Do you ever forget your first love? 🥺?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[slatyb]

I haven't forgotten any of them. I wish I could forget my ex-wife.

[Davidhk]

Lol, she was that awful mate?

[t-8900]

savage

[slatyb]

@Davidhk Histrionic Personality Disorder.

[yofuknutz]

Yeah all the bad personality

[Iron_Man]

No never

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpful Award

[yofuknutz]

please tell us a story bro

[SLRK3]

My first ever boyfriend and I was his first ever girlfriend. Well to put it clearly we were each others firsts in everything like kiss, hold hands, sex, prom, everything. On and off 5 years. From 8th grade to right after high school.

Well we reconnected 2 weeks ago and strong feelings flew and he wanted to be my boyfriend, convinced me to say yes to be his girlfriend and my excitement spread. Finally after 21 years off and on we are mature enough to see where this can go. No more wondering what ifs...

Til he moved out of his divorcees house and inwith his dad. 2 weeks in he broke up with the excuse that he doesn't want anyone to get hurt! My world shattered!! In high school I wanted to marry this guy. And I told him no turning back and he broke it off.

His dad is my dad's best friend and has been in his ear about not hurting g me emotionally or bad timing because he is still legally married. His dad doesn't want to se either go back and my dad be upset with my dad's best friends son. Though my dad will disown me before he would his friends son.

What do I do? I feel hurt and he only wants to be friends!! I don't want to just be friends!! I'm ready to see if this is just feelings or if it has meant to be our future. If our connection was meant to be US all along!!

ARE WE EACH OTHERS FUTURE THIS WHOLE TIME?


Yeah no. I'm still in love with mine!!

[fr44c3iqqs]

Search online for ways to get him to fall for you. There are actually methods that work.

[SLRK3]

Don't need too. He just told me last night he isn't going anywhere. We are doing this forever

[fr44c3iqqs]

Wait, no way! Do you mean that he agreed to be back with you? If yes, that’s awesome for you!

[SLRK3]

Yes. Super stoked!!

[yofuknutz]

Manage your expectations please just like this stupid website manage or you're be the one getting managed

[fr44c3iqqs]

@SLRK3 , I am glad that you guys worked it out! Would it be fine if I private message you for some tips? Because there is also a girl that I met again from very long ago, who also happens to be my first girlfriend ever. I wanted to see if you could give some tips as to what girls would like guys can do to increase the chances (not that they will work but can be helpful, not that they are all the tips in the world of course) despite not expecting. More details on that in the private message if you agree to give some tips, which would be highly appreciated.

[SLRK3]

Feel free to message me.. Will help as much as I can

[fr44c3iqqs]

Thanks.

[pickedcrisps]

What's harder is meeting a spark after meeting that person's or getting sparks more than once in a lifetime. I've have two so far. Both times while single thankfully.

Strangely the second time was while some woman 😀😝😜🙄🙄🙄 was supposedly engaged. And she certainly seemed to be talking quite nicely and I did wonder whether it was just typical friendliness (I'm usually a chatterbox myself) or if it was just my incorrect vibes.

Or even maybe she was exploring the feeling but knowing it was not going to be acted on nor would it have eventuated so why.

Ah well. Needless to say I'm still here single today hahaha

[TruthBringer]

They will remain only a memory. Feelings will change and eventually disappear, but you won't forget them. And that is totally fine, because you're just going to live life without them and not be bothered by the thought of them. In fact, the memory of them will mean less and less overtime. This is especially true when you found someone else you love and happens to be better.

I cherish the memories I have with my current girlfriend much more than my memories I made with the first girl I loved.

[Vikkrram]

Yup , But it was hard to forget... it Tooked me around 1and a half years... to moove on. It always happens wid me , now this time Also when i am writing i am going through a same situation. It happens wid me all the time coz basically i am a shy guy... and for me it's hard to express my feelings. So people think that i am uninterested and they leave me. 😅

[Jlegacy]

I have long forgotten the first girl I had a thing for. Reason is I found my forever one. Also who I was and who I am now are different. I love who I am now. I was not as wise and confident as I am now and my esteem is full now. Then I would have loved anybody just to experience love. Now, if you are not perfect for me, nah.

Last love is my favorite and I found her.

[humpbackjack]

I wouldn’t say forget but you definitely get over them. There’s going to be found memories you’ll want to remember regardless of the bad ones which you’ll also remember it just won’t hurt anymore you might feel embarrassed or you my laugh at the bad ones but the important thing is to learn from them and avoid them

[cth96190]

I wish that I could forget that evil cow.
Susan broke my heart on 17 December, 1978.
She began a process that left me psychologically incapable of loving a woman again.
My second love, Adrianne, completed the process when she murdered our baby in the womb, then dumped me and two months later was engaged to an older and much wealthier man.

[Prakbio]

Time is medicine for this.. I used to think that I will never forget her.. but with passage of time memories becomes cloudy.. completely forgot is different thing but you love others marry others and things change and may be with family you can forget.. I almost have forgot her now I know iths her birthday in this month but when I don't remember.. so yes that hurt feelings gets fade a
With passage of time

[HOAAH]

I still think of all my loves in the past. Even the brief crushes. It doesn't mean i want to be with them. It doesn't even mean that i am still in love with them. I just cling to the feelings i used to have that i felt when we were younger.

[Anonymous]

You may not forget them but they want to forget about you. Fuk her, she had someone else's kid and THEN gave it up for adoption what a fuking winner. I saved her life and this is the thanks I get well at least she was awesome in the sack.

[kitty71]

My first love was my first and last love literally so I will never forget him and I will never forget it mostly because this guy passed away last year at 47.

[yofuknutz]

Wow that's kind of young what the hell

[Sidfawy]

Sorry to hear that

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I never forget people who were once significant in my life. However, I leave them in the past. I don't make it a point to think about them anymore.

[Asker]

You thought about him right now?

[FreyaRed]

No but I wish I could. He was so cool in the school but after I dumped him, he yelled at night through a megaphone my name and how he loves me in front of my parents house.

[helva]

Never will forget. I was 5, we would marry and have 4 children: 2 boys and two girls. We were arguiing to know in what order.

[Alyssa11]

What is a first love? Someone I loved or someone I was in a relationship with?
Either way I don’t care about both lol.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, she broke up with me, broke off our engagement, we went to the local magistrate's office she started issues and I ended them I almost went to jail over her so It was sad but it was for the best

[Anonymous]

Yes luckily, I barely think of him and that‘s awesome.
He was my first love yes but it was hella toxic plus he was lying all the time and cheating on me emotionally. Then after we broke up, he got with one of my closest friends. Never, again.

[Browneye57]

You replace old memories with new ones... but the old ones don't just disappear.
If you truly loved someone you never forget them.

[Aurora1010]

Yes because they're not in my life so what's the point?

[es20490446e]

No, because it was the shittiest period of my life by far.

Happy to know that kind of crap could not happen to me again. Now I'm smarter than that.