Would you ever date someone if you knew there was no chance of ever having sex?
All the other parts of the relationship would be there hugs, cuddles, sleeping in the same bed, spooning, kisses all the way to maybe a little bit of touching up, but nothing more, no under clothes groping or hand jobs, blow jobs, no sex.
Would you be okay with this? What about if you agreed with your partner that you could look for sex elsewhere and have a sort of friends with benefits thing going, but in the end you would still be dating the asexual?
Most Helpful Guy
I gotta say u was n a relationship, after she had a child she never really touched me, we slept in the same bed and never had anything. There was no touching, no cuddling, no spooning, no nothing. SMH got out that quick. She didn't want a hug or even hold hands in public.
now this was after she we had a child together. before she was ripping my clothes off. Sitting on my lap, dry humping me. it was amazing. it all changed after we had a child together.
guess she used me to have a child lol.
O well u live u learn.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I'm asexual, but I still fall in love with people and I still want to date them. I just don't want anything sexual, and I understand that others do want to have sex and I shouldn't take that away from them. I would prefer to fall in love with another asexual person for that reason, but if I didn't I would be ok with them finding other ways or other people to satisfy their needs as long as it didn't go any further than fulfilling their physical needs.4