Ladies, do you let the man pick you up on a first date/hangout? Men, do you get mad or offended if they'd rather meet you there?

I'm supposed to go on a hnagout date thing and I told the guy I'd rather meet him, and he said if I was sure and I said yes. Later he said he'd pick me up, and I suggested another option where we could meet and I think he got upset/angry. Which kinda (really) pissed me off. He said "why am I being cautious of him", "we don't have to hangout if you don't want to". I'm just annoyed and wondering if i'm the problem or if he's being ugh.

  • F: I let him pick me up
    Vote A
  • F: I meet them
    Vote B
  • F: If I've known them for a while, I'll let them pick me up.
    Vote C
  • M: Yes, I'd be upset/offended
    Vote D
  • M: Yes, I'd be upset/offended but would let it go and meet her there
    Vote E
  • M: No, I wouldn't be upset/offended
    Vote F
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I wouldn't be upset or offended at all. I wouldn't want my sister to let a guy she doesn't know well pick her up so I completely understand where you're coming from. There's nothing wrong with being a little cautious.


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What Guys Said 3

  • I understand if we barely know each other and she rather just meet me at a place. Can never be to safe. Too many crazies out there.

  • I wouldn't be offended at all. She doesn't know me that well and she wants to be cautious about the guys that knows where she lives

  • I wouldn't be mad or offended to be honest. I like a girl that's independent


What Girls Said 2

  • I'd rather drive myself. Never know how the date might play out.

  • I rather meet up until I get to know the person then I'll allow them to pick me up.