Polls: Family & Friends

Random question, but just wondering... As a girl how often do you either: See your brother around the house in his underwear? Or how often do you yourself walk around the house in your underwear when your brother is around?

I know some families are very open and others are not at all... so where do you stand? Do you always stay fully clothed, but your brother doesn't? Or are you comfy walking around the house in undies as well?

He's 12, I'm 22 and in all honesty we didn't grow up in the best ways. My mother always defended him at all times even if he was really nasty to me like "get out of the house", "your lucky mum keeps you in he house" and stuff.

I've always not liked him and while I honestly do not hate him, I do not miss him at all. Like none. Even if I think about him he's like somebody I just know.

Should I be feeling bad about this?

My mom asked me if i wanted a stripper for my birthday
of course she wasn't serious but it got me thinking if a parent would really do this?

(I said no btw)

obviously the kid isn't 18 just yet, or they'd get it whether you liked it or not lol
****you could just tell the stripper they were above 18 and you wanted it to be a surprise.****
to be honest if it was my son and he was turning either 16, 17, or 18

id let him if he really wanted to, id just ask the stripper i hired not to get fully nude, and not to touch him.. Vice versa id tell him not to touch, just a dance for him and that's all.
i mean they could show breast, but no lower than the waist.

and i'd have to be in the room, for.. supervision...

if i had a daughter she'd be locked in a cage in her room for even saying "stripper"

Recently my sister moved in with me and one day after she got home from work, she asked if I would give her a shoulder massage. I said sure and she said "hold on a second". She went into her room, changed into a shoulder-less top (and took her bra off) then sat down a chair, picked up her boobs and put them on a table. She then said OK and I gave her a shoulder massage. Afterward she gave me a hug and she's been asking me for the same kind of massages everyday. Do you think this is a weird thing to ask of ones brother?

I occasionally hear a young person make the statement that they always want to be their child's best friend. It makes me think that this parent either has no idea about what they should be doing as a parent, or they are so starved for social interaction that they are willing to forego their parental responsibilities to gain another "friend." However, that is just my perspective, and maybe there are good reasons why a person would want to be their child's best friend. What do you think?

Girls would you ever send nude pics for a guy you friendzoned for his birthday as a birthday gift?

Male gagers:
Guys how would you feel if your crush who made it clear she will never see as nothing than a friend sent you nudes on your birthday and wished you happy birthday?

Here's how the ice bath challenge works. You sit in a bathtub with water and someone dumps two bags of ice on you. You have three minutes to sit there and if you can't do that, you lose.
Rules: First, You do an arm wrestling match and the loser has to go first. Then the loser gets into the tub and lays there. Then you dump the ice. You time them and they can get out anytime. Then it's your turn. You climb into the tub and they dump the ice on you. They time you and you can get out anytime. If both of you make it past three minutes, you both win. If one person doesn't make it, the winner has to make the loser do something embarrassing. If you both can't make it past three minutes, you both have to do something embarrassing for the other person.

We'll be doing both of them with our bathing suits on because we're not married and it would be dishonoring our God and our King. I don't want to dishonor God so that's how we're going to do it. We're not going to wash each other's body parts but we might wash each other's hair. While we do that, we're going to kiss and hug each other.

After our hot shower, we're going to get dressed and watch funny movies while we're cuddling up under a blanket. She'll probably fall asleep with her head on my chest and I might do it too. I hope her mom takes a picture of us like that.

How does that sound? We're taking a hot shower after the challenge to warm us up and we're doing the embarrassing part after, if one or both of us lose. If we both win, nothing bad happens.

Give me your reasons why you voted for your choice please.

i Post a lot of my personal problems on facebook but i dont post exactly what happen i might post something like

"had the worst day at school, kid bullied me"
or
"Wish i had a better birthday"

and my mom kept finding out and i was wondering how she found out because she's never on facebook she just plays games on facebook she's never ever on anything but games.
but yet
she found out about everything i posted, and i was confused on how she knew. i asked her, she said my aunt tells her everything i post.

so my aunt is spying on my facebook page, she's a faceook fiend, so i blocked her.
she asked me to unblock her in person
i asked her if she would stop spying on my profile, she said no so i told her im not unblocking her
am i wrong?

OK, I'm 26 and my little sister is 23 years old and she lives in the appartment with me. When she was 6 and I was 9, our mom died and our dad (who was a mysogynistic asshole) started drinking heavily and he physically beat her on a regular basis up until she was about 12 years old. I rember after he beat her she would always come to me for consolance and I would hold her and soothe her to sleep. Don't get me wrong, my sister is an incredibly sweet and caring person, but 6 years of continous abuse took a heavy toll, left her with severe PTSD and stunted her emotional growth (right now she has about the level of emotional development as a 9 year old). When she was 18, she moved in with me at my appartment and she's like my best friend in the world and because of her PTSD, she's an extremely affectionate person. Whenever we see each other after work she gets a long hug, she snuggles up next to me and we share a bed and cuddle together each night. We talk for a bit and I usually play with her hair or rub her back to put her to sleep. Because of her PTSD she has trouble falling asleep alone and even if she does she has nightmates. I know some people might find the thought of cuddling a sibling weird but I don't. Now I never got aroused but I think it's nice and relaxing to hold a warm person who you know loves you more than anything next to you. And when she's asleep and I'm holding her she looks so sweet and innocent and it makes my heart melt. But latley I started seeing this girl and as our relationship started to get more serious, I encouraged my sister to go to counseling and she did and she started taking anxiety medications. But my girlfriend said that if she's going to stay in a relationship with me, I have to tone down the affection levels with my sister. I told her that I plan on it but these things can't be fixed overnight, but she says I have to stop now or else she'll break up with me, what should I do?

OK, me and my sister were always very close growing up and she was always such an emotional, sweet and caring person. When she turned 13 I remember my parents were worried that their sweet little girl would turn into a hormonal teenager but that never happened. There were no fights and she kept her child-like innocence even in adulthood. She always did have a fondness for children and animals and would break down and start crying whenever she saw somone suffering. But 3 days ago (she's 22 now) she called me on the phone saying that the previous day she had been raped. I tried to console her on the phone but then she asked if I could come over to her appartment because she didn't want to be alone and "hold her". Now I know that you should avoid physical contact with rape victims whenever possible and I didn't want to run into any awkward instances so I just told her I couldn't because I had to take care of something. That night at 2:00 in the morning she called me again this time sobbing more heavily and asked If I could come over there, cuddle and sleep with the bed with her. Now that woul already be highly innapropriate behavior for siblings not withstanding the present circumstances. So I again just told her I couldn't. The next day she called me and this time she was weeping so heavily her voice was incoherent so I just hung up. She tried calling me once yesterday and twice today but i didn't pick up because I just don't know what to do and I'm not sure I can deal with her in this kind of state. What do you think I should do. Do you think if I just leave her alone she'll sort herself out? And do you think that she asked me to hold and sleep with her because what happened to her some how advereley effected her psychology? I just don't know what to do because I hate to think of her in this condition :(

I just got a new house that has a pool. There is an 8 foot privacy fence.

I pi have started to prefer to swim naked. This afternoon a couple female friends are coming over to hang at the pool. I am thinking of swimming naked but don't know if it would bother them. I am trying to get a gauge of what girls in general would think. I have a good body if that makes any difference?