Questions: Girl's Behavior

Ever since i started working there for 3 months now, my female coworker whom i barely talk to kept glancing, locking eyes with me and sometimes we hold our gazes 2-4s long. Then comes a time when we got put in the same area for once to work together ( she strike convos with me and asked basics get to know me questions). After that she started saying hi to me and try to grab my attention when i walk by her and no one else is around. Im sure these are signals that she likes me but i still refused to believe it cuz i suck at reading into all of this. Should i ask her for her social media and confront her about her behaviors and see where it leads to? What y'all ladies think if you were her?

So a girl from an online group started flirting and talking VERY sexual stuff with me intensely for (probably) no real reason about almost 5 months ago, and when I tried to warn her with a friend for a really toxic dude one month ago she instead got curious about him and is probably now talking to him almost every day and most likely doesn't believe me anymore. I think this because she kinda mocked me and my friend when I warned her a second time.

I contacted with her two times after that but it was rather not so deep and smooth as how it used to be. She replied in two minutes the first time and wasn't mean per se, just a bit vague and provocative. Apart from this, she used to say she even wanted to meet my parents and have my surname in 5 years, and talked about our family of millions of children about which I joked first.

All my friends are saying she's an attention-whore who never cared and just uses me and other men for her own self-esteem. Some said I could try to ask her to figure out about her true intentions from the beginning. Others said to just ignore her and maybe delete her everywhere.

What do you guys think? I'd appreciate your advises.

By the way: I used to have a crush on her but now I just distrust her. I'm about to end this shit in my head very soon. My choice would be either option 1 or 2, but I'm still thinking about it.

I can give you more details about the story if you want.

Like deliberately create situations unknown to the guy and see if he passes your test or not.

it might not be deliberate at times to and more as a defense mechanism so you aren't disappointed in him or hurt later

here's a couple examples from this list here

1. A girl might stop showing interest as much as she used to so she can see how the guy will react. And hopes he's really as into her as he says he is.

2. A woman might be “moody” on purpose just to see how you are going to react to her. Are you going to stay confident? She’s looking to see if you are emotionally strong enough to handle pressure in a social situation.

https://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women/shit-test