Are a lot of women asexual?

[ADFSDF1996]

I mean no offense. I've heard that asexuals can still be straight, gay or bisexual but the difference is that they don't feel sexual attraction to people. They can still feel romantic feelings but they don't get sexually aroused by looking at people. I don't know if this is true about asexuality.

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[btbc92]

Actually that is called having self control. Everybody has some kind of libido. Attraction is choice. And what your talking about is lust. Asexual means not having and kind of attraction to anything. In plants is the ability to reproduce own its own. Human's can't do that. Plus asexual's in my opinion won't have romantic feelings. Remember the term 'asexual'. They have no need for sex, or romance with anybody or anything. They may not even understand the full concept of it for themselves in their lives or experiences. It has nothing to do with just sex. It just means that they have no need for anything of that level.

And no, a lot of women are not asexual. Its either male or female equally. Lusting is just wrong. Admiring a person is fine. But lusting is crossing the line with some people like me.

[ADFSDF1996]

A lot of asexuals claim to have romantic feelings but no sexual feelings.

[ADFSDF1996]

That's what confuses me.

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996

Then their not asexual but think they are because they haven't had much experience with men or women to know the difference. If you look up what Asexual means, you will see what I mean. I know what that means. That is why I'm saying that. Again its not having a need to get involved sexually or romantically. Romance would have to mean their attracted to something or somebody. You can't have romance without attraction.

[btbc92]

It doesn't always have to be sexual. I'm straight and like men only. But just because I control my urges, it doesn't mean that I'm not attracted to them. I chose to save that for marriage. To have sex is a choice. A anybody can have sex and not be attracted to anybody in a lustful manner. It is only an act if that is all it is to that person. It can mean something or is meaningless.

[ADFSDF1996]

If you can't have romance without attraction then why do people say women aren't visual?

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996

To tell you the truth, even that is basically a lie. Women are visual differently. But not in the same way as men. We are visual by emotion. Its how we feel and what we connect with that feeling. It then gets stored in our memory, and we tend to relive every moment of that memory. Think of it like Virtual Reality. While men however have to have simulation and objectivity to become visual and he will connect to what he is seeing and doing. So the only way to experience that same feeling again, he has to do the exact same time to try ti achieve the same results.

[ADFSDF1996]

So women don't like how men look?

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 No, its nothing like that. Many women are lustful. But it has nothing to do with just looks. There has to be a connection. Or else sex is just sex and lust is just lust. That's not enough for women. We were never designed for that. We were designed to love, procreate and be with our spouses in marriage and the cycle continues. The problem is that men have this idea that they have to do other things to please a woman. No matter what a guy tries to do, I'm not impressed by looks or talents alone. And besides a relationship is not what I want in this life. But for other women, they have their own reasons for the way they do things. Again, we are just biologically different. Not all women are the same in all areas.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm confused, do women feel attracted to a man's appearance? Or do women look at men in the same way straight men look at men. Since I'm a straight man, I don't find men attractive at all.

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 Yes, women are attracted to a man's appearance. But it isn't all about looks. That is where shallowness comes from. Because say the person doesn't look attractive to you. Does that mean you can't love them and want to be with them? You have to look at the inside, not the outside. Women needs more than looks. Not a person who is so conceited with looks that they have vanity. To me, that is not attractive. To nearly 90% of women, it is.

[btbc92]

It depends on what your looking for as a young man and what kind of woman you want and need. Because other women's needs and wants are not the same. And a lot of times if your interested in the person for the wrong reason, you'll lose them.

[ADFSDF1996]

What if you care about looks and personality?

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 For other women that is perfectly okay. But the reality is looks will fade. If nobody understands that now, is why it causes people to lose attraction later on in life. They break up, and sometimes cheat, and their often no satisfied.

[btbc92]

Too many people are often hung up on looks that its becoming a serious problem with those who don't meet the 'beauty standards'.

[ADFSDF1996]

I think that as someone gets older the people they are attracted to also change, a 20 year old finds people within their age group attractive. A 50 year find people within their age group attractive. There are exceptions of course.

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 It really all depends on their personal belief's and how they were raised. I don't believe in that. I believe at the heart of a man, then come's his belief's, morals, value systems and his personality. Looks comes last on my list. Because that is what matters to me. The rest comes after. If other women wants to blindly go after guys for looks or whatever their after, its up to them. But I'm not like other women.

[ADFSDF1996]

So you do find men attractive based on their looks but it's not important?

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 No, that is not what I am saying. What I'm saying is that I could IF I wanted to. But I don't. Im not looking for that anyway as I am a celibate woman. Plus you have to be very careful who you end up attracted to or else you may end up attracting trouble.

[ADFSDF1996]

If women can be attracted to a man's looks why do people say that women aren't visual?

[btbc92]

@ADFSDF1996 As I have stated before. This is because 'science' and those who practice science claims this. Now it is proven that we can control who were attracted to. Look it up.

[ADFSDF1996]

I think I understand now, thanks for Sharing an opinion.

[vishna]

I found one study that said 70% of asexual people are women. However, only about 1% of the entire world population is asexual. So, no, I don't think a lot of women are asexual on the grand scale. I've met one person who told me she was asexual and another who was so repulsed by sex and genitalia she said she'd never go to the gynecologist and couldn't even think about sex, I think she's asexual. But she was also really conservative religious, so, I think that may be an influence.

[Jxpxtxr]

Well, first all women were bisexual, then all women were lesbian, now all women are asexual - can you really not come up with a more plausible explanation as to why you fail to attract the oppisite gender?

[ADFSDF1996]

You know, I'm actually too shy to talk to women, I avoid eye contact, so I haven't really tried to attract women yet.

[Anonymous]

I don't buy into the asexual movement... to me it's bs.

Girls just have incredibly high standards that no human will meet.

[anonman32]

Everyone is asexual until they are horny.

[anonman32]

I have not insulted you man.

[ADFSDF1996]

That's a good point, pardon the pun.

[ADFSDF1996]

I know🙂.

[anonman32]

Ok sorry. I thought it was aimed at me.

[ADFSDF1996]

It's cool.

[Zendrya]

Asexuality means they still have romantic desire just no sexual. So they would identify as homoromantic asexual or heteroromantic asexual etc

[CisScum]

I'm pretty sure only 1% of the world are asexual.

[pineappleshortcare]

I don't know any, personally.

[TiffyPuff]

No, I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

No most woman are not asexual.

[relaxrelax]

no one is asexual

[FallOutBoy2001]

Actually they are

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

ASEXUAL IS A FEELING cause there's only 2 sexes
male and female

NOW HOW THE GUY AND GIRL FEEL I DON'T GIVE A DAMN
FEELINGS DON'T MAKE REALITY

[FallOutBoy2001]

Asexual means you aren't sexually attracted to either gender, smartass

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

I know
I remember back in high school girls and guys use to say there asexual
now there fucking and having kids

so I don't care how they feel in the moment
cause i have felt a ton of things
from rape
to torture
to murder

should I just say hey I feel it so let me do it lol
no that's stupid
there are rules in place for everything

[FallOutBoy2001]

You really are stupid

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

NO!!!
you are saying its okay to follow your feelings no matter what they are

[FallOutBoy2001]

Uh, no. I'm saying that some people aren't sexually attracted to anyone, at all. Kinda like people are sexually attracted to girls or guys, or both.

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

that's a feeling and you are saying its okay to follow it through
to be asexual
to be gay
to be lesbian
to be bisexual

then it's okay to
rape
murder
torture
it's only a feeling it's okay

[FallOutBoy2001]

Um, that's confusing. How is wanting or not wanting to have sex with a consenting individual the same as physically harming another person?

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

there harming themselves just the choice of been gay or lesbian they are harming themselves
then doing the act affects the body even worse

so yes there damaging themselves mentally and genetically

[FallOutBoy2001]

... yup, clearly *I'm* the idiot here

[FallOutBoy2001]

It's not a choice, though I don't think you'll ever work that out considering that you're as thick as an encyclopedia with none of the knowldege

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

STUDY IT OUT
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a31778-why-i-believe-people-are-not-born-gay

[FallOutBoy2001]

Sweetheart, no, just no

[FallOutBoy2001]

I've reviewed that entire study, it was biased through and through. Don't even get me started

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

you can say its biased all you want

cause now we have this
Genesis 6:4
There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them

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I have studied this for years now this is real

GOD is real no one is born gay
which is why i tell people i don't care how they feel

[FallOutBoy2001]

Damn, I just realized you can vote.

Fuck, it's true, idiot's votes count.

And besides, I've made it clear that giants never existed. Now, if you want to come back to reality, that's be great

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

okay lie too yourself
not my fault i stick to actually evidence

you run on period blood and emotions lol
good luck

[FallOutBoy2001]

You want me to get a guy to agree with me? @Waffles731 @goaded

[Waffles731]

@FallOutBoy2001 Asexual people do indeed existl
Nikola Tesla for example or Lawrence of Arabia

[goaded]

@FallOutBoy2001 "Damn, I just realized you can vote."

Don't worry, just don't tell him about the secret real vote on the 9th. :)

[relaxrelax]

@FallOutBoy2001

THEY have no scientific evidence for the case of people been born gay
lol all they have are gay people saying there born gay, i don't care how any of them feel
bring me facts
not feelings

since the human race thinks they
make there own rules
there is no real truth anything goes

[louiseisaturtle]

Nipple pain

[Anonymous]

I'm not.