Do you ever forget your first love? 🥺?

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slatyb · Accepted Answer

I haven't forgotten any of them. I wish I could forget my ex-wife.

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

No never

SLRK3 · Answer

My first ever boyfriend and I was his first ever girlfriend. Well to put it clearly we were each others firsts in everything like kiss, hold hands, sex, prom, everything. On and off 5 years. From 8th grade to right after high school.

Well we reconnected 2 weeks ago and strong feelings flew and he wanted to be my boyfriend, convinced me to say yes to be his girlfriend and my excitement spread. Finally after 21 years off and on we are mature enough to see where this can go. No more wondering what ifs...

Til he moved out of his divorcees house and inwith his dad. 2 weeks in he broke up with the excuse that he doesn't want anyone to get hurt! My world shattered!! In high school I wanted to marry this guy. And I told him no turning back and he broke it off.

His dad is my dad's best friend and has been in his ear about not hurting g me emotionally or bad timing because he is still legally married. His dad doesn't want to se either go back and my dad be upset with my dad's best friends son. Though my dad will disown me before he would his friends son.

What do I do? I feel hurt and he only wants to be friends!! I don't want to just be friends!! I'm ready to see if this is just feelings or if it has meant to be our future. If our connection was meant to be US all along!!

ARE WE EACH OTHERS FUTURE THIS WHOLE TIME?

Yeah no. I'm still in love with mine!!

pickedcrisps · Answer

What's harder is meeting a spark after meeting that person's or getting sparks more than once in a lifetime. I've have two so far. Both times while single thankfully.

Strangely the second time was while some woman 😀😝😜🙄🙄🙄 was supposedly engaged. And she certainly seemed to be talking quite nicely and I did wonder whether it was just typical friendliness (I'm usually a chatterbox myself) or if it was just my incorrect vibes.

Or even maybe she was exploring the feeling but knowing it was not going to be acted on nor would it have eventuated so why.

Ah well. Needless to say I'm still here single today hahaha

TruthBringer · Answer

They will remain only a memory. Feelings will change and eventually disappear, but you won't forget them. And that is totally fine, because you're just going to live life without them and not be bothered by the thought of them. In fact, the memory of them will mean less and less overtime. This is especially true when you found someone else you love and happens to be better.

I cherish the memories I have with my current girlfriend much more than my memories I made with the first girl I loved.

Vikkrram · Answer

Yup , But it was hard to forget... it Tooked me around 1and a half years... to moove on. It always happens wid me , now this time Also when i am writing i am going through a same situation. It happens wid me all the time coz basically i am a shy guy... and for me it's hard to express my feelings. So people think that i am uninterested and they leave me. 😅

Jlegacy · Answer

I have long forgotten the first girl I had a thing for. Reason is I found my forever one. Also who I was and who I am now are different. I love who I am now. I was not as wise and confident as I am now and my esteem is full now. Then I would have loved anybody just to experience love. Now, if you are not perfect for me, nah.

Last love is my favorite and I found her.

humpbackjack · Answer

I wouldn’t say forget but you definitely get over them. There’s going to be found memories you’ll want to remember regardless of the bad ones which you’ll also remember it just won’t hurt anymore you might feel embarrassed or you my laugh at the bad ones but the important thing is to learn from them and avoid them

cth96190 · Answer

I wish that I could forget that evil cow.
Susan broke my heart on 17 December, 1978.
She began a process that left me psychologically incapable of loving a woman again.
My second love, Adrianne, completed the process when she murdered our baby in the womb, then dumped me and two months later was engaged to an older and much wealthier man.

Prakbio · Answer

Time is medicine for this.. I used to think that I will never forget her.. but with passage of time memories becomes cloudy.. completely forgot is different thing but you love others marry others and things change and may be with family you can forget.. I almost have forgot her now I know iths her birthday in this month but when I don't remember.. so yes that hurt feelings gets fade a
With passage of time

HOAAH · Answer

I still think of all my loves in the past. Even the brief crushes. It doesn't mean i want to be with them. It doesn't even mean that i am still in love with them. I just cling to the feelings i used to have that i felt when we were younger.

Anonymous · Answer

You may not forget them but they want to forget about you. Fuk her, she had someone else's kid and THEN gave it up for adoption what a fuking winner. I saved her life and this is the thanks I get well at least she was awesome in the sack.

kitty71 · Answer

My first love was my first and last love literally so I will never forget him and I will never forget it mostly because this guy passed away last year at 47.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I never forget people who were once significant in my life. However, I leave them in the past. I don't make it a point to think about them anymore.

FreyaRed · Answer

No but I wish I could. He was so cool in the school but after I dumped him, he yelled at night through a megaphone my name and how he loves me in front of my parents house.

helva · Answer

Never will forget. I was 5, we would marry and have 4 children: 2 boys and two girls. We were arguiing to know in what order.

Alyssa11 · Answer

What is a first love? Someone I loved or someone I was in a relationship with?  Either way I don’t care about both lol.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, she broke up with me, broke off our engagement, we went to the local magistrate's office she started issues and I ended them I almost went to jail over her so It was sad but it was for the best

Anonymous · Answer

Yes luckily, I barely think of him and that‘s awesome.
He was my first love yes but it was hella toxic plus he was lying all the time and cheating on me emotionally. Then after we broke up, he got with one of my closest friends. Never, again.

Browneye57 · Answer

You replace old memories with new ones... but the old ones don't just disappear.  If you truly loved someone you never forget them.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Yes because they're not in my life so what's the point?

es20490446e · Answer

No, because it was the shittiest period of my life by far. Happy to know that kind of crap could not happen to me again. Now I'm smarter than that.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Even if I find I spend too much time with this sex obsessed weirdo. There are moments I experienced with her which I didn't have with girls after her, that's why I won't forget her.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Forget in what sense? It's hard to forget the first person one loved. However in the sense of staying in love... I already moved on, I don't love him anymore.

just_a_potato · Answer

I forget all besides the first real one and my current obviously

bubblespopcorn · Answer

I fell in love with my ex, he didn’t fall for me. I’ll never forget that… No you don’t forget but it also depends on the situation

Rachelspiks · Answer

No, I'll never forget. I just wish things had turned out differently. :'(

Hermes-Paris · Answer

Absolutely. Well not totally. she is always there to remind me of the women men should avoid.

tatianamay · Answer

No, but I don't think about them. Past is past. Gotta concentrate on the present

DonkeyDan · Answer

If they really were a first love and not a passing fancy you won't forget them.

serious · Answer

Never had my first love and never wish to either. Hence not applicable.

t-8900 · Answer

no you dont. that was a milestone in your life. that said i have nothing positive to say about her.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

A first love is actually nothing special. Let's be honest. Your first experience, but they no longer have a purpose in your life

Wester1967 · Answer

No. It was an absolute nightmare that traumatized me for the next 30 years

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Yes we’re definitely over each other but we’re still friends we don’t talk as much but we’ll communicate periodically on social media. We don’t text.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Never had one. Whoever I end up with, if anyone at all, will be my first love. I feel sorry for her. Honestly. I hope i don't screw things up.

Chorki621 · Answer

My first love lasted 3 years and it was fantastic. Will never forget it. Now, years later we are still friends

Anonymous · Answer

No. First crush, first love, first anything. People don’t forget the first

Anonymous · Answer

I can't even tell the difference tbh. I had a platonic love and a first relationship love. The platonic love was more memorable for me tbh.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn’t forget her, but I forgot most of the things on daily basis. There are like 5 times I remember clearly what happened.

imfreeze95 · Answer

I have never had one love is over rated and kind of a bad joke

Deserter · Answer

Who you fall in love with seems so random. I feel nothing towards my first love

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest the first person I lived in a relationship I don’t think about. I can’t tell you much about her at all. Now the person I fell in love with the moment our eyes met; now that one I can tell you just about everything

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and when I was in high school, I fell platonically in love with a married shuttle driver with a son. but i think i forgot about that idiot.

TurningGraves · Answer

Unless one get amnesia, probably not.

Nomina · Answer

No 😌  Fond memories. He was precious.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

I’ve never had a first love

IveGotNoName · Answer

If it ends, I don't think I will, no.

Bluemax · Answer

I haven't forgotten any of my loves.

hahahmm · Answer

No. But that doesn't mean you want them back.

Nazgol · Answer

No but you have to try if you decided to move on

Fearlessegale · Answer

No I'm still with mines!

Janessa2021 · Answer

Nah I can't forget nothing I never knew

JennieF · Answer

No I don't think you do.

BlackElph · Answer

Forget no, get over Yes

DaviRon · Answer

Who cares high school shit

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah seeing as I'm still with her

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

no. My first true love is me. Easy to remember it.

t_time · Answer

No you don't

wlkin-n-tlkin1004 · Answer

No as much as you want to sometimes

postaldudePL123 · Answer

Still with her so no!

jimmy2 · Answer

I still wonder about her

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