Polls: Girl's Behavior

Also argue, create drama/problems and cause all kinds of sorrow?

No matter who the guy is, friend, boyfriend, stranger, is it candy to your eyes?

I've been involve with women before who i eventually found out were married and they didn't give a shit about their husband their husband. One girl i remember even said "He doesn't care, he knows i can leave him at any time" about her husband who was supporting her while she went back to school. I've seen other instances where a girls boyfriend was in vicinity and she would blatantly flirt, and give the go to signals of wanting to fuck a handsome man.After reading some comments I've realize that other male gagers have similar experience. Here are there quotes

"As a good looking male I see women ignore their boyfriends/husbands to try and get my attention. Its sickening. There are some rare occasions where the women is faithful to her partner by not being such a fan girl. Women are WAY more picky than males. I wondered if I was good looking I would never get the time of day or attention of any female so when they I go outside I ignore them. There are only a few females I know out there that aren't so shallow."

Another gager:

"I've had women lie and tell me they don't have a boyfriend (when I know they do have one) and the ones that do have one always seem to be looking for something better. I've never met a woman yet that showed loyalty. They may think they are loyal but as soon as they become attracted to me, that goes out of the window because they are led by their emotion and tingles."

Another gager"I've been hit on by single moms and a few married women. After I rejected one married woman, she lamented how most men would never care that she was married and how that fact made her like me even more.

The most common thing I've noticed is women in long term relationships looking for something new while keeping their current guy as a backup plan. Their current guy thinks she is loyal, sweet and a good girlfriend but we know better. Yea I bet we have had quite a lot of similar experiences."

Women cheat more than men today by the way.

I'm writing this post because I noticed other guys on here were worried about the same thing. I didn't know where else to go to ask for opinions.

I recently moved to Europe and speedos are mandatory in swimming pools (although now short shorts are fine too). I prefer swimming in a speedo, but am afraid to look ridiculous in one.

I mainly worry that women would look at my bulge and judge what they see. Would they look? My body is not perfect, but if I wore shorts, it wouldn't make a difference... my body is my body. The question mainly is: what is the first thing you think when seeing me in a speedo? And... should I just stick with shorts no matter what (+ reason: dont have the legs/bulge/butt for a speedo, or whatever other reason)? Thanks for your honesty ;)

I basically want to know what most girls look for in a guy the most, because it seems to me that none of you are looking at all lol. Guys you can also vote what you want to see in a girl but I did tailor the options to what I think is a more female centered menu.
Ultimately, I want to know what qualities will make me and other single men more likely to succeed at getting partners for long term relationships.

So i just finish reading a piece by a person named, George Smith, who just came out of a divroce only to realize that a lot of women these days don't want sex, relationship from majority of males but their attention.


"After a divorce, George Smith, 47, is dating again and finding that women don't want sex or a relationship, just attention. "

And it seems that this seems to be a common thing. Just recently a question featured on front page had a guy talk about how he was played, and used for attention by a girl on FB.

"In talking to a girl om fb I like that I met on holiday and she's sending me mixed signals. One day she'll be really blunt about everything and not talk a lot then the next she'll be extremely flirty with me and will consistently initiate conversation.

I've come to the conclusion that she just likes talking to me when she's bored or when she wants to be complimented etc. I'm really fed up about it because I feel like I'm wasting my time and have decided I'm just not gonna message her anymore."

In addition to this I've come across a girl stating many women are getting screwed romantically with the men THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH and have opted to using the men they don't want sexually to give them the attention, affection they would have gotten in the relationship while using another guy completely for sex who i'm guessing is tall, handsome and couple tiers more attractive than them. If they can get both then is your boyfriend.

And then i ran across this woman's quote

"Attention until they are ready and want love. Attention is the same thing for woman as sex is for guys. If someone is throwing it at you, you aren't going to knock it off or shut it down. You will revel in it. Being wanted is better then being had. When girls are ready then they want love and to settle down just like guys. No not every girl needs or wants attention like that just like not every guy needs or wants sex like that but in my opinion it's different ends of the same thing."

From Pizza to Packages... Delivery People See It All. Back when I worked in Pizza I got flashed at least twice a week. (Perks of Delivering in a College Town) It's not all good but sometimes it's Great! I wouldn't even complain about a poor tipping woman if I got to see some Boobies. Have you Flashed before? Was it a dare? Did you just want to see his reaction? Have a funny story about it?

It's certain questions that kind of leave you wondering what kind of delusional world women are living in when they believe MOST men can get sex very easily and is one of the reasons why they can't find a guy to seriously commit.

I'm going to leave a quote from two users:

Female GAG



"They're going for the guys a lot of other girls would want too. The problem with that is when people have a ton of options for sexual and romantic partners who are all of similar caliber, they're more likely to think of you as disposable and replaceable, and not be emotionally invested in you.

Those women need to communicate more and have boundaries. If a guy doesn't want to go out on dates, get to know you, be exclusive, etc. and is only interested in sex... don't hang out with him. It doesn't matter how great he seems. That's not what you're looking for, so why bother? If girls collectively did this, they'd see better results."

Male GAG

"I was in a lab of about 30 people. On the first day we had to introduce ourselves socialize and make groups. I went up to two girl confidently and start talking to them and all the other girls started gravitating towards me from all corners of the room... I ended up with me and 3 girls in my lab group. Throughout the semester all the girls from other groups came to hang out at my lab bench and flirt with me and ask me questions and for help. The TA that prepped materials for the lab always came by to talk to me and even the female professor would treat me special. I was the big swinging dick in the room. One of the guys in the lab who was a rich frat boy got pissed off about it and actually came up to me and said "I don't get it! What the hell is so special about you?" and he started making comments about me and I blew it off with a joke and some oblivious act and all the girls giggled and we went on our way... When you're on top sure you get approached... But everyone one else is no one...