Do women like men?

[Anonymous]

Do women even like men? I believe they just use them for protection, comfort and reproduction. I don't think they like us aesthetically, emotionally or that we even can satisfy them sexually. (if you see what a male human can do and what orgasms women are capable of you comprehend that the best sex in the world would be a half assed job). and in the end its the man that falls in love, women are indifferent. so... do women even like us at all?

Yes

No

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+1 y

the stats justify me pretty well. many honest women on gag... .

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+1 y

ok the dumb bitter shaming crowds asked for some analysis. i'll provide it. women don't love men, they love their idea of men. if you keep her satisfied mentally, emotionally physically, then she develops some "love" for you. that's not love thats bullshit. i've seen women losing their "love" when i stopped being in the edge all the time and chilled down letting out my true more introverted low profile character. i've seen women losing their "love" when i lost my job, when i got thyroid etc.

[Anonymous]

" I believe they just use them for protection, comfort and reproduction."
And you use us for nurturing, comfort and reproduction. But it doesn't mean it's JUST for that like we don't use you JUST for protection, comfort and reproduction.

"I don't think they like us aesthetically, emotionally or that we even can satisfy them sexually."
I think you're projecting on all men if some women don't like you, or thinking we see men like you see them. We love men as they are.

" (if you see what a male human can do and what orgasms women are capable of you comprehend that the best sex in the world would be a half assed job)."
We are not as obsessed with sexual mechanics as men are. You're projecting. Fucking our brains out can never beat being in love with us and having sex to express that. Stop projecting.

"and in the end its the man that falls in love, women are indifferent."
That means a woman hasn't fallen in love. And we do fall in love. I can't believe this has to be stated.

[Asker]

fall in love and love are two different things. as for the rest no projecting just science and physiology.
"we love men as they are" two jokes in the same sentence good job.

[Darkfairie17]

I love men. I think there are a lot of great guys out there. Men can be funny, smart, kind and have all sorts of other good qualities.

The reason you feel women hate men is because you have dated women who didn't truly love you. If a woman loves you for the right reasons she will stick by your side when bad things happen.

A true partner supports their SO during the tough times. They don't bail when things aren't ideal.

I'm sorry those things happened to you. But I think you just need to find the right woman. She is out there, trust me.

I know how you feel because I've had bad luck with guys. But I'm not giving up. I'm just trying to find a good guy who won't cheat on me and will support me though my bad times.

[Lolomon]

False... women love men. The amount of things women do that they aren't comfortable with because their man likes shows how much we like you. Or the fact that you will always see a woman who would jump into a fight with men if her man needs help, or that most women would fight another man for shit talking her guy or hitting. The fact that I would literally put my safety on the line says a lot. how many men would do that? Or a comment you made how many women would take a bullet? But how many times out of life is your life threatened with a gun vs. Getting into a fight? Women protect what they care about.

[Asker]

is that even real? haven't experienced it. haven't seen it. and haven't ever heard about it ever ever again.

[Lolomon]

Your living under a rock

[Asker]

or you have a very vivid fantasy. i got in that situatio two tims and the girls hid behind me. no chuck norris badassery.. .

[Prettygurl12]

Behold! Yet another wild GAG idiot. Best not inform it of its incorrect thoughts. It might run away. Take your pictures quickly folks, before it gets spooked by the flaws in its thinking.

[Anonymous]

The way women love men and the way men love women is not the same.

Neither is unconditional.

Both are valid, they're just different, and both men and women have a tendency to feel like the other doesn't 'really' love them or care about them when they realize it.

[Crazyced]

"Men's love is idealistic, women's love is opportunistic"

I've read that before from a male figure. But I just don't see that we are that fundamentally different in that regard. Maybe a slight tendency at most.

[Asker]

i get what you mean and agree. but in the depth of time no. as man developes true love. "no woman would eat a bullet for a man" to phrase it as shortly as possible... .

[Crazyced]

Do you know who Rollo is?

[Asker]

no honestly not

[RJGraveyTrain]

Man, the stuff that I see on here is astounding.

You tried to describe love as women want particular things from men... yes that is generally what causes all people of all genders to fall for one another. Everyone approaches love based off of a desire to be with them and that bond is strengthened by one's willingness to court and nurture their partner. Women very much so like men because if we didn't, there would be so many other avenues we could take to not even need romantic relationships with them: vibrators and artificial insemination for example. Technically, no woman "needs" a man, she chooses to be with one, the same way a man does.

I have the distinct feeling this is less about women and more about interpersonal issues.

[RJGraveyTrain]

If we want to be technical though, all love really is, is a chemical reaction which all humans are capable of. So yes women can in fact love men.

[GirlScout]

You accuse others of being bitter yet write a pile of shite like some angry kid who can't get laid. The irony is hilarious.

Women can love men, perhaps women haven't loved you but with that superior, condescending asshole tone I don't blame them. You claim women lost love for you when you had problems, that isn't really possible to comment because I'm positive there will be issues you haven't mentioned. One sided story does not count as empirical evidence.

So, since you claim there are many honest wen on gag, why do you believe only the ones that agree with you? If all you wanted was to shout about girls being mean why did you ask a question? Why not write a take instead. You instantly dismiss any responses that don't agree with you as lies so there is ZERO point in questioning something you've already decided in your own head.

[GirlScout]

*women, not wen

[GirlScout]

Your poll is too ambiguous dude, I doubt you've got that many people answering correctly.

Is it yes we like men or yes we only use them for reproduction?

[GirlScout]

And its 10 to 41.

[Asker]

your rant is a only further confirming that women can't love men. but since you are too prideful you can't have the truth rubbed in your face. the poll consists of 10 honest women, 20 liars and 20 deluded women who think that can love.

[GirlScout]

Of course, because that's what you want to believe and you are always right and everyone else is wrong.

[MissNowhere]

Everything you just said is super false. Yeah, believe it or not, we actually do like men. I love them. If that wasn't the case, all girls would be lesbians. It seems like you live under a rock.

[Asker]

just because you fuck us cause we have a penis and can buy you dinner, and you have something to discuss with your gfs doesn't mean you love us.

[MissNowhere]

You're very bitter haha

[Asker]

realist. know the difference.

[MissNowhere]

I do know the difference. Bitter it is.

[Asker]

you know nothing. you are too immature even for your age. you hate the truth, doesn't that make you bitter?

[MissNowhere]

Talking about yourself there, mister. If I didn't like guys, I would straight up tell you, I don't beat around the bush. I do like them, just like heaps of other girls. Just because no girls like you in particular, doesn't mean they don't like other guys. 😛

[Asker]

define "like".

[MissNowhere]

Define "like" when it comes to guys liking girls and it's the same thing.

[Asker]

yes kid cause you can just like. thats as fa as your loving potential goes. you are a woman.

[MissNowhere]

Your question was "Do women LIKE men?".

[Asker]

yes but some don't even like us. i've heard many mothers say to their daughters you are ageing find a stupid asshole to cover your children's expenses aka marry.

[MissNowhere]

Exactly, SOME. Not ALL OF US. So no need to generalize.

[Asker]

ok final question. why would you marry or stay with a man. and describe what you feel loving is.

[MissNowhere]

Why wouldn't I? Because I'm emotionally and physically attracted to them.
Can't talk to you about love though, since I don't have much experience with it.

[Gigglebytes]

I'm kinda divided on this because when a guy is lean and sexy I'm totally attracted physically, but when guys are just average looking I lose some of that physical interest. Regardless I can still have feelings for him if he is all the important things like smart kind and funny

[TheBasil]

Uhh...
Isn't it usually the other way around? Men cheat more and have higher sex drive.

Girls are known to be emotional and guys visual. This is
strange. I have met way more guys who uses girls then the other way around. I even had a father who always cheated while my mom was faithful at his site, so you don't know women xD

So yes we do fall in love and we can even fall for GUYS ( WOW SHOCKER)

Go on with your women hate, i'm sure the girls find you just super charming.

[Anonymous]

I actually pressed no by accident on the poll, but I meant to say yes. I can't speak for everyone, but there are definitely women that genuinely like men. I'm bisexual and, until now, I've only been in relationships with other girls, but I love the guy I'm with more than I've loved any other person. I like him visually and emotionally and I'll do whatever I can for him.

[Asker]

then why are you... with a girl if you like the guy more... ?

[9mfeo]

"I love the guy I'm with more than I've loved any other person."

[Asker]

@9mfeo ah ok i misunderstood the lesbian thingy.. .

[9mfeo]

You seem to be doing a lot of that. And she's not a lesbian, she's bisexual. Damn, are you ignorant.

[Asker]

@9mfeo well its an indirect way to say she likes women more. there is no bi. thats confusion at its finest. also noticed how most women are "bi"... ?

[9mfeo]

Where in the fuck do you get these "facts"? Honestly. Your ass must be sore from all the things you've been pulling out of it lately.

[Asker]

@9mfeo haha you got nice humor.

[Anonymous]

I think that guys are the most beautiful creatures ever created. Do I like guys? Yes. Do I love guys? Depends on the guy. I don't love them all some might not have the personality I like so therefore it couldn't develop into love. But a love for another human being is completely possible for me. And it would be for a guy not a girl. Don't really get along with girls at all.

[Rpf1918]

Everyone falls in love with an idea of a person. This is not exclusive to women. If the idea you had of the person does not fit the facts, whose fault is that? She can only go by what she sees of you, what you do and what you tell her. You're hung up on this idea that once you say you love someone, that's never allowed to change, regardless of whether the person changes or you discover things about them you didn't know before. That makes no sense to me at all.

[MFoey]

No, women are all god-awful savages that just use men for their life-sustaining sperm. YES we actually liek you

[JayneW]

I don't really get the question... of course women like men. I enjoy the company of male friends, I enjoy spending time with my boyfriend, the intimate moments and enjoying each other's company.

[Asker]

oh i like hanging round with my pals too. guess hows that NOT called... . love it isn't for sure.

[JayneW]

Well some men I can't stand, some women I can't stand. Some men I like and some women I like. Some men I have loved so passionately that I would do anything to make them happy. Like leave my job and go live with him. Seems like you have made up your mind, all the best!!

[Asker]

such a selective person that hates so many categories of people can't have ever really loved. it was just lust and this overemotional confusion you women get.. .

[JayneW]

Oh now I realise you're totally right, sorry my bad.

[Asker]

glad you understood. i hope its not sarcasm

[Joga_Dust]

We're always on opposites and both sexes are insecure. Women think men don't find them attractive, want other women, and don't care about their interests. Men seem to think the same way. I think it's funny but fascinating.

[itsallover]

The bitterness in this post. Lol.

[Asker]

yes but... no. its a logical frustration against the fact that women can't love not against them personally.

[itsallover]

You need to stop making generalisations. It will help your mindset, trust me.

[Anonymous]

I think you should stop using imageboards like /r9k/ and step out of the internet for a while. You need to start living a little because all the things you're claiming make no sense and you're being completely unreasonable. You sound inexperienced and your vision is clouded.
I hope you find a way to realize it, otherwise you will always be alone.

[Asker]

more of a realist than you will ever be. in fact experience played a huge role at forming my opinions. i'll never be alone. only women like you die alone.

[Opinion Owner]

You consider that to be realism?
I actually feel bad about you.

[Asker]

nothing ureasonable or untrue in what i said. it's exactly the picture of life. it's you that should get off of your covering rock. women are UNABLE physically, emotionally and spiritually to love men. loving is a job of men. it's just not what womanhood is about.

[Opinion Owner]

This is really concerning.

[Asker]

dont sweat about it too much its your nature. i'm not saying its bad. you dont pay attention. i'm very much of a realist to sweat over why women are like that. i continue my life knowing that this is the best they can do. its ok. i won't have the demand and expectation from my wife tomorrow to love me for example. i know what my role and her role is... .

[Opinion Owner]

You're quite wrong though and the worst thing is that you don't want to listen to anyone else apart from yourself.

[Asker]

ok lets say you are right. can you prove your claim somehow?

[RainbowFanGirl]

What is up with all of these misothrope questions? Did a woman break your heart or something? :(

[RainbowFanGirl]

Lol man dude I think you just need a hug.

[Asker]

hahaha its amazing. the lack of logic.

[RainbowFanGirl]

What logic? What's with the cynical attitude? Of course women love men. You're just going by the bad women in the world, this assuming that all women are bad. The generalizations are not always correct you know. Why are you so cynical? Did something happen?

[Asker]

all behaviors are lacking and extreme. is it better to be naive than cynical? if something happened? no i just shared my opinion to the world.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you live in a shitty town.

There is such thing as a rape culture.

[NearlyNapping]

If women don't like men, then Darwin was wrong and evolution never happened.

[shivering]

There are a few good men that I really respect. Alas, they are mainly historical or fictional characters.

[Anonymous]

Wrong again! Do you know how many times I have fallen in love alone? Don't be a miserable, self-pitying prick because no one will sleep with you and then call you in the morning. That's *my* thing.

[Asker]

lol you fail as a... the whole thing that is you anyway. your "falling in love" is third grade infatuation nothing loving about it. and no, all your assumptions are false/suck.

[Opinion Owner]

Ha, oh honey. How ignorant you are. Just because no woman loves you doesn't mean women don't fall in love.

[Asker]

failed again (clapp clap). probably some women "fell in love" but as i said... shallow infatuation, lust objectification etc. nothing real there... .

[Opinion Owner]

If you hate women so much, why do you want them to love you so badly?

[Asker]

i don't hate them the slightest moron but its sad to like someone you know can never practically love you. when the kids get in the way the shit hits the fan for good... .

[Opinion Owner]

You think very poorly of women, but you don't hate them. Interesting. Just call a spade a spade and come out as a misogynist. You'll feel much better.

[Asker]

no i don't hate them. i hate the fact they can't love us. that is true. but not women personally.

[Opinion Owner]

And why do you say that women can't love men? Because of personal experience? Too much MGTOW pestilence infecting your brain?

[Asker]

you want me to be analytic about it? ok i'll update.

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever stopped to consider that perhaps your experience with women is not universal? Or perhaps, that if women only love the idea of men, that men also only love the idea of women? That men don't actually want to deal with a real woman and her issues (because I was left at the altar for my anxiety disorder)? Get your head out of your ass and see the world how it really is, okay? You'll be doing us all a favour.

[Asker]

i agree. we are shallow very often but there is simply no comparison between the love of men and women.

[Opinion Owner]

And you completely ignored what I said. Again. Wow. You're hopeless. Enjoy being alone. This bitterness definitely isn't going to help your case.

[Asker]

you were dishonest about your condition. probably hid it. mine came up in the process. i had nothing to notice in your words. its you that get bitter cause deep inside you know you never showed true love to a man.

[Opinion Owner]

No, actually, I told him about it on our first date.

[Asker]

don't want to deal with a real woman? from your haoirto your face, but most importantly your characters its all fake. whats a real woman. a woman who wants us to be something else than our true selvesto like us, or the one that "loves" us as long as we are good providers? oh and one bad man in your life doesn't make us all bad. but i have seen ZERO women loving only one old lady. in my whole life. she was very weak herself but stayed day and night with her husband in the hospital for a month.

[Opinion Owner]

Notice how I have never said that men are all bad. You're projecting.

[Asker]

you implied it honey when you started ranting about how cruel this guy was. please don't insult our intelligence that much. i get that you can't love us but at least don't look down on us... .

[Opinion Owner]

No, man, he was cruel. He was an ass. I am fully aware that he is an individual, unlike you with your hatred of women.

[Asker]

"hatred" requires love. something you'll never understand. i know if i love women or not. my exes talk about me with the best words, but they never loved me. you were clearely talking about men not just the man, or you wouldn't mention it. women don't even love themselves they can't love men. if i hated them i'd be happy with their misery. in fact i'm not happy with it at all. women dont love their face and put makeup on it. don't love their character and lie. don't love their weaknesses and hide them. they don't value their time and waste it on shallow nonsense. someone who hates herself that much can't love.

[John_Doesnt]

They like the things we have and the things we give them.

[zell0is0my0name]

Believe me I was the girl who started the #killAllMen hashtag on twitter :P