Girls, on a first date do you want the guy to pull out the chair for you at the coffee shop or restaurant?

[Anonymous]

Specifically on a first date

Yes, that's nice

That's weird if he does that

Neutral

[Little_Bumblebee]

I wouldn't know what to do with myself if that happened. I haven't really experienced it, so that would be so... new?

But is it something you would do all the time and it comes naturally, or is it something you would do just at the beginning or on that date to charm the woman?
Because, if it's the latter, then don't bother.

It's such a letdown when the one you're dating is putting up that fake front and it evaporates after a while and you realize the things you noticed and liked, wasn't real.

[Emilyis]

I can pull my own chair out thank you unless we are sitting on the same side of the table but I had better NEVER have to wait for you to open the door for me.

[mandyfire98]

Nah, I would never even think about him doing it honestly.

[ChooChooHaha]

If he does, I appreciate the gesture. But if he doesn't, I don't get on his case at all.

[ChooChooHaha]

Like more power to you the chivalrous one if you do it even after X amount of years on date nights. I will appreciate the gesture for as long as our relationship goes. But if it's just to charm me til date #5, don't even start. But if he doesn't in the first place, * shrugs*.

[AssholeNumberOne]

No way. He doesn't have to, and it's not weird, but I don't like the idea of being the favored one just cuz I'm a woman.

[leahzrc]

that would earn you some brownie points/ you'd be considered more admirable