Girls, do you have any qualms about dating an asexual guy?

[Anonymous]

I think I’m asexual as I’ve had no sexual desire with anyone I’ve been with; but I’ve been fine having sex if the person I was with wanted me to.

If you dated someone like this how would you feel Is this a red flag, a perk, a flaw how do you see it, would it annoy you he wouldn’t make a move, would you be happy to have that ‘control’? Or is it just a neutral thing that’s meh, No care about it.

[Anonymous]

I don’t care about it, but it’s concerning that you would have sex with someone if *they wanted to*.
don’t do something that you don’t want or feel comfortable doing.
besides that, i think a lot of women who aren’t asexual, would look for some other sort of intimacy - cuddles, kissing, hugs, hand holding… are you into that?

[Asker]

Intimacy like that I absolutely love and definitely want. With sex it’s not that I’m disgusted or don’t want it, doesn’t make me uncomfortable. I just have no drive cause I don’t care about it like at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh gotcha. I think a lot of girls would be okay with that, I mean I would… As long as you’re intimate in other aspects, many people would appreciate that.

[Mac-One]

Even if you don't have sex, intimacy is still important in a relationship.