Do women like asexual man?

[Anonymous]

The title says it all, so do girls like asexual guys? And by that I don't mean specifically in a certain thing, like only for relationships, just everything in general, do girls like asexuals in general?

Yes.

No.

Updates

+1 y

According to the poll votes, so far everyone is an asexual phobic.

[scarygoodyr34]

I'm not sure what asexual means. All I know about it is that it means someone isn't sexually attracted to anyone or that they don't consider sex okay, but not very important aspect in a relationship.
I wouldn't automatically turn down a guy if he was asexual... it depends on if he respects me, if he's nice to me, if he's fun to be around, etc. How a man treats a woman is more important than sex.
I don't find many people sexually attractive. But if someone is attractive on the inside, I am very attracted to them.

[scarygoodyr34]

I meant that they consider sex okay, but not very important.

[SandPlanet]

Are you asking whether I like their personality? I mean, their asexuality is just one of countless of significant traits they have, so how could I possibly answer this question? It's as impossible for me to answer as it would be to answer a question asking if I like heterosexual or homosexual men in general.

[NoMoreDreams]

I don't see anything wrong with it. Personally I would be friends and or date an asexual guy. I feel like a relationship with them would be amazing.

[Asker]

Awesome, that's the fairest and best choice, to be in a relationship with someone regardless if they're sexual or asexual. And a relationship with them would only be amazing if the person was amazing himself, the only thing that changes is no sex or barley any sex in the relationship. A relationship with a sexual and asexual is nearly the same thing. Only difference is that asexuals give you no sex or barley any, and that sexuals give you sex often, at least weekly.

[NoMoreDreams]

Wouldn't the sexual partner not give any sex or barley any to the asexual partner?

[Asker]

Yea, because they can't have sex at all or much sex if 1 partner is asexual and doesn't like it. But the sexual partner would give sex often to another sexual partner.

[Mesonfielde]

It's not really a "phobia", I just think they expect sexual activity out of a romantic relationship. Considering that asexuality just means that you don't have the innate sexual arousal and sex drive that makes you want to have sex, it doesn't mean you can't physically get aroused (read: get an erection) and have sex, therefore all this asexuality noise is just prudishness.

[Asker]

1st of all, I didn't say anything about phobia of sex. I just said in the update that almost everyone who voted is an asexual phobic because they dislike asexuals in every way. And than you just explained the definition. And asexual and prude are totally different.

[chocolatedragon]

Hah. You're back. I missed you and how you accused sexual people of being sex craved perverts. For the most part, women like asexual dudes until they find out that they're asexual then it gets weird. But in some cases, I've seen some women become asexual to make their partners happy.

[Asker]

I have no idea what the heck you're talking about in your 1st sentence, and the word "Hah" before that. I NEVER did whatever sex crazed pervert thing you're talking about. And as for the sentences after that, they're an ok answer.

[sammy_31]

Umm well I wouldn't like a guy who is asexual being sexual to me is part of the relationship. Doesn't always have to be constant and crazy but it's more than just "sex" it's the bond and experience too.

[Asker]

You basically answered what I said not to, no offense, I wasn't asking if you would date/be in a relationship with an asexual, I was just asking if you liked them in general as people and what they are, and everything.

[sammy_31]

As people yeah I don't care but I wouldn't date one. I'm just being honest and not dissing them that's them and not me. They are humans I just dislike people who are ignorant and hard headed.

[Asker]

Sounds cool.

[ittybittyninjapanda]

I dated a guy who was kind of like that. He didn't want to hold my hand or kiss me or anything. I really liked him and everything but it just hurt me too much to be with him. To tell you the truth it made me feel not wanted. I don't think its fair to the person's partner in relationships like that. I know it's not all about physical stuff , I actually dated the guy for his personality because he was sweet and funny but still a kissing, hand holding and maybe somewhere in the future sex is a huge part of a relationship in my opinion so you can be connected in a special way.

[Asker]

The guy was aromantic, not asexual. Aromantics don't desire ANY type of physical contact at all. All they can do is like you and literally only experience emotional attraction. Asexuals at least desire kissing, hand holding, hugging, cuddling, holding, making out, ect. Anything physical that's not sex or very close to it.

[ittybittyninjapanda]

Oh ok but still, I wouldn't want to date an asexual either because I do want to someday have that physical connection with someone.

[Asker]

Okay.

[mutedaisy]

Are you willing to partake in making an actual baby and cuddle with us as much as we want? Okay... maybe not that much, but you know what I mean, yes? ^_^

[PrettyBama]

Id actually love to try it haha being with someone who doesn't want or expect sex would be fuckin amazing.

[misscocobutter]

No, I don't think I could end up with an asexual

[Asker]

I understand where you're coming from, but you answered what I said not to, I didn't ask you if you' like an asexual to be in a relationship with. I asked if you liked them as people and in general, basically everything.

[misscocobutter]

If we weren't in a relationship how would I know u were asexual.

[Asker]

By asexuals straight up telling you that they're asexual or telling you that they don't like sex and that they aren't interested in it.

[misscocobutter]

I see no reason to dislike u for your beliefs

[KBob93]

Do you still like kissing?

[Asker]

Hell yeah they do, not liking kissing and cuddling would be aromantic. Aromantic don't desire and don't like any type of physical contact, they can just love you emotionally. Asexuals at least like kissing and cuddling, they like any type of contact that isn't sex or very close to it.

[KBob93]

Oh, ok. Like massages & stuff is ok.

[kangy]

Be friends ok not lover

[Asker]

Sounds cool.

[goldenspice]

Only if they want friendship only. lol
And what is the deal with this board and the word 'phobic' on the end of every word? Its not a FEAR if you don't agree with something. ugh lol

[Asker]

The word phobic in this case doesn't mean fear, it means extreme hatred for. So far, almost everyone is an asexual phobic because they dislike asexuals in every way.

[goldenspice]

No one has extreme hatred unless its you having hatred for opinions on this other than your own. You seem to be making up your own conclusions without really listening to what people say.

[Asker]

So far almost nobody is an asexual phobic in the comments but nearly everybody is on the poll. Most people on the poll clearly voted "no", meaning that they hate/dislike asexuals a lot.

[goldenspice]

Okay... whatever.

[Anonymous]

I might be asexual, I don't know yet, but I'm definitely heterosexual

[LovelySerene]

Yup I do 100%

[Quasmay]

Can you define asexual a little?

[Illusive_Man]

Not interested in putting their dick into things , as in he might as well as lop his balls off.
As in entirely not interested in sex

[Quasmay]

Oh okay. Thanks

[Asker]

Not liking sex, not being interested in it, and this is the exact same thing but experiencing no sexual attraction.

[Quasmay]

Thanks! I was looking at it from a biological standpoint xD

[wendigoRed]

If you want to date women your not asexual.

[Asker]

Asexual just literally means to not be interested in sex and to not like it. It doesn't add not having desire to date and be in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Not if they wanted sex