If a girl blocks a boy or if a boy blocks a girl, the boy is wrong. Agree?

[Anonymous]

I believe this statement because a girl blocks a boy if he's acting as a cheater towards her but a boy blocks a girl if he feels that she will make him look wrong if he's continuing with her even after she said him no.

Yes, I absolutely agree with this.

No, I don't agree with this always. Let me explain.

[IslaTheWitch]

blocking can have other reasons than cheating

blocking with a valid reason is a normal behavior...

I don't see a reason why someone who is overly offensive and don't react when i ask them to not do it anymore should be able to text me... so in this case the other person (their gender not important) is wrong...

but if block is just to punish... or to hurt... than the blocking person is wrong...

[WhitneySnow]

It’s never right to bock someone unless they’ve really hurt you or threatened your safety. That applies regardless of gender. And I’ve never heard that statement.

[AviatorTom]

Making general statements and assumptions are rarely correct.

In this case, it's possible that the girl did something disrespectful that caused the boy to block her. Or, the girl could be extremely self-conscious, and block the boy just because he disagreed with her.

[Anonymous]

It actually doesn't have to be based on harassment. I called out a girl last year that I really liked because I called her out on her immature behaviour and she had the gull to say I was gaslighting and meanwhile this girl actually told me once that she encouraged her female friends to cheat on the guys they were with. I learned as a guy, listen to everything a girl or woman says because even stories or what they do during the day or her complaining about dysfunction in her house indicates she has her own inner issues and her revenge is to piss off or hurt others. She blocked me and I blocked her. I used to have respect for her but she means nothing to me now a year later, she's one of the worst people I have ever met in my life and mind you this girl randomly started following ME on Instagram, I didn't know her, she gave me her #.

Girls with daddy issues and painting all guys with one brush will never be at peace because her having a broken relationship with a bad father and having ignorant ways and high expectations is never going to end well. I don't fantasize about marrying some woman who looks like Pamela Anderson from the 90s. If a girl blocks me, that's it, I don't want to chase, I don't want to beg. As much as feminism wanted to castrate men physically and emotionally, I tell guys to value themselves and move on from girls or women who mistreat him, simple. If I give respect to a girl, I expect it return, if she can't, she's outta my life for good. There's no need for a guy to stalk or harass a girl and I see more girls nowadays play with a dude's feelings and not care, and that's why guys will have a broken heart and go crazy, maybe if she was open and honest and didn't string him along for her own enjoyment or random I am bored phase. Guys be careful, women and girls are loyal these days but reality will hit them in the face with all the D they rided and partying and drinking and games they played which eventually bite her in the ass. All these OnlyFans girls making money off simps, they will suffer major depression.

[Apulu_backagain]

Most guys literally don't block girls, you know how much of a menace you have to be to be blocked by a guy?

I was just joking here!

Anyways, I knew this girl who would randomly block people just to get attention and sometimes would block her boyfriend too. In the end the boyfriend ended it by blocking her. They both were my best friends but after the whole drama she put in, I also blocked her. Some people are just annoying and I believe gender has nothing to do with that.

However in my age bracket, most guys are desperate and kind of simps so most of the time, it's their attention seeking and 'people pleaser' or 'victim card' nature which gets them blocked.

[silvermoon84]

Harassment and creepiness are not a gender thing, they’re individual. Girls do it too. He has the right to block a girl if he wants to no matter how childish it might be, so he’s not in the wrong. And if it’s an ex he’s trying to move on from or some psycho stalker woman who won’t stop texting/calling him, he’s definitely not wrong.

[Asker]

Ok. So you let a man block you if he's your ex if he wants to?

[silvermoon84]

If he blocks me, I don't have a choice so might as well just move on. It would be fucked up if I had kids with the guy, but I don't have any kids.

[Asker]

But, you'll still consider him as the wrong if he blocks you right?

[silvermoon84]

No. That’s his right, so no I don’t consider him
wrong

[Asker]

Breaking your hopes of future after giving you hopes is right?

[Zack-Bann]

The only girls I ever blocked myself were girls who were insisting on sleeping with me after I told them I wasn’t interested


As a general rule:


Any statement that includes the word “always” is wrong. No matter what it is

[Asker]

I agree with the last line of yours. But girls not always get blocked for the first reason. For example a girl got blocked by 2 guys who were interested in her simply for the reason that she rejected those boys advances.

[Zack-Bann]

Your original question was: do you agree that the boy is always wrong regardless of who blocks who.

And the answer is still: no I don’t agree

You didn’t say that you’re talking about one specific event where two guys blocked a girl because she turned them down

And the answer is still the same

She’s allowed to block them they’re allowed to block her. With or without a reason

I don’t see why they owe her to keep talking after she made it clear she’s not interested in dating

[Asker]

They purposefully blocked her since they know that she gets offended by doing so. They felt she offended them by rejecting them hence, they're offending her by blocking her to make her feel wrong when they're actually the wrong

[Adel50]

What if the boy blocks the girl because the girl was a cheater?

[Asker]

In some cases this is true. But in most cases what I mentioned above in the question is true

[Adel50]

How do you know that is what happens in most cases?

[Asker]

I seen a girl who's good but is getting blocked as she's rejecting guys who are making advances to her.

[Asker]

I also heard the same from some other girls who said that a few boys blocked them after they say them no

[Adel50]

Firstly, your original question is regarding cheating, not men advancing towards women. So your cited examples are irrelevant. Second, these examples you cited doesn't necessarily imply that it's mostly men on the wrong side of the coin. They're just your experiences, and it doesn't necessarily represent actual statistics.

[Asker]

There are a few girls who are experiencing the similar situations from some guys.

[Adel50]

Again, advancing towards women is not cheating. It's irrelevant. Also, a few girls experiencing a similar situation doesn't necessarily represent the actual statistics.

I could also claim that I know a bunch of guys who blocked girls because they cheated on them. Does it mean that this is what mostly happens?

[Asker]

Blocking can happen for various reasons. I seen some girls with the above mentioned reasons.

[Adel50]

Yes, and I agree with you. What I don't agree with, and what you can't prove, is "in most cases what I mentioned above in the question is true". We don't know that.

[Asker]

A few girls mention that they experienced those similar situations where a guy blocked her after she rejected him.

[Adel50]

And I'm telling you a few girls doesn't mean that's what happens most of the time.

[Gold618]

No, this doesn't make any sense at all. People will have their reasons for blocking, some good and some bad. It depends on the specifics of the situation. You can't generalise like this, and say it's always the boy's fault.

[4ngelic]

noo, the girl can also be the one at fault. the person who blocks can also be the 'bad' person in the situation

[D_Bone_Steak]

This needs more context. Blocking from what exactly? Is it something sexual? Why the double standard based on gender?

[Nikki1989]

There are a million reasons why someone might block someone.

[Asker]

Reasons might vary but these are the most common reasons

[Astarlessnightsky]

When some block someone its because they don't respect boundaries.

[Asker]

A cheater man blocks an innocent girl. Explain your views in this situation.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s such a cookie cutter way of viewing it.




Anyone can be in the wrong, wrong doing isn’t exclusively tied to men.

[Asker]

It may not be always. But most of the times, boys who block girls are in the wrong. I seen 2 guys blocking a girl for rejecting their proposals. Don't you think that those men are in the wrong?

[Danny_dan92]

That just means those men are immature

[Jay-_-]

I don't agree with this at all because it could be the girl thats wrong and it can be the boy that is wrong, sometimes depending the situation they are both wrong.

[SolitarySolace]

You must be a feminist if you believe the boy is wrong regardless

[pinconon]

not necessarily. some block for other reasons

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

What misandristic confirmation bias do you want by asking this? lol

[kaucky1]

Cock blockers girl stealers just use lies end up telling on selves

[genericname85]

trololololol it's always the mans fault xD

[clampfan101]

It all depends on why.

[Anonymous]

No, that can go both ways.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Um no