I think its her birthday this weekend but she doesn't seem to want me to know?

[Anonymous]

weird last year on this same weekend , we hung out at a bar together , she was with some friends , late that night we did a shot together. i was under the impression it was her birthday as she was off work and doing shots with everyone. it seemed like it was her birthday as everyone was celebrating with her

now a year later she claims to not remember that night and said her birthday is in the fall but i don't really believe her

thoughs if i see her out tonight should i say anything , i'm pretty sure her birthday is Saturday as i checked my calendar from last year and thats the day we were out at the bar. so should be on same day. seems so weird why wouldn't she want me to know its her birthday , we did a shot together on my birthday back in June

[Guy13]

Two things come to mind:

[Asker]

what?

[Guy13]

Firstly, your understanding of her birthday wants were lacking from last years experience and "I'm getting too old to waste a year on that again." Secondly, she's got someone else in mind.
--How to win given this situation: "I have not forgotten you... my ego does not need to be King"
Get a round/cylinder vase from Michael's (11.00), Sunflowers from Trader Joe's (10.00), avoid google ring camera, place on door stoop with "Happy Birthday ONLY", OCCUPY her mind all day and night, go dark all day and night (so that she thinks you're pissed or other more important Plans), text her tomorrow at like 8am... hope Birthday was fun !! Let her lead in convresation-flowers will come out..."i did not want to infringe upon or possibly invite myself into your Birthday without invitation... not my place."
You might even get laid if you ask to meet for "little late martini birthday toast/drink"-know it is a test dumbass and have one ONLY ... take her hand and walk home.-She will make the Call !!!

[Asker]

i agree that i didn't understand what she wanted last year on her birthday , it was tough cause it was end of season and her last day at work was a couple says after and she went back to school. at the time wasn't really sure what she wanted and with so little time together remaining nothing really happened

she might also be going to a concert? not sure is this big country concert nearby this weekend , its sold out so i couldn't get tickets but kind of wondering if she's going to it so i might not even see her at the place she normal goes to on Friday/sat depending on what night she works or goes

[Asker]

i think there is something about last years birthday or what occurred or didn't occur afterwords that she is still upset about but she doesn't want to open up to me about it

perhaps she felt she gave me a chance last year and i didn't do anything or at least enough to actually try and get with her. perhaps she's annoyed i'm still trying when she felt i already was given a chance and did nothing , i'm not entirely sure

[In_Trance]

So, what's your question?