Sara413

Here’s why you can’t figure women out. Because it is impossible to figure women out. Not because we are incredibly complicated. Not because we can’t make up our minds about what we want. Not because we contradict ourselves constantly. It’s because we are individual human beings whose wants,...

I've seen this come up a few times on this site - in a discussion someone brings up the concept of toxic masculinity and a bunch of (typically) guys pile on, offended by the idea that masculinity is toxic. So, let's get this out of the way right off the bat - that's NOT what we mean by that...

I am so sick of seeing shit like this on Facebook.. people using the disabled or the sock or the elderly or the poor as "like" farms. The person who posted this doesn't give half a shit about disabled people or this girl in particular. He's just farming for likes. Just like this one.... And...

Every time some bigoted asshole says something sexist, homophobic, racist or otherwise offensive and socially unacceptable the very next thing out of their mouth when they get called out is "freedom of speech! I can say what I want!" I mean, yeah, ok.. legally you can say whatever you want (with...

Ok... I've seen way too many questions on here recently from girls who's boyfriend's are being controlling, selfish, abusive or borderline abusive pricks and the worst part is each one of these girls has wondered if SHE was doing something wrong or if SHE was overreacting / making too big a deal...

You don’t need to cure cancer or end poverty or eliminate all racism from the world to make it a better place. When we’re young, we tend to have big ideas and big dreams about what we can achieve and all the good we’re going to do in the world, but as our slow descent into adulthood presses on,...

I was wasting time at work today falling down an internet rabbit hole and came across an article titled “Questions you need to ask before you get married”. For the most part, I agreed with what was being put forward – it basically boiled down to ensuring that you really know who this person is,...

With a new year upon us, a lot of people are probably thinking about quitting smoking. Maybe some of you gave it a shot as 2016 rolled in but it didn’t work out. Or maybe some of you haven’t worked up the strength to do it just yet. Don’t feel bad – quitting smoking is NOT easy. I’ve quit...

Every relationship is different, as are the individuals who comprise them. I'm not gonna sit here and pretend all people and all relationships are the same. We all want different things - if that wasn't the case, we'd all have married our high school sweethearts and no one would have ever been...

I'm writing this myTake just as a friendly reminder to people that your past relationships should be left in the past. Don't drag them into your current relationships - there is no good that can come from that! I finally said something about it the other day with my boyfriend and I am glad I...

I read a lot of questions and comments here and elsewhere from self-identified nice guys that presume that women like assholes. They see women dating guys that they consider assholes and instead of asking what it is about those men that women are attracted to, they quickly surmise that women...

We read a lot about red flags and signs that you're in an abusive or unhealthy relationship, but what we don't talk a lot about is what exactly makes a relationship healthy. So, this is my take on what a healthy relationship looks like. Feel free to add your own thoughts in the comments. 1. You...