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Polls: Dating

A colleague canceled a date we had arranged and now I can'tstop thinking to her?

for stupid it may seem, I thought I was not so interested in her, but after her cancelation at the last minute (with the excuse of not feeling good) I can't stop thinking of her.
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for stupid it may seem, I thought I was not so interested in her, but after her cancelation at the last minute (with the excuse of not feeling good) I can't stop thinking of her. Show More
It's obvious because she doesn't want to be taken for granted. Wait for some months and ask again!
For a young woman it is difficult to say a simple no when a senior colleague proposes the date, so she invents the excuse, but it is like a no: don't try again and forget her!
It's not obvious and you should find a psychologist
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Has the standard for men reached too high?

I was having this discussion with my friends and we agreed that nowadays we just have to have it all. The guys that get the girls are tall, good looking, in amazing shape, have a good social media following and status,...
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I was having this discussion with my friends and we agreed that nowadays we just have to have it all. The guys that get the girls are tall, good looking, in amazing shape, have a good Show More
Yeah you guys are right about that
No you’re not
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Was it an error to ask a younger colleague out forbthe evening after only three lunch breaks together?

I'm not her chef, but sometimes she works for me. Very determined, self confident, attractive woman. She accepted the invitations for lunch break with spontaneity and we had very nice lunches. I asked her out and she...
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I'm not her chef, but sometimes she works for me. Very determined, self confident, attractive woman. She accepted the invitations for lunch break with spontaneity and we had very nice Show More
Younger, attractive, and you are more important in the company: your chances are 0. It was a mistake to ask her out soon simply because it is a mistake to have such illusions
It's a mistake. You should have waited months before
Given that she used a standard excuse, she will probably forget soon. No mistake!
You need to work out but you have some chances
Just paranoia. You simply need to be lucky
Better to ask her out soon and to havebthe break soon than waiting for months
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Petite short women, what excites you about a male love interest, is it just his taller height or more?

Let's be real short ladies - nearly every man is taller than your 5 foot or so petite stature - so what allures you to any man taller than you - is it his height, his smell, his looks, his vibes or even just feeling of...
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Let's be real short ladies - nearly every man is taller than your 5 foot or so petite stature - so what allures you to any man taller than you - is it his height, his smell, his looks, his vibes or even just feeling of butterflies inside if you're in his vicinity?
His taller height
His vibes
His smell
His voice
His mannerisms/movements
Other
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Is this a sign that the guy from dating app isn’t interested?

Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He follows up again during this time & I...
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Long story short, we matched & spoke for a few wks on bumble a few months ago. He asked to meet up, the times he gave weren’t working & I was new at a job/stressed at the time. He Show More
Interested
Not interested
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5’7-6’1
5’8-6’0
5’9-5’11
5’10
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How are mature adults attracted to each other?

Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me). What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you label people less , and think everyone...
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Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me). What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you Show More
Adults view others with permanent traits (e. g he will never be a confident person)
Adults see everyone as equally worthy
Both, depends on circumstance
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Attractive
Creepy
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Yes
No
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Yes
No
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Is 50/50 gender equality in relationships wrong generally?

In most relationships/marriages the man is higher earning, older and more intelligent. That’s how men attract women typically. Men attract women by being better than them. So how can they be 100% equal on decisions,...
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In most relationships/marriages the man is higher earning, older and more intelligent. That’s how men attract women typically. Men attract women by being better than them. So how can Show More
You’ve got a good point
No I disagree
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Is this girl wrong for saying this to me on hinge?

It says on my profile, ‘What I look for in another person’ and I put, ‘beauty, down to earth and good connection.’ She said, ‘hey, I like most of your profile but beauty as a green flag? You can do better than that!’ I...
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It says on my profile, ‘What I look for in another person’ and I put, ‘beauty, down to earth and good connection.’ She said, ‘hey, I like most of your profile but beauty as a green Show More
She’s wrong for saying that
No she’s not
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I'd rather get attention non-stop from the opposite sex
I'd rather get no attention from the opposite sex
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And if yes, around how many msgs a day? Show More
Yes
No
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Yes, for sure
I'm just as likely to do the latter
No, I wouldn't compliment or flatter someone I'm attracted to
I would only do if I was attracted to them
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Guys, what would you get for a girl who has everything?

Girls, what would you want your guy to get you if you are in need of nothing?
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Girls, what would you want your guy to get you if you are in need of nothing? Show More
A. A hug
B. Something unique, no one really has 'everything'
C. Something Romantic. Too much of a good thing is just right!
D. A Wedding Ring, I want to have everything with her! ... lol
E. Just my/his presence should be enough
F. Flowers and/or Chocolate covered Strawberries
G. See my comments below for the best answer
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Do you think it's possible for a smoker and non-smoker to have a successful long-term relationship together?

I just started dating a girl who smokes regularly. I don't like that. But there are tons of things about her I do like. That is why I want to continue to see her even though I hate the fact that she smokes. Do you think...
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I just started dating a girl who smokes regularly. I don't like that. But there are tons of things about her I do like. That is why I want to continue to see her even though I hate the Show More
Yes, it can definitely work.
No, not really. Eventually the smoking will both you, especially as you get closer and spend more time together.
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Would you rather a girl who talks way too much or hardly at all?

When I say talks too much, I mean talks over you and always has to get a word in. Or a girl who barely talks at all. Like you have to do most of the talking.
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When I say talks too much, I mean talks over you and always has to get a word in. Or a girl who barely talks at all. Like you have to do most of the talking. Show More
Girl who talks way too much and talks over you
A girl who barely talks where you have to do majority of the talking
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Would you date someone with epilepsy?

I'm asking because I'm seeing so many people in epilepsy groups talk about dating problems due to the condition. I personally never had issues in the dating department while living with epilepsy. It's sad so many people...
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I'm asking because I'm seeing so many people in epilepsy groups talk about dating problems due to the condition. I personally never had issues in the dating department while living Show More
Yes
No
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Do you want your man to be ‘the man of the house’ 🧔🏻‍♂️🏡?

Man of the house - the head of the house. Making the most the final decisions that kind of thing.
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Man of the house - the head of the house. Making the most the final decisions that kind of thing. Show More
Yes I would like that in my relationship
No I wouldn’t want that in my relationship
I don’t want a relationship
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