What's it like to be in a relationship with an asexual man?

[Anonymous]

Even though I'm not asexual myself (I'm average... not low but not high either), what would it be like if I were in a relationship with a man like that?

We always complain about men trying to get into our pants. How about an asexual man? What would it be like to find date he?

[MrHopper]

I am low and it's often been an issue in relationships as my partners feel unwanted despite me doing other things for them, showing my affection as a doer... I e. I do a lot of house work, make things, buy gifts, help them with problems and look after them. Things do settle down over time but it does come up every now and then.

I guess if your with asexual man you might end up wanting sex and find initiation turned down which can make you feel bad

[Asker]

It sucks that sex is part of a person's life and many people find it important when there are other great things in the relationship too.
I like the things you do for her. I'm searching for an asexual man and will see how it work. I think I can handle a man with low sex drive.

[MrHopper]

Agree, there is more to life than sex and so much more enjoyable things to do! We are out there!

[Berethor]

Worse than being in relationship with asexual woman, because men are expected to be active.

[Asker]

I would like a relationship with that rare breed. I think I can handle a man with low sex drive.

[Berethor]

Because you asexual? men tend to be more sexual than women, so those men really rare.

[Asker]

Not really. I have an average sex drive (I still masturbate 3-4 a week) but I'm tired of the men that push for sex too soon. So I think think solution would be to get that rare breed that has a lower sex drive than me.

[Berethor]

The grass is always greener on the other side, you likely feel unattractive pretty fast.