Would you date someone who rejected you the first time?

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blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

Depends on what they were rejected for. If the rejected person was morbidly obese, alcoholic, drug addict but later made a lifestyle change to be their best version of themselves that’s one thing. They got rejected because they were involved with self destructive habits (binge eating, drug use, etc.) and that could be a burden on the other person.

However if the person was rejected for not having enough money (not a bum but just an hard working Joe/Jane trying to make it), not having enough social status, etc but later that all changed here’s the best response to that:

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I really really want to say no I wouldn't but it depends on how many years afterwards it depends on the scenario and I'll be 100% honest with you it depends on how horny I was and I have to put that in there just for the fact that other guys would say yes they would date that person because they just want to get laid they want to use the girl and then they want to kick her in the butt say goodbye so I'm just being honest I would like to say no I wouldn't date her but it all depends on everything else

ItsJill · Accepted Answer

It would completely depend on the reason he rejected me the first time around. Say, if they rejected me because they just broke up and don't feel ready, I would respect it and give them a chance if they later came back.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

No because that would mean I’m not their first choice.

ManOnFire · Answer

Are you implying they would now be interested after rejecting me? I would have to wonder why. Would it really be because they're sincerely interested now? Or because they have no other options at the moment.

Rhododendron · Answer

I did it, and ended up happily married to them, kids and a house, the whole shebang.

But here’s the catch: we really weren’t a match the first time around; it wouldn’t have worked anyway. When we finally did get together it was years later and we had both done a lot of growing as people.

I probably wouldn't do it under different circumstances. Dating was already more than enough of an awkward head game. No need to make it worse by adding anxiety over whether the other person might change their mind again as easily as they did the first time.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

No... they would have to date me. Pick me up, feed me food, entertain me. I want to watch Dave Chappell live... get me tickets or you're not getting this dick. I don't have time for broke bitches that have no connections.  Me, demanding all the shit like dumb bitches think they can do after feminism.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No Way! That "proves me" they DID NOT LIKE WHAT THEY SAW/SEE... Simple as that! It might be that they liked "my profile picture" instead of the Actual Me! (The live version), and to become the "3rd wheel" or the "side man" just because they "changed their mind later" ? Hell NO!

electromagnetic · Answer

Would never settle for being someone’s backup plan.

Jersey2 · Answer

Wifey thought I was an arrogant jerk at first. So it was a challenge for me. I got those panties off. We have been happily married for decades now.

slatyb · Answer

If she asked me? Maybe, but I would want to know why she rejected me the first time.

Pohjolan · Answer

Highly unlikely as they would have to be the one doing the chasing after that and if a woman was that interested then they wouldn't have rejected me in the first place.

Chloe1225 · Answer

Maybe especially being gay they might be coming to term with it aren’t comfortable with their sexuality. Depends on situations if because I’m their “plan b” person didn’t want them then no.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I often ask out a lot of girls when I go out, basically till I get a "Yes." I likely have asked several more than once.

shortster · Answer

If I am still single, probably. Maybe they were in a relationship or were contemplating it when they rejected me earlier.

art84 · Answer

Definitely not cause she wasn't attracted to me when she rejected me the first time.

Jay-_- · Answer

Honestly most likely no but it's slightly possible.

Pete671 · Answer

No, but I wouldn't make the first approach again,,,

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No. If she comes back it means you are a second or third choice. Hard pass.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. If I asked them out and they rejected me I won't go back to them.

strateguy632 · Answer

Typo *would you. But i wouldn't.

GOLDFISH_smile · Answer

What do you mean "first time"?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

definitely not, but i might fuck them

tzdc21 · Answer

Depends on the circumstances.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No second chances.

Iron_Man · Answer

no I would be extremely insulted

Staximus · Answer

That depends on how I was rejected

Anonymous · Answer

No. But she's free to ask.👍

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

HEEEEEEEELL NO

Anonymous · Answer

No..

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