You can't fix or even help someone with addiction issues if they don't want to get clean and sober themselves. It can be a hard pill to swallow. But I learned that with my last girlfriend. She was in her late 20's and already having serious liver issues. I offered her as much help as I could and she never took it. Simply because for her own reasons she didn't want to get sober. So I have no choice but to leave her and cut off all contact. Because I didn't want to be around when her addiction killed her.
Yes, it is bad. He will not stop drinking and will pull you into all his drama. You should find somebody else. You can fix him. He can only fix himself.
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Being in a relationship with one will be hard. Because eventually he'll choose the bottle over you. But, it might be something that you have to experience it for yourself.
Your friends are right. But it's OK, some people have to learn the hard way. And some people can be functional alcoholics. Maybe you'll get lucky.
Aw you sound like my prom date she thought she was lesbian till she met a guy she really liked ( me😁) and I assure you 21 is college sophomore age and all of them are alcoholics
I'm not going to say don't date him. But do be prepared for a lot of drama and don't imagine you can save him from himself.
He will hit you and abuse you , so go for it. Don't come here in a month complaining what to do after.
It's called Enabling. Don't go crying to the police if he gets drunk and hits you!
you already know they are alcoholic so stay clear if you can at all
Run away its doesn't get only worse I was married to one the only love she had was love for vodka
You wonât be able to get him to stop drinking.
Of course... how is that a question?
It probably isnât a good idea
Very very bad
Very bad idea.
Yes.
Not a good idea
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