it okay for you to be stupid, irresponsible, disgustingly self-absorbed, and tacky.
3. It’s not okay to make mistakes and be shady at someone else’s expense. Being “in high school and having fun” is no excuse for your friend to be a nasty, self-absorbed whore who willingly causes another female heartache for her own selfish desires
This situation can’t be justified. Your friend is a homewrecker and karma is going to get her really hurt if she keeps it up. It’s also important to know that good guys, the truly honorable, valuable guys lose complete respect and admiration for females who are selfish and egotistical enough to hurt another person for their own gratification. It’s ugly.
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You don't have to be married to be a home wrecker. It is just a term that people use to say a person who consciously fucks up a relationship. Just because you are 17 doesn't give you the right to be asshats. And highschool relationships can very well last considering my neighbours are married with a son in university and are highschool sweethearts. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was in junior high. If "we are just having fun" is your excuse for being bad people you need to wake up and smell the roses. Life doesn't work like that. It is okay to make mistakes, everyone does, but you need to own up to them and learn from them; not just excuse them.
if the friend knew the guy had a girlfriend, then she needs to back off. it's disrespectful for her to ruin the relationship; being a homewrecker is the worst you can be and it doesn't make you a better person
'Homewrecker' just means you're fucking with other people's relationships. In Canada we'd call her a shit disturber, because she seems to like to disturb other people's shit and doesn't care much for respecting other people's business.
Your attitude is a bad one; You're old enough to know respect. Being 17 doesn't forgive behaving like a ho, and your bias doesn't change the fact that your friend is a disrespectful ho. I won't be surprised when she gets her ass beat by his girlfriend; I would and have beat dudes black and blue for hitting on and trying to coerce my woman.
calm down buddy! I find it very dumb as to how people regard somebody to be a home-wrecker. Nobody can control feelings, plus your friend didn't go with the intention of bugging into his relationship. I think it's just bad how people reacted. I think your friend is absolutely innocent in this case.
Best of luck though!
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Have you ever thought about the fact that maybe the guys relationship with his girlfriend isn't working out because your best freind keeps getting in the way? Yes, your best freind is a home wrecker. She shouldn't be in an emotional relationship with a guy who has a girlfriend. In the future when this happens, she will be considered a real home/marraige wrecker if she keeps this up.
She is not a homewrecker as long as she keeps it emotional. Although going out with taken people make you seem like a shitty person and a asshole/bitch realistically and i have no respect for people like that.
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