Polls: Girl's Behavior

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It looks so bad!

WHY would anyone do that?

Ladies do you mind if a guy see you naked? On a date or a home getting ready to go out with him

Would you ever consider going topless while with friends if the situation required it?

(For example: you're at the beach and you all decide to take a bath. You don't wear a bra but just a shirt. Your gfs are in your same situation and go topless without minding at all, even if there are guyfriends next to them. Would you do it as well?)

Some may say this sounds sad, pathetic, it's a trick, blah blah blah, but this is how it is.
I have always been quite shy when it comes to women and don't have great social skills with ones that aren't friends. I never had a female friend that I hung out with until my second year in college. I'm not awkward, just shy. Since then, any close female friend that I have, I have the strong urge to ask to see them naked. I talked to a counselor about it, and she said that since I have little experience in the dating department, I see nudity in a friend as a feeling of trust and intimacy that I don't have in my life.
I won't lie, part of it is sexually-based: they are attractive friends. But it is really about how good of friends they are, and if they did this for me, it would satisfy many needs of closeness that I don't have.
I have asked two close friends about this- one said yes, and did let me see her for a few minutes. She and I are still good friends, and a weight on our friendship has been lifted.
Another friend said yes, then changed her mind back and forth many times, ultimately settling on no. I understood, but afterwards, I did feel hurt, and she felt awkward around me. Now, we aren't friends.
There are others I wish I could ask, but am way too afraid. I could just shut up about it and deal, but then I find myself withdrawing from the friendship anyways, which also hurts.
I know how this must sound to many of you reading this, but it has been something I've been carrying around for years. Should I risk bringing it up with other friends, or just stay quiet and hope we stay friends? I'm also worried they'd think I'm lying about it JUST to see them naked.

So girls, would you ALLOW a good guy friend that you trust see you naked?

Please, only constructive comments.

I have a lady colleague working beside me who crosses her legs every time without fail when she sits. I have never seen her sitting without her legs crossed. Not always but quite frequently, she even crosses her legs again at her ankle like this: https://tinyurl.com/np27dzz Do you cross your legs this way too?

Girl I snapchat never sends an ugly face or anything I send her a few ugly faces like eyes squinted and tongue out and she sends back herself in an outfit or something or her face close up with her eyes wide open (you know what I mean ladies when you take a picture and try to look extra cute)... I'm not upset I enjoy seeing her when she's all prettied up but idk... sometimes we snapchat eachother late at night and if she doesn't have her mascara or make up on she covers her face with her hand or closes her eyes. One time I sent her a snap that asked to see her without her make up and she replied back changing the subject.. She gets really excited when I tell her she's pretty like if we're texting she suddenly start putting extra exclamation points on everything on top of the lol's in every text. Sorry for my long rant but yeah whaddya think ladies?

If you like a mixture of hair colors or shades/hues of certain colors, please explain.

For example, I am half ginger and half blond. However, my blonde side is an ashy blond. This gives me an ashy strawberry blonde color that is somewhat like a dull orange.

History between her and me: We know each other for a while. We studied together. I checked her out several times and she once caught me do it. She didn't mind though. She's a little bit tomboyish.

On topic: I asked her whether she could help me with something. If she could, then I'd fetch her up. The conversation was via e-mail. This is how the conversation went:

Me: "Hello X, Do you have time doing Y for me? If you do, then I'll fetch you up at Z o'clock."
Her: "Yeah sure. Alright!!!"

Your interpretation?

it's extremely hot these days and i'm walking around shirtless in the house.
If someone knocks on the door i ALWAYS put a shirt on. It takes a while sometimes to go get my t-shirt and then come back to answer the door. So in some instances the person just walks away.

Let's say i would open the door shirtless.(just with shorts on). i do not have anything to hide honestly as i am really tall and i have things to show. i don't have self confidence issues.
However, I am thinking if you'd find it rude/impolite/showing off or by contrary like it and enjoy the view?

So, I notice on here on questions like "What do you hate about your body the most"? That breast size is a common issue. I mean, sure, a lot of men like big breasts. That doesn't, however, mean that ALL men like them. I, myself, like smaller breasts. It annoys me to see so many people with A / B cup wanting to have D cup, as, I just don't really find that attractive. I mean, you don't need to seek male approval for everything.

Can anyone explain this obsession to me?

Some girls text first and others don't. Is there reasoning behind this? How many girls out there would just wait until the guy texts first. Does it really matter? Why would you wait if you're that girl that doesn't text first?

Would you wait past 2-3 days?

Just out of curiosity. Thanks :)