Questions: Fashion & Beauty

My son was invited to a pool party for his 10 year old friend's birthday. The birthday boy's single mom wore a string bikini, not just when in the pool leading pool games, but also serving cake, leading games outside of the pool and when her son was opening presents. No other parent wore a swimsuit. I overheard some of the moms saying she was showing off to the dads, but she looked very busy to me organizing games and greeting the attendees.

At first I used to wear long, baggy shorts, below the knee...

But one time I saw a guy wearing shorts that went like a good 5 inches above his knees, and got even shorter when sitting. And he looked SO good. I admired his confidence. And he was really nice too, so I became his friend, and wanted to be just like him, heh.

At first, I began with knee-length shorts... then I upgraded to 1 inch above the knee... then 2 inches above the knee... then 3 inches above the knee... and so on and so forth.

Till finally, I ended up wearing mid-thigh, slightly shorter than mid-thigh, 3-5 inch inseam shorts, lol. Like these examples.

I feel a lot more confident, comfortable, hot, sexy, and most importantly, FREEEEEEEEEEEE...

But I still get weird looks and disapproving glances from time to time, lol.

But I am a femboy, with nice shaved legs, painted nails, and no facial hair. So it kind of fits in, I'd say.

Not 100% sure on this, but I think nails count as dead skin or something skin, but in this situation, they don't count.

Having one wouldn't affect the other, so if you select hair, your skin wouldn't suddenly turn to crap or anything and if you've got bad hair/skin anyway, you can still improve it, like you'd be able to in real life with the right products, care, etc.

Which ever one you'd pick, you'd barely have to put much effort into caring for it, as it would always look to your standard e. g. if you pick hair, you have control over where it grows on you, the colour, density, length, shade, style, etc. All you'd have to do is say or think what you want it to look like and it would instantly look like that, so you could go from a shaved head to long locks, just like that and if you were to pick skin, you could remove any imperfections, change the colour, etc and wouldn't even need to wash either and it would still feel, look, smell good and be clean, if that's what you wanted.

I understand that in reality your diet plays a part in what your hair and skin looks like, but in this situation, it plays no part, so what would you pick and why?

How would you utilise it?

What would you change and play around with?

Personally, I'd go with hair, because I wouldn't have to worry about losing it, I'd save some time and effort managing it, instead of it always looking boring. It'd also be interesting for me to try out different styles and colours with very little effort. Plus, I could grow it really long, donate/sell it and then grow it right back straight away.