Guys, are you a gentleman on the first date?

[Akam93]

As in open doors for her, pull her chair out, help her up the stairs in her heels, buy flowers, etc.

[Robzei]

I totally read pull her chair out as "pull her hair out" 🤣 I'm like damn that escalated quickly

[Akam93]

Haha no. 😄 I'm sure someone wouldn't do that.

[LoverOfBooty23]

Of course. Among other things

[dynamicyandere]

I’m a gentleman in general. I open doors for complete strangers, like the old couple who I open the door for at the mall the other day. It would take effort to turn it off because it’s always on, as it should be. It’s just good etiquette. Good etiquette should be second nature for a gentleman.

[coachTanthony]

Most men these days want to punish women for feminism so NO they are not gentleman anymore.

[Evananswersquestions]

You have to be a gentleman on all the dates or you're not really a gentleman at all. People are afraid to be nice to women because of all the creepy" nice guys" out there these days which really sucks because in all my relationships they've went really well because we had a mutual respect for each other. Being a gentleman feels good for the guy to like when you hold the door for a stranger, it feels good to be nice.

[Anonymous]

In the past I would have been a Gentleman, but recently there have been too many with the 'Boss Babe' attitude, that the date has not gone beyond the first drink, If women want men to act like a Gentleman then they have to act like Ladies, and not a thug looking for a fight.

[DextroShade]

If I were single and dating I would only do those things for a young virgin. These women want a traditional man but they aren't traditional women. Modern feminist hoes are trash and deserve to be used and discarded as such.

[Honest-Matt]

I try to be yeah. I read the person but usually yes.

[Vikkrram]

I am always gentle to all the people until they do some sh*t.

[BadApple69]

I am a gentleman every date and beyond. That’s the way we should be.

[lorenzomichael]

Nope. I mean I'll open the door for her but other than that she's on her own. Besides I don't think she would even care, other than me opening door to let her walk in first.

[Grognard]

Used to be, then realized it was stupid to be a traditional man, for very untraditional women.

[exitseven]

Yes, you only get one chance to make a first impression.

[Yannae]

I am, but I only give the flowers right at the end, if the date went well.

[Juxtapose]

I am as polite and respectful to her as she is to me.

[ODC2112]

No, you gain nothing from being a gentleman, only being mistreated by the woman in question.

[Sabretooth]

Honestly? Not really. You should always be critical of the perfect gentlemen--it's usually just a facade.

[Anonymous]

Yeah but i expect a first kiss at the end of the date.




And a blowjob or sex on the third

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't buy flowers for a first date, but for all the rest of those, yes.

[Hoyt22]

I wouldn't go as far as to buy flowers but I'd buy some cake or macaroons

[Anonymous]

Not really. I'll pay for the date, but I'm not doing that other stuff.

[Nirmroth]

Nah kinda cringe? Im rather toughtfull and alert

[Pacquet]

What guy is going to say “no, I’m usually a dick”?

[Likes2drive]

Always but it doesn’t seem to matter

[Nifrayu]

No. I don't believe in gender roles.

[MaxUsefull]

if the woman is not a feminist, of course

[Thecubs22]

Always. That's how my parents raised me!

[CallmeTheKnight]

Always.

[trexxx707]

Yup always