Are first loves unforgettable?

[Anonymous]

Are first loves unforgettable and memorable no matter what?

[SueShe]

I do not have the experience as an adult to answer this question because I don't date and neither do you have any interests in dating or being with someone. There are way too many issues.

However as a child, my first love was and still is my mother because that is a link that every child has. My first love, my mother, will always be in my memory as the person that gave me life, that raised me, fed me and gave me the knowledge I have.

Of course, my dad was and still is equally important because without his care, dedication and self-sacrifice I would not be where I am now.

So yes, your first love is unforgettable.

[DishLady]

Sort of... You end up remembering too much about the good stuff and forget why they're not your "first-and-last" loves. Usually best left in the foggy past.

[Jacobbbb]

I think it's different for men and women. I can't speak for all but most men can disassociate rather easily and drop all feelings, at least most feelings. Sometimes just depends on the person though. Some can move on and others stay hung up.

[Jacobbbb]

Thank you for the most helpful award

[OlderAndWiser]

It's been 53 years and I haven't forgotten her, but even though she lives in the same city, I also haven't seen her in 50 years.

[Alice18]

Yes !!! First date , hug , kiss , first sexual things in secret from parents. It's amazing. Gold time )

[DrPepper12]

Correct!!

[RebelinSteel]

Hmm they do fade a good bit

a lot likely depends on your age when you love

18 then you likely remember longer, 16 likely less

[FuqUFggt]

Everything is forgettable. I had a mini stroke at 40 and couldn't remember moving to Texas at 30. Forgot my children's entire life. That was three years ago and I pieced my memories back together but they aren't real memories. They are me remembering pictures and stories other people told me about my life.

[SueShe]

Do I read your answer correctly?

You are 22 yet you had a mini stroke at age 40! Wow!

[FuqUFggt]

I am 42 and a half. I'm from before the internet I don't know how to change it from saying I'm 22. My name isn't really FuqUFggt either.

[FuqUFggt]

And before you bitch about 40 and 3 years not equating 42 and a half I rounded up.

[avery58]

I forgot mine. I genuinely not care what they're doing

[avery58]

Do not care*

[laly520]

in my opinion once u find the right one, the memory of ur first love becomes easily forgettable

[DrPepper12]

No!!! Sad

[laly520]

at least for me
memory of my first "love" isn't a pleasant one
in fact not sure if I ever could label it as love
same applies to my ex
the only person I'd say I am certainly in love, sharing genuine love feelings with is my current fiance
who never thought of using me or showing any cruelty to me n is the first guy to be completely different to me since day one till now

[DrPepper12]

That's fair. I guess I've been very fortunate in my dating career. I'm still friends with all of them.

[laly520]

@DrPepper12 happy for u
it makes lot of things easier

[Chazmatazz269]

Short of traumatic brain injury or mental deficiencies, i think ‘yes’.

[exitseven]

yes, I remember all of them but the first one is different for sure.

[Makeushiver]

Yeah, they can. I can't re. em er her name for sure. Summer when I was 11-12. I was totally chickens hit & never told her nor her men despite the magnetism. put on my big bog pants and wind up serving my community

[DrPepper12]

Yup! Even spin the bottle was unforgettable!!